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DecadentDianne DecadentDianne rating
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"Ladies, would you quit for a relationship & are U Jaded?"
 
Just curious. I have so much up in the air. I'm planning someday to quit the massage business. I don't know if I'm jaded but could be by this business? It's hard to explain. Remember I'm a complicated Scorpio!

Have a Decadent Dianne Day

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1. "RE: Ladies, would you quit for a relationship & are U Jaded?"
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   I would not quit a job that I LOVE to have a relationship. the relationship would have to work around my business!
probably why I'm still single huh!

Heather/Your Pleasure is My Pleasure..

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2. "RE: Ladies, would you quit for a relationship & are U Jaded?"
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I've quit for a guy before. So not worth it if you ask me. I'm not jaded either. I like what I do. I missed it when I quit and I felt trapped. In the end I felt like I gave up the best years of my life for nothing. But, thats just my 2 cents on the matter....
xoxo
Amoni

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culo
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1044 posts		 08-Aug-10, 06:08 PM (PST)
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7. "RE: Ladies, would you quit for a relationship & are U Jaded?"
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   >I've quit for a guy before. So not worth it if you ask me.
>I'm not jaded either. I like what I do. I missed it when I
>quit and I felt trapped. In the end I felt like I gave up
>the best years of my life for nothing. But, thats just my 2
>cents on the matter....

I agree. I settled down with a stripper for a few years. What a waste of time. Think of all those girls I passed on. Never again.

culo is a culo

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3. "RE: Ladies, would you quit for a relationship & are U Jaded?"
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YES

I actually AM quitting this business for a relationship with the man of my dreams!!!

Will it be hard? yes
Will it be worth it? DEFINITELY


Moving & retiring to MA. 12/24

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9. "RE: retiring with a man to MA 12/24"
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   First stop: Home Depot for a snow shovel to give him. If he hands it back to you, flee back out here

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10. "RE: retiring with a man to MA 12/24"
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lol


Moving & retiring to MA. 12/24

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4. "RE: Ladies, would you quit for a relationship & are U Jaded?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 08-Aug-10 AT 01:25 AM (PST)
 
Is it about being jaded or there is something hard to explain that is somewhat rewarding beside the obvious ones?

and somewhere in your mind you think "why do I have to quit just to alleviate this man's insecurity / jealousy.. why can't he be more mature and accept my career which is part of me?

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DecadentDianne DecadentDianne rating
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5. "RE: Ladies, would you quit for a relationship & are U Jaded?"
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Ok, it's not that hard to explain! I love this job. I could fall for a guy or maybe already have. I'm just trippin' because he might judge me. But hey where did he find me? Cast no judgement on me then my lover!

Have a Decadent Dianne Day

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6. "RE: Ladies, would you quit for a relationship & are U Jaded?"
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LAST EDITED ON 08-Aug-10 AT 01:14 PM (PST)
 
As many know, I met my best friend about 8 months into "the business" on my bowling league.

After I complete the next 500 hours on top of my existing CMT and start working with health plans, I will take down my escort ad and focus on the therapeutic and FBSM part of my business only.

Both of my current ads are essentially the same anyway.

For me, being in love only changed the way I emotionally compartmentalize my business and the elimination of FS on my "menu".

I've never been taken care of.

Not only would be bored - I would not be happy in any partnership if I didn't feel I was contributing at least half of our combined earnings.

I would also feel somewhat powerless. I always made as much as the men I partnered with in the past.

Until I came here due to economy, I worked in the straight world since my first paycheck job at the age of 15.

However, after my arrival in the FBSM world, I discovered a love for the healing art of massage therapy.

My personal goal is to have a more "normal (subjective I know) life."

I know will always be involved the healing arts in some form or another.

But I could honestly go the rest of my life without anyone trying to stick something in my @ss or saying to me,

"I really don't care about the massage-part. How much to just get off?"

F*** all that. lol

Whether or not my business continues to contain sexual or even SENSUAL components has always been MY decision.

The only thing my **J** ever asked was that I not have actual sexual intercourse with anyone else but him.

Like some of the other girls have said, I think if someone asked me to give up the business altogther - I would feel "trapped" and ulitmately unfulfilled.

Personally, I would start backing away from that kind of proposed partnership.

I would not give years of my life to someone while unable to put away for my own retirement - unless they were legally bound to do so.

Under no circumstances would I "financially free-fall" for ANYONE.

However, you truly enjoy the healing art of massage - just set up your own therapeutic massage practice without the sexual/sensual components and you can still make a really good living.

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

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Mrgetsome24 Mrgetsome24 rating
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8. "RE: Ladies, would you quit for a relationship & are U Jaded?"
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I think that you made a great choice.Go for it and be happy doing so.

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