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"Franken husband or wife (Frankenstein's Monster husband or wife)"
 
   LAST EDITED ON 09-Aug-10 AT 08:51 PM (PST)
 
A veteran ( now on hiatus) provider coined this word.

Franken husband (Frankenstein's Monster husband)

To have relationships with multiple lovers each with different functions i.e emotional needs, sex, comradery, business management, creativity, childcare, tech support, money, food, drug etc ( like the monsters body ) and forming super husband or wife as a group.

Each person who serves a function will get some other favor / resource in return ( if the relationship is not equitable that unit will drop out)

Each unit has its own web of support respectively.

As a result, creating larger web of reciprocal support.

Married hobbyists are already doing this in limited way and so are their wives and so are many providers.

In the culture of short attention span and fast networking, isn't this a more ideal model for long term relationship?

I think it is already happening. But what if all parties involved approached this consciously and with commitment of ongoing long term relationship?


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1. "RE: Franken husband or wife (Frankenstein's Monster husband or wi"
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   “To have relationships with multiple lovers each with different functions i.e emotional needs, sex, comradery, business management, creativity, childcare, tech support, money, food, drug etc ( like the monsters body ) and forming super husband or wife as a group.”

I had thought of something like this, only at a more shallow level. I was still thinking at the level of the physical body. I used to occasionally look to different providers for their different various assets; chose one provider for her tits, another for her sweet ass, another for her blowjob technique, another for the DDG face, and another for her sweet pussy. And then I thought, what if you could take all these various parts and skills and put them all together in on uber-whore. That’s the one I want. And if you can ever find one that possesses all the best qualities, consider yourself lucky. I know I do.

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2. "RE: Franken husband or wife (Frankenstein's Monster husband or wi"
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If you find her...see if she has a sister for me!!

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3. "RE: Franken husband or wife (Frankenstein's Monster husband or wi"
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What a wonderful concept. Is this polyamory?

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Ray
I can't help it, I LIKE sex!

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4. "RE: Franken husband or wife (Frankenstein's Monster husband or wi"
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   As I posted in some other thread, the words monogamy and monotony are too close together. Polyamory is a new one I haven't heard before, and it has a nice ring to it.

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   LAST EDITED ON 07-Sep-10 AT 11:35 PM (PST)
 


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6. "RE: Franken husband or wife (Frankenstein's Monster husband or wi"
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   LAST EDITED ON 08-Sep-10 AT 00:25 AM (PST)
 
Actually Polyamory is different.

I used to post quite alot on polyamory board in other non biz site.

Polyamory emphasizes the importance of super open and honest primary relationship and only others are added in their play circle when mutually agreed as " secondary"

I don't know if " You may only fuck a person I approve" is really an open relationship.

They are adamantly against cheating and demonize prostitution

They are too rigid to my taste, and even their author guru who wrote " Ethical Slut" was criticized harshly by her followers when she confided about a discreet relationship with a married man as a rare exception. Women are especially suspicious and hateful against sex workers as sex workers could fuck their partners incognito.

Plus there is some level of hypocrisy, since there is good amount of cheating going regardless of their ideal openness. Hence
the fear of cheating.

IMHO some provider client couples I came to know are light years ahead of polyamory folks.

Each of the Frankenstein partners is more spontaneous less committed but are connected with mutual trust and in the best of scenario..unconditionally loving and accepting of his / her lovers freedom from the very beginning.

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