They probably want to meet regular guys who don't know anything about this world or judge them by it accordingly.

They probably want someone to laugh with, hang out - watch movies with in their sweats with no make up on, someone to take walks with while their kids ride their bicycles, BBQ with, go camping with and eventually meet their parents.

Providers like the comfort and RELAXATION of not feeling COMPELLED via de facto "contract" to share themselves SEXUALLY in relation to another human being all the time.

They do NOT enjoy being viewed through a sexual filter 24/7.

If they DO - it's because they are most likely driven by insecurities that keep them in the constant hunt for personal validation in this particular manner.

Relaxation and a true RELATIONSHIP came only come by a person not feeling like they have to be "ON" all the time.

If you were a professional comedian - would you want your SO to bug you all time asking,
"TELL ME A JOKE! 'MAKE ME LAUGH - say something FUNNY !"

Many providers who have tried dating clients have found out the hard way (myself included - in the begining)...

A. The guys that want to "DATE YOU FOR REAL just want "free sex" and/or want to leach off you because of your profession.

B. Don't REALLY want to invest in a REAL LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP.

C. Don't want to let a just girl sit there on the couch (totally not thinking about/wanting to have sex with you), want to watch stand-up comedy with her in her pj's-no make-up on, dinner in the oven, kids running around the house in her "off-hours" etc.

GO FOR IT!

Personally, every time I tried to date one of my clients (who asked), to date me "FOR REAL" - the whole time I kept thinking,

"WILL YOU PUHHHLEEEZE STOP TRYING TO TOUCH MY VAGINA FOR FIVE MINUTES!! ARRGGHHH!"

So if you're interested in what I mentioned in the first paragraph and aren't bothered in the least by her current profession (she'll make adjustments for you in her services or quit altogether if she falls in love with you) -

like I said -

by all means,

Hit her up!

However,

If you agree with A, B & C ---

do the girl a favor and -

PLEASE DON'T!!

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo