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DecadentDianne DecadentDianne rating
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"How many times have you been married?"
 
Once for me! Divorce is so rampant these days. Maybe if everyone was more faithful to their mates. I seen an ealier thread poll asking if it's ok to hobby while in a relationship. I say it is if you are smart enough to cover your tracks!

Have a Decadent Dianne day

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1. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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Sacrifice to the other is easier said than done. I failed once when I was really young but have also bombed in the intense but not married world too. Those feel almost the same; and perhaps differ only in their privacy as the marriage thing is really so much a public display.

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2. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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   Once for me.

Got married in 1979, she was diagnosed bi-polar somewhere along the way, life became more than she could handle, OD on depression meds June 2005.

We spent a quarter of a century together, it certainly had its ups and downs. I could have done without the pain, but it made me a far better person than I would have otherwise been.

I'm not sure if I'll get hitched again, I still have a few things to work through. Most of my memories of her are great, but there's still that haunting uncertainty......

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3. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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Never been married. Engaged once but due to circumstances beyond either of our control, it didn't happen.

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LaCourtesan01 LaCourtesan01 rating
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4. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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Only once here. Same old story married young. I'm matured and grew up he didn't. I made the choice to end it. Don't know what the future holds, but as of this moment I'm not planning to repeat the experience.

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montereybear montereybear rating
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5. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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LAST EDITED ON 20-Jan-10 AT 03:50 PM (PST)
 
Married twice, engaged to be married in June. A true glutton for punishment. DD, what you doing tonight?

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DecadentDianne DecadentDianne rating
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6. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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Let's "get off" of RB for a minute & go do something fun!

It's raining pretty bad in Southern Cali, I was at the beach today watching the waves pound ashore.

Have a Decadent Dianne Day

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summerrayne summerrayne rating
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7. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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"Hi. I'm 'Summer' and I'm a recovering serial bride."

"HI SUMMERRR!!!!"

xoxo Summer

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DonkeyHotee DonkeyHotee rating
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8. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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LOL Summer was your wedding gown made with velcro?

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summerrayne summerrayne rating
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10. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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Heyyyyyy I never thought of THAT!

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

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9. "Zero..."
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   " I've never had a 'bad' orgasm "

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Farrah88 Farrah88 rating
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11. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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LAST EDITED ON 08-Feb-10 AT 11:41 PM (PST)
 
Last response as I'm off to bed. I can admit married three times and I filed for all three divorces. I also, would never ever cheat if I was in a relationship. WTF would I want to be with someone and go lay down with someone else?

I can't lie good and its too hard to cover my tracks.

When I love I love hard, and I would never ever cheat... This I swear on the bible and my family... I'm so passionate about this subject that I better STFU> Peace out

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rookieplayuh rookieplayuh rating
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15. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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   "WTF would I
want to be with someone and go lay down with someone else?"

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CLingus
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25. "More personal info?"
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What is going on here?

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dj57 dj57 rating
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12. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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   2, too many , just kidding.

First wife didn't want to get help, she was bi-polar, manic-depressive, borderline schizophrenic, lasted 17 years. Second wife, she was DDG, totally selfish and greedy, as well as violent if encroached , lasted 9 years. What can I say, I'm a glutten for punishment

ps. I do actually have many fond memories of our years together, and those will never die , as well as many children and grandchildren who love me and are some of my bestest of friends

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Farrah88 Farrah88 rating
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13. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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I always knew when It was time for a divorce, as their breathing began to get on my nerves.

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Hatter Hatter rating
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14. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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   I don't believe it is any more "rampant" than it was 25 years ago. In fact there is some recent (even if still being questioned) research suggesting that the trend line is decreasing.

But, to answer the question... I am striving to make "been" the past tense.

Hatter
...mad as a...

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SolarBear SolarBear rating
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16. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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None...and no plans to change that anytime soon.


<Solar Bear>

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Rocco32
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17. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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Never, came close a few times. In my late 20's and early 30's had lots of friends getting married then late 30's and early 40's most got divorced. One point had 9 people I associate with going through it and suffering. All that said, easier to consider as I have grown older and more settled.

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18. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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Isn't being married once or currently married torture enough??
281

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Farrah88 Farrah88 rating
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22. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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>Isn't being married once or currently married torture
>enough??
>281


If you find your best friend that is awesome. The hard thing is people change all the time, and if one person changes and the other doesn't you can go in different directions.

Being married isn't torture if you find the right person. I tell you one thing I would rather be happy and alone then miserable and with someone.

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26. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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I'll tell you what though, I live in California and the "law" is NOT too kind to men.
281

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theplebe
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19. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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   Married once, now dating a provider for the past 4 years.

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culo
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20. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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One time to many.

culo is a culo

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DecadentDianne DecadentDianne rating
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21. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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I'm not cut out for marriage. I wouldn't mind giving it another try someday! LOL

Have a Decadent Dianne Day

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montereybear montereybear rating
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23. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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married twice, divorced twice. currently engaged. im a serial marryer.

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24. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 07-Jul-10 AT 11:37 PM (PST)
 
We're still friends.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_qxU82mNaI8


Shouldn't Have Happened.....Shouldn't Have Happened

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p4l4J4YcTUY

Is it too much to ask
I want a comfortable bed that won't hurt my back
Food to fill me up
And warm clothes and all that stuff
Shouldn't I have this
Shouldn't I have this
Shouldn't I have all of this, and

Passionate kisses
Passionate kisses, whoa oh oh
Passionate kisses from you

Is it too much to demand
I want a full house and a rock and roll band
Pens that won't run out of ink
And cool quiet and time to think
Shouldn't I have this
Shouldn't I have this
Shouldn't I have all of this, and

Passionate kisses
Passionate kisses, whoa oh oh
Passionate kisses from you

Do I want too much
Am I going overboard to want that touch
I shout it out to the night
"Give me what I deserve, 'cause it's my right"
Shouldn't I have this (shouldn't I)
Shouldn't I have this (shouldn't I)
Shouldn't I have all of this, and

Passionate kisses
Passionate kisses, whoa oh oh
Passionate kisses from you
Passionate kisses
Passionate kisses, whoa oh oh
Passionate kisses from you

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thedoctor42
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27. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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   I've been married once, and I've been divorced once. I still love my ex, but she had some mental and chemical dependancy issues that were just too much to have around my kids. She's a wonderful person that just had too much to deal with to be a parent. I now have full custody of my children and raise them as a single dad. I have good relationship with my ex who does the best that she can to keep a good realtionship with my two daughters. She sees them as often as she can while keeping herself together. I haven't remarried partly because I haven't found the right person, partly because I don't have the time to find the right person, and partly because I don't want my kids to go through losing someone else if things didn't work out. I won't say that I'll never get married again, but I doubt that it will be anytime soon.

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29. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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   Same exact experience as thedoctor42 except I have two sons instead of daughters. Thats why I visit Providers, my boys don't need to lose me to a relationship, they've lost enough already. Will consider getting married again after they are out of the house, but not untill then, then good by RB and off to a new chapter.

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28. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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Married once, divorced with no kids. Just didn't work out.

I would marry again, but only for the right woman. I guess I'm still looking

However, I have dated, had girlfriends, but nothing seems to mesh well except for the one that I let get away because I thought the grass was greener on the other side. Turns out it wasn't.

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30. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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Married twice, divorced twice. First one left because she felt her life going in a different direction. Second one was just a lazy b--ch. Still owes me $$$ from court ordered settlement, so I have a ton of liens filed against her. Fool me one, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

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31. "RE: How many times have you been married?"
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   Maybe this should be a poll?

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