So the related question is... How many of you married (or other with significant others) mongers with attractive sexless wives or partners do share activities together ? I.e... Bike ride, play golf or tennis, jog together as examples... More over why did we let it stop after we got comfortable. Our women and many men naturally forget that we are physical need beings and once released from that interaction, they move on to other interests.

Given my own needs and assocated guilt, I have taken a new tack. Firstly know that I am a seasonal monger at best who lives in a gray area of sexual duality. Recently, I have begun to try regain my sexual life within my own relationship. I have now put my active couple activity into shared physical recreation twice a week... Bike rides, tennis and jogging together.  My intial results have been mixed. In the last 3 months, I've gotten laid 5 times. That's more than entire last year and without begging. Pathetic yes. Improvement - certainly. I do have to say also - I no longer fuck in bed. When the moment is now and the house quiet - I now just take and fill her as she moves to met me. The effects have been profound as my partner now has begun to be restored to the old girlfriend status. She even has begun to respond in a more nurturing way (not as much as I'd hoped but better) and thinks of my needs more.  Besides bettering my own physical condition, I last longer, dick is harder and even have good conversation while taking a breather while screwing in the kitchen.  Who'd thought?     

Bravo.

I could rant about marriage issues and RB, but it's all been said for now.

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