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12345
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"Nice young lady at the Mall."
 
LAST EDITED ON 15-Feb-03 AT 10:37 PM (PST)
 
There is this fine young lady that I see
working at the mall.Now my question is
that what is the best way to approach a
young lady who doesn't know me from adam
and actually ask her out for a cofeee? I
am usually good with the ladies but most
of the women I have dated are usually
women that was introduced to me by my
friends and or the escorts that I have
dated off the clock.Any good comments or
tips without looking like a stalker or
desperado of asking a girl from out of
the blue yonder for a date and what are
the odds anyway?

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MOJO
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15-Feb-03, 11:29 PM (PST)
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1. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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If she doesn't know you from Adam, then go be Adam!

she'll know you then. Don't be afraid, go for it!!

Chance are that if you are thinking about her, she may be thinking the same thing.

What have you got to lose?????????????????????????

NOTHING, Go for it!


Peace-Out,
MOJO

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trj_66
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2. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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It's a lot easier being rejected by a total stranger at the mall who you don't have to face day after day. Just walk up to her, say hi, give her a compliment about how she looks and ask her is she'd like to have a coffee with you after work. If she says no then you can simply walk away. The odds suck BTW.

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3. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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I agree with Mojo Go For It!!!

Ask her hows her day going, something simple, and see where it goes from there!

Good Luck!!!

Summer

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olivia2
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16-Feb-03, 03:03 PM (PST)
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4. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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   Yes, make easy conversation and be respectful and friendly. Maybe don't even ask her out at first. And by all means, avoid saying something cliched like a pick-up line. Good luck!

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12345
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5. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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>Yes, make easy conversation and be respectful and friendly.
>Maybe don't even ask her out at first. And by all means,
>avoid saying something cliched like a pick-up line. Good
>luck!

Thanks sounds like a good idea to keep
simple and low keyed at the moment when
I see and talk to her.Don't wanna freak
her out they say desperation is not very attractive to the lady's eyes.

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olivia2
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6. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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   Don't wanna freak
her out they say desperation is not very attractive to the lady's eyes.

Right! What would be really cool--if you can be patient--would be to chat with her a couple of times over a week or two, then ask her for coffee. By that time, she'll feel like you're "familiar" and a safer bet than if you just blurted it out the first time you actually get her into conversation. If I were young and single, that's what I'd appreciate in a guy, the softer touch, not the coming on too strong style!

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15. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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>Don't wanna freak
>her out they say desperation is not very attractive to the
>lady's eyes.
>
>Right! What would be really cool--if you can be
>patient--would be to chat with her a couple of times over a
>week or two, then ask her for coffee.

And, while you're chatting with her, really listen to what she has to say. It's possible that, cute though she might be, she isn't someone you'd want to be with.

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Kimi_Kimi
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16-Feb-03, 05:57 PM (PST)
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7. "How ya doin?"
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Like Joey on Friends, "How ya doin?"


-Kimi_Kimi
Bling! Bling!

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12345
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8. "RE: How ya doin?"
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LAST EDITED ON 16-Feb-03 AT 09:45 PM (PST)
 
>Like Joey on Friends, "How ya doin?"
>
>
>-Kimi_Kimi
>Bling! Bling!

Ha ha good one! Too bad I don't have
that italian accent like Joey does and
I don't think "How ya doin" will sound
good on a guy who talks like Ross.

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14. "RE: How ya doin?"
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   Actually, I think the emphasis is slightly different... more like:

How YOU doin'? Not that I sound anything like Joey... oh Gawd, I do... the shame...

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TonyTheTiger
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9. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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   I would not recommend drawing this out by having lots of short conversations over the course of several visits. I think this is more likely to weird her out than just coming out and asking her to chat over coffee.

I would walk up, say "Hi, my name is Tony. Those are cool shoes, you've got nice style. Would you like to chat over coffee tomorrow afternoon?". In your first 5-10 seconds of talking to her, she's already made her mind up. If she wants to see you, she'll either say yes, or something like "I would like to, but I'm busy then, how about Wednesday". Any other kind of response, say thanks and leave.
____________________________________

TTT - Don't stop babe, that feels Grrrrreat!

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fountainhead
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10. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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   sounds like you've been browsing http://www.fastseduction.com.

i've found that 5-10 second rule doesn't always apply.

for example, if you say "those are really nice tits, would you like to fuck?" about 30 seconds after you meet her, you can completely change the outcome, even if she decided she liked you in the first 5 seconds.

i also found the whole eye contact thing varies greatly with age and ethnicity.

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TonyTheTiger
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11. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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   It may change if you are in a position to actually interact with her on a deeper level like if you worked or studied with her. But if she's just someone you saw at a store I don't see the reason to bother with a bunch of brief conversations.

And of course, you can always say something stupid to fuck up any situation. I hadn't seen that sight but have browsed some of the pickup sites. In general I don't follow their advice because most of it doesn't fit my personality.

However, one thing I agree with is that if you see a lady that you would like to meet, do it NOW. On of the biggest reasons is that waiting until later just makes you more nervous and less likely to follow through.
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TTT - Don't stop babe, that feels Grrrrreat!

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12345
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12. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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Thanks for the tips!

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sparky403
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17-Feb-03, 05:37 PM (PST)
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13. "Hey Kimi"
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   How you doin'?

(in my best joey NYC accent)

Seriously,

The odds of seeing someone random like that is iffy, so be nice and just ask....all she can say is no, odds are not that good but don't ask don't get, practice makes perfect, every dog has his day, nothing risked nothing gained, early bird gets the worm.....Man that is alot cliche's good luck

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Jacket
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21-Feb-03, 05:04 PM (PST)
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16. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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   Just lick your eyebrows and let her make the first move.

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liketoratit
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06-Mar-03, 08:31 PM (PST)
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17. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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   why not just say, hey you wanna earn some extra cash, and she will say for what? its up to you after that buddy,chicks love to have extra money in the mall.I have picked up some prime stuff in the mall.

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Winnerforever13
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18. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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   >Just lick your eyebrows and let her make the first move.

"Just lick your eyebrows"

I don't get that one??

Winner
2003.03.06

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20. "Winner, licking his eyebrows means"
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   the man has a long tongue. Supposedly, this makes him good at licking a woman's vagina and clitoris.

It's an old joke. In truth, everyone's tongue is long enough for oral sex.

Now, I have a question for you. Is oral sex (man on woman) as common in China as it is in the U.S.? Educate your all-American brothers.

Polevault

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19. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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It depends on what you want: a relationship or a fuck.

If you want a fuck, be *direct* and *straight forward*, tell her you find her attractive and like to spend some time with her.
If she says yes, you almost got her in the sack, if it is no, then you go on and are glad you did not waist your time.

In my experience, most of the time you will get a no.

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Dirk_Diggler
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21. "RE: Nice young lady at the Mall."
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   Why don't you take your own advice on getting noticed. Show up at her work with a bunch of you ugly friends, and since you look better, she will notice you.

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