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POLL: From the RB panel: Which ethnicity is willing to marry someone just for old fashion love and devotion. Not rich but good enough; not beautiful, just average-attractive; no mansion but it is a 3bdrm ,2.5 bathrm.
Posted by golfscotland on 28-Jun-10, 07:24 PM PST
Result after a total of 20 votes

Caucasian 9 votes, 45% Vote for this choice
Black 3 votes, 15% Vote for this choice
Latina 5 votes, 25% Vote for this choice
South East Asian No votes Vote for this choice
Oriental 1 votes, 5% Vote for this choice
Indian 1 votes, 5% Vote for this choice
Native American 1 votes, 5% Vote for this choice

 
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arbiez_temp arbiez_temp rating
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1. "RE: From the RB panel: Which ethnicity is willing to marry someon"
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   LAST EDITED ON 29-Jun-10 AT 01:00 PM (PST)
 
gs,

I don't think you can make any meaningful or measurable analysis of this based on ethnicity or race. This is not a cultural-based initiative or behavior. Furthermore, you can have two sisters living under the same roof and raised with the same morals from the same parents who have entirely different outlooks on relationships. (from any race or ethnic background)

As for the other argument of US vs. non-US (a seemingly 'natural' segue from your premise), there are many who would argue that many a nice, sweet "girl" from _____ become intolerable once they are empowered to leave.

So what are we left with . . .
Youth?: Maybe as there are many who believe in "love conquers all" in a innocent/romantic fantasy.
Optimism?: You'll probably find love more prevalent in a "glass is half full" person.
Socio-economic?: A lot of poorer people will accept less as a standard. However, ghetto fabulous behavior reigns in the age of "bling". (regardless of ethnicity)
Spiritual?: Well there is that old expression, "Marry a good church-going girl". However, do you think you'll have a good sex life if sex is always viewed as a mortal sin and the sole purpose for sex is to have babies? (one could expand on this by bringing up rules based on an agrarian society, but that veers off-topic)
Behavioral?: (murky territory and I don't think I can articulate without a bias, so I won't expand)

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2. "RE: From the RB panel: Which ethnicity is willing to marry someon"
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   Well, it's certainly not them Orientals, with their slanty eyes and all.

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3. "RE: From the RB panel: Which ethnicity is willing to marry someon"
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   What brought this post about was when I was introduced to a married couple:
She is a beautiful, college educated American Caucasian and her husband is an average(bookworm) looking, foreign born, heavy accent store clerk.

Shemp Howard with glasses marrys Julie Andrews. A love story.

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4. "RE: From the RB panel: Which ethnicity is willing to marry someon"
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depends....

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7. "RE: From the RB panel: Which ethnicity is willing to marry someon"
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   So what?
Maybe he's a demon in the bedroom. Maybe he has other fantastic characteristics you don't know about. Maybe she has character deficiencies you don't know about. Maybe she's hot for bookworms and foreign accents. What's wrong with being a store clerk, and what's so wonderful about a college degree? I know tons of people with college degrees who have less clue or initiative than those without, but feel entitled. Maybe her parents paid her college fees and maybe he couldn't afford it. etc.
Sounds like you're generalizing based on a snap judgment.

Generalizing to ethnicities is silly, I have known people of all ethnicities who did and did not marry for love.

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oralio oralio rating
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5. "RE: From the RB panel: Which ethnicity is willing to marry someon"
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This is not an issue that can be defined by race.

Be the change
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6. "RE: From the RB panel: Which ethnicity is willing to marry someon"
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LAST EDITED ON 01-Jul-10 AT 00:29 AM (PST)
 
Race doesn't play a part but culture does. Look at the US Census. Mexican American women had a lower rate of divorce in the past...

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8. "RE: From the RB panel: Which ethnicity is willing to marry someon"
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As someone very familiar with mexican women, I see that. But one must ask how much catholic influence has too, which would apply to american born italians and irish catholics.

But willingness to divorce and attraction to marriage can be very different things.

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9. "RE: From the RB panel: Which ethnicity is willing to marry someon"
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I don't know, if you can define it by race. But I'll take a stab at this and say Filipinas(Southeast Asian). I guess I'm biased to plug them because I am one. Yet its true. You'll have to be energized to be romantic which comes naturally to us. We are open to interracial love...I've begun to date Filipinas after delving into the interracial thing the past couple of years. I kinda missed out on a bit. But you'll love their warmth in personality, and it always comes at a price. BTW, I like how used Oriental on the list lol. Forgot about those Thai ladies, they are cool too.


This is probably my tops of Filipinas, I just love her eyes. It does it for me, with any race though.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Dikbq0oXMY


Live. Love. Play. Relax.

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10. "RE: From the RB panel: Which ethnicity is willing to marry someon"
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I like a pinay woman and the attraction is mutual but she has a four-year-old daughter. I worry that her daughter will have daddy issues and/or tell me "your not my father" as a rebellious teenager.

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11. "RE: From the RB panel: Which ethnicity is willing to marry someon"
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Ha ha ha nice. "Pinay", you are a Hip, Hip, dude. Ah, isn't life grand with its imperfect nuances....but those little challenges always makes a relationship worthwhile....it depends on how you treat your lady (I guess that holds true with any race), and if you would love her daughter, as if she were your own. I think the acceptance and respect will grow in time. I don't think race would be a factor. I have a friend who is also Filipino(pinoy) and his step dad was white. He calls him dad. Its all about the support you give. Best of luck in your relationship, and may it be a happy one.

Time for me to get blazed. Where's my blunt? Breaker breaker, out.


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