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usefulidiot usefulidiot rating
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"When it isn't enough..."
 
   I currently have one gal I spend more time with than the rest....she has become my "main" gal. She does it every-which-way but loose, I mean everything, great bj, swallows, even takes it in the ass whenever I desire, sex as many times a day as I like....but it still isn't good enough for me. This woman is one of the greatest "pleasers" I've ever come across (no pun intented), and she is great in the looks dept. as well. The only thing she doesn't do...is let me see other gals, she is a one man type of gal. Believe me, if I could pick JUST one, it would be her. Recently, I've had it good cause I was seeing a few gals who knew I'd be dipping it in other women, and they seemed o.k. with it cause they had other things (kids, work, hubby) going on in their lives.

I guess I'm just fucked up, from a divorce, and this hobby. Nothing can and will replace the feeling/satisfaction of fucking a variety of different women....NOTHING. Once one gets "used" to having the variety, it is difficult, if not impossible to go back to just one.....thoughts???

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tra4fun tra4fun rating
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1. "RE: When it isn't enough..."
In response to message #0
 
BULLSHIT!

Spare the members at large your ridiculous rants will you please?

You're so full of crap it's just gone too far beyond any possible reality.

tra

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Fernleyguy Fernleyguy rating
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2. "RE: When it isn't enough..."
In response to message #1
 
   I think it depends on your basic personality.

I tend to be a one-woman-man. Sure, I like to play the field, but if I could find a gal like you described, I'd settle down with her, and I think I'd be content.

When my wife was still alive, she was bi-polar. On her up-cycle, our sex life was pretty good. I was completely content with her, but when she was on the down part of her cycle, I'd chase just about anything that even resembled a female.

I think there certainly are guys out there who cannot be pleased by only one gal though. And more than a few gals too! This is one of the many reasons why this hobby not only exists, but thrives.

If only we could convince a few political and religious leaders that this tendency might possible be an actual need, and not just a desire......

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Rockout Rockout rating
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13. "RE: When it isn't enough..."
In response to message #2
 
"I tend to be a one-woman-man. Sure, I like to play the field, but if I could find a gal like you described, I'd settle down with her, and I think I'd be content."

So would he if this were anything remotely close to true.

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Herb408 Herb408 rating
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4. "RE: When it isn't enough..."
In response to message #1
 
   >BULLSHIT!
>
>Spare the members at large your ridiculous rants will you
>please?
>
>You're so full of crap it's just gone too far beyond any
>possible reality.

I well know UI's history around here, and am skeptical about much of what he writes, but I think this particular attack is more about his past posings than it is about the present one. Forget about the implied bragging -- his basic point is valid IMO. Generally speaking, we crave variety, and even when we have a really great thing going, it's too often not enough, and we still want the strange.

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5. "RE: When it isn't enough..."
In response to message #4
 
Oh Herbert, Herbert, Herbert,

That would be IF you actually believe one iota.

Which I personally do NOT.

So, there ya go.

tra

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10. "inconceivable, but..."
In response to message #4
 
   to my utter amazement, and even after re-reading it, I find myself in agreement with a Herb post.

/looks out window to check for flying pigs

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7. "More sex, less jealousy, is the answer, lol"
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   Make her job easier-be a fuckable john.

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3. "RE: When it isn't enough..."
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Give her my number and get the fuck out of the way.

culo is a culo

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thruxton thruxton rating
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6. "RE: When it isn't enough..."
In response to message #0
 

>
>I guess I'm just fucked up, from a divorce, and this hobby.
>Nothing can and will replace the feeling/satisfaction of
>fucking a variety of different women....NOTHING.

well, so there is your diagnosis and prescription. as long as you are honest with your civilians then no harm no foul. nothing wrong with being "fucked up" as long as you are at peace with it. it's only if you lie that you move from fucked up to evil.

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8. "Your problem, I had,"
In response to message #0
 
   I had the same problem as you. Without going into many details it
comes down to this, you are a SEX ADDICT. I know cause I was one
for a very long time, it took a serious event in my life to
change it.

Like all addictions, you will first have to admit you have a problem and what it is, then you will have to want to change. Until then
that's the way it is.

As for girlfriend who does it all, I would love to me her, and
can be Ok with just one person now.

Good luck....THX

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9. "RE: Your problem, I had,"
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   I was single for years and would go to strip clubs and AMPs often, it was a rush for me to bang a new girl for the first time! After I had them, I had no desire to see them again and always wanted new, then I met my current GF and I still wanted something new but as our relationship grew and my feelings for her grew I stated feeling guilty about going to AMPs but it is very hard not to go! It's confusing for me as well but I am trying to slow down my trips to AMPs and eventually stop!! My lady tries hard to please me and she salutes the helmet like a soldier but IMO being with the same person, the excitement dies slowly! I wonder if she feels the same way? God, I hope not!

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11. "RE: Your problem, I had,"
In response to message #9
 
>I was single for years and would go to strip clubs and AMPs
>often, it was a rush for me to bang a new girl ...

i'm single again and i am experimenting with nothing. i agree that it is a complete rush to bang on sweet, young girls for only $$

but if i fall back into that, then i know i won't ever be right in the head for developing a normal lust-heart relationship. i'm not saying that monogamy is everything, just that it's something that i think can give to a more fulfilling life (for me). if you don't need that to feel like you are living a complete life, then this is a great time for you to be alive. the bay area has the best selection of any place i could imagine. fresh young meat, bang bang bang. tempting as hell but i'm out of that game (we'll see for how long ha ha)

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12. "RE: Your problem, I had,"
In response to message #11
 
   Good luck buddy!!! I'm gonna try also, but if I keep lookin at this site everyday, I might fall temptation!!!!

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14. "RE: Your problem, I had,"
In response to message #12
 
   LAST EDITED ON 29-Jun-10 AT 06:17 PM (PST)
 
I'm also amazed at the Herb post as well as I've somehow accumulated 41 points...anyway, I don't know if I'm a sex addict as much as I'm a sex addict with a variety of women. THis gal gives me all the sex I want, so if I was only a sex addict, I would be fine with just her......but I want other gals when I've had my fill of philly #1. I can be around her for 3-4 days, but they I find myself blowing her off so I can get to the gals. So I guess I'm more addicted to the variety....

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