Not only as a provider that this happens, Its been going on since I liked my first asian guy in the damn 3rd grade. Lol.

Funny story about that.. He was the cutest Filipino boy in school and I got rejected. Ha. The rejection hurt so bad at the moment that anger and humiliation got the best of me that I actually fought the poor cute guy. Lol. True story and I will never forget.

But to cut it short.. Why do I always get disrespected, rejected, or ignored by my own race of men ?

It's like I don't have a chance dating one ever.. Sigh..

Somebody Help Me !!!

*All Love Here,
*Sweet China<3*

But as a guy who hangs with asian men as much as with white guys, here's my instant take -- white guys tend to have yellow fever. White guys often idolize, mystify, worship, idealize asian women.

In contrast, asian men grew up with asian women, so they just see them as women.

But you also should differentiate between totally americanized american born asians from asians who are still operating in asian cultural mode.

Be the change
you wish to see

You have a sweet smile, you're bright, and have a lovely body.

There's sometimes no way to target market for a relationship... Just keep that smile where men can see it, be yourself, and someone will say 'Honey, where have you been all my life'!

2) Have guys from other races treat you the same way before?

3) Why do you have to date Asian guy? Does race really matter that much?

It is about the inside that is important and life culture sadness and all the experience you accumulated, and what you like and what you do not... and how we could connect that is what really matters to me.

I am sure there are some young Asian guys who feel same as me.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F95S9XiIAtY

what, me worry?

That and I know many Asian guys (even the ABAs) treat most girls of their same race like poop.

Anyhoo, I have gone through the same problem with my Asian(Some say we are Pacific Islanders with Malayan Blood, I don't know, I leave that for the Anthropologists)Parents...they want me to be with a Pinay and they'll frown if I dated outside my race, and my heart is torn from that...I do feel the pressure from that because, for people who not in an Asian Culture, they won't understand what we go through(one reason why I hobby in RB, just to bridge the beauty of culture to the fine ladies in RB)...just like how you speak in your cultural dialect to your Mom, I too speak in my cultural dialect Tagalog to Mom because she doesn't speak English, too well...but its Maynila Tagalog, its like Italian or Portuguese because the language dances on your tongue...its like you are singing in a romantic song when we talk...anyways, that's another story and I'm HIGH and Lazy. I could be a Professor in Asian Studies, if I wanted to be one since I minored in it.

Just go out more to clubs or bars that will be predominantly Asian Guys who can be particularly shy, especially, Chinese Men...but a Filipino Man would date you...I don't see a problem of you meeting a Fine Filipino Man...you'll love them.

But if your heart tells you to love someone that isn't Asian...your Parents can't control who you Love, or who you might end up with in life...I'm sure you can meet other Races who are intrigued by the Asian Culture...or just you, for who you are, not because you are Asian, but because you are a caring and loving person.

My time is near to retire from RB and I met some of the sweetest ladies on RB...so I'll quit posting, maybe review a few more ladies before I leave....but this post is great, it home to me for some reason. I hope you meet someone Asian, hopefully, a Pinoy because we speak in Passion...its in our rhythm, its in our motion, its in our eyes smiling from a distant.

Listen to the words sung closely in Maynila Tagalog...just vibrant...the song is about acceptance of yourself in this world...even if others don't accept you, that you still love yourself...I know its in a different language, but Passion is Universal, it speaks to us all...in this case Pinoy Passion.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tox0IYxEtj8

Live. Love. Play. Relax.

In truth, the family member(s) in question may just consider your youth and think they know everything and you aren't thinking. Until you know the intention of the comment, you really don't know how (or if) to respond.

But, the answer to their question of when are you to find a nice ___ guy (in this case Asian, but could be Jewish, Black, Latin, Irish, etc.) is . . .
<directed at the family member in question>
"Well it isn't that I'm ignoring my entire race. Furthermore, why throw the blame on me when there have been times I was rejected by my own people? It's a 2 way street in case you aren't paying attention." (You could go on with comments about having those people walk in your shoes, but that is aside the point.)
Of course using this approach, you also risk:
1) alienating said family member (who may think they're joking or being funny or perhaps they think you have no interest and this is about self hatred or a direct effort by you to only seek out guys outside your race)
2) having family member(s) try to fix you up with people you don't find attractive which can lead to an entirely different set of painful experiences.
...there is a whole other point about living in a blended society according to the rules your family embraces from the "homeland" but that is a rat hole best left undiscussed for the moment.
...or I could be walking off on another tangent than you intended.

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Next, (and I'll just use your quote) . . .

>>"Why do I always get disrespected, rejected, or ignored by my own race of men?" and
"It's like I don't have a chance dating one ever.. Sigh.." and
"Somebody Help Me !!!"<<

Well, there seems to be a bit of projection going on. By that I mean you're so focused on the rejection that you may walk into any scenario holding that baggage. So you may...
• not approach all (any) because you know there might be a level of rejection.
• focus on the rejection.
• project that rejection onto someone you're speaking.
• focus all your attention on guys who only want to date outside their race.
• focus on guys who aren't ready to settle down and are just out for variety and a good time (which may mean unchartered waters)?
**I have no answer for you on this as I have similar issues (albeit different gender/ethnicity). What I've done is just focus on this one question--Would you rather be with someone who is of your culture who treats you poorly or would you rather be with someone not of your culture who treats you well? Your answer to this question can go a long way in determining your happiness.

As for the somebody help me portion, you can help yourself by
• not focusing on this as a be all-end all.
• placing a personal ad on a site that will attract the guys you think you want.
• enjoy the variety that you currently get while you get it.
...and if needed, speak to a professional who can help with the pent up projection and frustration (and maybe give some techniques on how to approach).

Final thoughts (as I've just looked at your ad) . . .
The one thing that stands out to me is that your very young and you're probably interested in guys similar in age, perhaps??? If so, maybe you should step back and consider that many of these very young guys are probably just looking at what they haven't had (different experiences) and they'll probably refocus in a couple of years.

Give it time. You have plenty.