The thing that made me break out laughing was trying to comprehend how someone who wants to be someone else's toilet seat can call someone else mentally unbalanced or accuse them of not having the proper upbringing. I aint perfect but I don't swallow other peoples' turds wholesale.

It certainly seems like I pissed off a few dommes.I always wanted to be gang banged in the ass by a group of angry women, so maybe now's my chance. Perhaps I should show up tmro at Gates or Fantasy Makers with my own strap-on and a wad of cash, tell them I'm Big Willly and ask who wants to go first. Please be gentle. If they can't laugh at that, f... 'em!

Good night fellow insomniacs!

However, I probably won't because I'm kinda fond of my penis and balls, and I'm sure these domme's we've disparaged are contemplating castration if they ever get their hands on us!

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Anyway, we should definitely let bygones be bygones. I'm tired of this infighting, when we should be working together to defeat the real Moral Majority out there. So, I offer my sincerest apologies.

Whatdya say, dommies dearest, can we kiss and make up?

I respect you and the choices you've made in your lifestyle!!!

Nor do I, but I sure won't ridicule someone else for the rituals they choose, so long as they're consensual and respect the needs of others, which sadly, not everyone is willing to do.
>
>It certainly seems like I pissed
>off a few dommes.I always
>wanted to be gang banged
>in the ass by a
>group of angry women, so
>maybe now's my chance. Perhaps
>I should show up tmro
>at Gates or Fantasy Makers
>with my own strap-on and
>a wad of cash, tell
>them I'm Big Willly and
>ask who wants to go
>first. Please be gentle. If
>they can't laugh at that,
>f... 'em!

Well, it may be true that you've done your share of pissing off Dommes, and at least one li'l sub, but I don't think it'll get you what you're suggesting.

Every kid from earliest childhood knows that if your parents ignore you, act out and piss them off. You won't get approval, but at least you'll get some attention. Adults sometimes forget to unlearn that strategy. Any Domme worth her salt knows better than to reward behavior that pisses her off...

I don't know about anyone/anyplace else, but if you want a good ass-reaming at Fantasy Makers, bring your harness if you wish, but be nice, be respectful, and just ask for it. The jerks, the ones who leave their senses of humor and proportion at home, tend to get ignored, excluded, and sent off to find someone who'll put up with them for mere money!

Actually, I think you just like to mess with people and see how they react. You and Anon can be real pains in the butt, but I don't think too many Dommes take it personally...

That comment of mine was a tit for tat. There's a lot of stuff in BDSM which I personally find just plain weird, and ordinarily I wouldn't say anything as someone else may find my fetishes strange, but if you review what preceded this, you'll find that us guys here on Redbook were being accused of a poor upbringing by someone who fancies himself as a human toilet. Now, if that isn't a case of the pot calling the kettle black, then I don't know what is.

Aside from that, and as a general comment, I think the people who are heavily into the BDSM scene sometimes (just to be healthy) need to step three feet back, get some perspective and perhaps get a much needed reality adjustment. In my opinion, BDSM is just a fantasy world, but some people seem to take it so seriously it's ridiculous. The Female Supremists tend to be the worst as far as this goes.

My comment about getting an ass reaming was purely a joke; I would hope that it was taken that way.

Nursing accomodations for felines?

ordinarily I
>wouldn't say anything as someone
>else may find my fetishes
>strange, but if you review
>what preceded this, <snip> a case of the
>pot calling the kettle black,
>
<snip>I think the
>people who are heavily into
>the BDSM scene sometimes (just
>to be healthy) need to
>step three feet back, get
>some perspective and perhaps get
>a much needed reality adjustment.
>In my opinion, <snip>
>some people seem to take
>it so seriously it's ridiculous.

I agree; one man's weird is another man's paradise. People who live in grass houses shouldn't stow thrones. If you find any marbles they're probably mine...but let's hang madly onto our senses of humor/proportion; that should save us from any overwhelming urge to be serious. On the other hand, remember that sometimes people create rituals (and fantasy scenarios ARE rituals) the way they create calluses, to cushion something that would otherwise be very painful. That makes it at least more understandable when they get so dead-serious about their rituals..
>
>My comment about getting an ass
>reaming was purely a joke;
>I would hope that it
>was taken that way.

Ass-reamings requested in Jest being repented in Retrospect? Next we'll be conceptualizing in Theory! I was hanged in Effigy once...it was quite amusing!

Be well.

I also thought she was much more attractive in person then her pics - but to each their own I guess.

Curious - do any of you guys talk socially with your dom after a scene, or is it just me?

.

Why can't we all just get along?

Lilith

http://www.ladylilith.com

Lilith, I'm with you! You'll never get an argument from ME on the topic of sharing extra time with client/friends...when I was doing another (sex-related) job, I set an all-time record for fines incurred for overtime "hanging-out" with my clients, and I'm proud of it. While there IS a need to balance socializing time with consideration for the next client booked, if he's waiting, or the need to keep phones answered, those things don't make it impossible for at least a little fraternization. And as you know, a pot of reasonably fresh coffee is one of our minimum standards for civilized life around here!

Debriefing a session is another matter. I believe that I have grown alot as a result of BDSM play. And I believe that I would have grown far less if I hadn't been able to discuss my sessions with the person I experienced them with.

>along?

Her face is cute and she is fat! End of story!

She has a normal, curvy figure and I think she looks beautiful. Just because someone has curves does not mean they are "fat"; in the pics, she looks strong and powerful.
http://www.vinylqueen.com/newphotos/newphotos.html

30% body fat and drooped shoulders from over carbohydrated diet. Check any medical dictionary you wish 30% body fat = fat* Also,very out of shape looking for her age and being as the whole thing revolves around vanity ,this is not good! reguardless of curves! 30% body fat is fat! sorry.

Just out of curiosity, Super_B, how did you find out VQ's BMI? Also, how did you find out that her diet is high in carbohydrates?

Here is a link to where I received three years of training in order to train:

http://www.nasm.org enjoy take some classes! let me know hoe this turns out!

If the best you can is to try and bash others by calling them obese, then you have a sorry life indeed. You aren't even close to being a professional in your field. This coming from a person who makes her profession at being extremely fit and not bashing others for things like their bodyweight and guessing what the dietary intake of others may be. Shame on you.

uhhhh,offended by your gurth no doubt! Uhhh, I have trained part time in several of the finest gyms in the U.S. for well over 20 years and competed as an athlete in various venues as well.....thnak you for you bash! Nice first post.If you need to loose fat just drop me a note and i'll help you. It is not obsessive you bafoon to think about ones health! You may try it,you'll probably feel better! 9125-)
>look thin.
>
>If the best you can is
>to try and bash others
>by calling them obese, then
>you have a sorry life
>indeed. You aren't even close
>to being a professional
>in your field. This coming
>from a person who makes
>her profession at being extremely
>fit and not bashing others
>for things like their bodyweight
>and guessing what the dietary
>intake of others may be.
>Shame on you.