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SactoDawg SactoDawg rating
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"It just goes to show you... You never know, until you know!"
 
Ok, Been married for 20 years, some of you know that already. Just this year at Christmas time. I bought the Mrs a "Nasty Bag", you know.. Lingerie, Oils and THAT TROJAN VIBTRATOR!

So this morning, before leaving for work, I got the Mrs all worked up and horny... She say's "AH GREAT, Now I gotta go take care of this!" (sorry guys, couldn't strike while the fire was hot today..), But I knew what she meant.

Now, She text'd me at work letting me know that she took care of the situation, and I started a suggestive repore as to playing with toys and watching, sucking toes and all that jazz, etc....

I am now wondering, if I might just go out and buy her another toy, either personal or shared, but I can't for the life of me decide what to get her and I want it to be a surprise.

So, Girls, Guys, Whoever... Do you all have any suggestions?

One this I know for sure... She has always hated those LARGER THAN LIFE" Toys, so please leave those out.

Thanks for listening

If quizzes are quizzical, what are test?

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1. "RE: It just goes to show you... You never know, until you know!"
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Ya can't go wrong with a Bullet (portable) or a Jackrabbit (multi- speed/ function although it can appear kind of intimidating to a novice toy girl) For a shared toy, look for the Fukoa (sp?) 2000 glove, little vibes in each fingertip.

Enjoy Sacto!


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2. "RE: It just goes to show you... You never know, until you know!"
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   Try a vibrating cock ring. They're usually inexpensive so if you both decide you're not into it- no big investment lost.
Why should she have all the fun?

xoxo
MB

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3. "RE: It just goes to show you... You never know, until you know!"
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   Define larger than life. If it is just a dildo that is bigger than normal physical size, then perhaps you shouldn't go the dildo route at all.

Perhaps in conjunction with the Trojan vibe on the finger on the inside, perhaps the tried and true Hitachi magic wand on the outside.
http://www.buy.com/prod/hitachi-hv250r-magic-wand-massager/q/listingid/57232792/loc/111/211536464.html

...maybe even the seat
http://www.amazon.com/Love-Seat-Accessory-Magic-Wand/dp/B001TJ4O9O

You know this could start with a kiss, a blindfold and a sit-down (on the seat). I'm pretty sure you can figure out the rest from there.

I don't know if this would be larger than life according to her definition (or yours), but it can be spun as a "personal pampering device".

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4. "RE: It just goes to show you... You never know, until you know!"
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   http://www.sls-amg-special.com/com/en

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5. "RE: It just goes to show you... You never know, until you know!"
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My hubby bought a gift for me that is shaped like an egg and is a vibrator that the lady puts up inside her while the man has a remote control and can turn it off and on and to different speeds at his pleasure. It's fun to be out in public and all of a sudden get a nice vibration going on. I never know when he's going to pleasure me when I have it in me.

Glad to hear that you are trying to work things out with your wife. Try sending her some suggestive emails along with the texting.

Luvs2

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6. "RE: It just goes to show you... You never know, until you know!"
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couldn't agree more with these suggestions.

my GF & i do these kinds of things almost daily. every night she wears some sexy lingerie. 2-3 nights a week are slut night where she wears something really wild; usually sends me pics, too.

once you're in, it's hard to get out.

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7. "RE: It just goes to show you... You never know, until you know!"
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Well......
She hated the Screaming O cock ring...

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8. "RE: It just goes to show you... You never know, until you know!"
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   How about this for an idea . . .

Buy her a gift certificate to one of those adult toy parties (like Tupperware but with Vibrators). She can sit in the confines of like minded women (or perhaps a visit by herself if she is too shy/conscious/timid) and begin to think outside her boundaries within relative safety (without any pressure from you) to figure out what is right for her. Afterwards, in her need to control as previously indicated in other posts, she can then show you how to play with her toy. As an aside, you could arrange to have her best girlfriend give her the gift certificate so there is absolutely no fear from you.

Or . . .
Maybe it's time to take a trip down from Sac to the sinful city for a seminar at Good Vibes. http://www.goodvibes.com/content.jhtml?id=New-Valencia-Good-Vibes-Events

The Polk street location seems to have pretty good seminars but the neighborhood might be a bit much (depending on your wife's safety and boundary issues-gay phobias).

Good Luck with whatever option(s) work.

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9. "RE: It just goes to show you... You never know, until you know!"
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So,

We're getting hot and horny this weekend. She had real sore shoulder so I started massaging her. one thing led to another and I ended up with her TROJAN VIBE in her twat, My other finger in her ass, got her off about a bazillion times.

Makes me wonder... She Hates the Cock Ring but Likes the Trojan. Damn near the same thing. Isn't it????


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10. "RE: It just goes to show you... You never know, until you know!"
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Yea! You made love to your wife! Now that's progress!

Luvs2

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11. "RE: It just goes to show you... You never know, until you know!"
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Yes Lovestogivehead

But my question is not quite answered yet.

What is the difference between her Trojan Vibe on my finger and the Screaming O cock ring she hates?

Both vibrate the same,, I justdon't get it.

I am starting to wonder if it is just a control thing (not bad), But I starting to think (understand) that, She just likes being in control.

The Bad part is: "ALL THE TIME"

Anybody want to chime in on that one?

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