Do any mistresses out there combine Tantra and BDSM? Is there any intersection of the two?
A little while ago I went to see a "Tantra" expert for a massage in which she spent most of the time going in and out of my butt with one finger (her hand was covered and she used lube). I almost came even though there was nothing touching my penis, although there was some deep breathing involved. However, it seemed a bit like strap-on play in BDSM, without the "I'm better than you worm" attitude that a top would have over a bottom.
I don't know anything about tantra, other than that I've gone through some of the adds, and noticed that "goddess worship" is something some tantra providers advertise. I don't know what that term means, but it sounds kinda BDSM-y, doncha think? I'm interested in the answer to this myself.