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colditalianpizzza colditalianpizzza rating
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220 posts, 3 feedbacks, 5 points		 15-Aug-10, 03:58 PM (PST)
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"Should I be happy or depress?"
 
   My ATF is now married with a kid, yet I am still in the same situation when she was my ATF. I know I will have to move on and that fantasy is gone forever. The right thing to say is, " I am happy for her." but why am I feeling so sad, hurt, and depress!?

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Mrgetsome24 Mrgetsome24 rating
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709 posts, 4 feedbacks, 5 points		 15-Aug-10, 04:13 PM (PST)
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1. "RE: Should I be happy or depress?"
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Well it seems that she was your ATF for more than just a couple reasons and what your feeling is probably not so different then what other guys on here have felt in that situation with some attatchment like yours.Yes, just be happy for her.Alot easier said no doubt.

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oryx oryx rating
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3087 posts, 128 feedbacks, 247 points		 15-Aug-10, 04:38 PM (PST)
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2. "RE: Should I be happy or depress?"
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Agreed, with Getsome. Do be happy for her and see if you can find a new ATF. There are tons and tons to choose from here. Or better yet get a real GF from the real world.

And let me add this -- doesn't it make you happy, too, that she's not sucking and fucking dozens of strange dirty dicks everyday? [exaggerating a little there for effect] Well, I'll just assume that you didn't use to get a kick out of her doing that before.


-Oryx

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culo
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1053 posts		 15-Aug-10, 06:46 PM (PST)
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3. "RE: Should I be happy or depress?"
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   > The right thing to say
>is, " I am happy for her." but why am I feeling so sad,
>hurt, and depress!?

Dude, you dodged a bullet, count your blessings. Tell her best wishes and find a new girl to fixater on. Better yet, never repeat, anf you will avoid getting stuck in a rut again.

culo is a culo

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CLingus
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1183 posts		 15-Aug-10, 07:00 PM (PST)
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4. "Get a grip"
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Shut up, move on, quit whining.

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oralio oralio rating
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5. "calling rockout"
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This is the perfect question for rockout's imitable life coaching skills.

Be the change
you wish to see

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thetakeover thetakeover rating
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6. "RE: Should I be happy or depress?"
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There is this guy somewhere around here, who falls all the time with a hooker, you should inbox him...he has a reddish balloon covering his face, wears a distinctive t-shirt, and also has something that he wears on his hip, custom made in Europe. You may want to ask around for his name. Sorry, I couldn't help any further. But I'm sure he can.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmljW6Xdsvs

Live. Love. Play. Relax.

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Nemo69 Nemo69 rating
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7. "RE: Should I be happy or depress?"
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   I used to lust after girls in high school. When I went to a reunion, they all were old and fat. You need a young, pretty face to distract you. Maybe you should move to a new city to get some distance from her. It's hard to move on if you keep running into her around town.

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milkman31
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 20-Aug-10, 04:49 PM (PST)
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8. "RE: Should I be happy or depress?"
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   colditalianpizzza,

Hang in there, I can relate, but remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea. Go find another atf. you will get over it.

Another reason for your sadness is that her life has progressed as your life has remained the same. My advice is to make some new lifestyle changes. Do new things that you haven't done before. Explore new avenues, make new friends, and seek new adventures. You will find more fulfillment and the sad feelings will subside.

cheers!

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Cifuinca Cifuinca rating
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9. "RE: Should I be happy or depress?"
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>My ATF is now married with a kid, yet I am still in the same
>situation when she was my ATF. I know I will have to move
>on and that fantasy is gone forever. The right thing to say
>is, " I am happy for her." but why am I feeling so sad,
>hurt, and depress!?

Are you feeling this way because you wish you had married her and that she has your kid?

But no matter what, if you truly had any real feelings for her, then you should be happy for her.

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14thandbroadway 14thandbroadway rating
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10. "RE: Should I be happy or depress?"
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Be happy for her. Wish her well. While you had feelings for her, it's obvious she did not have the same for you. Move on. There are other fish in the sea.

Anyone need two left-footed shoes?

broadway

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sumhit
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67 posts		 20-Aug-10, 10:40 PM (PST)
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11. "RE: Should I be happy or depress?"
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   I think you should move on and remember NOT to get emotionally attached to a provider.Remember this hobby is for play and good times in a FANTASY world, but it is NOT real.Remember while playing in this hobby to also work on your REAL life as well.

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