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PinkPanther22
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""Rules" For Strip Club Festivities""
 
   LAST EDITED ON 12-Oct-06 AT 06:48 PM (PST)
 
Reading RollinRenegade's rules for his strip club festivities made me wonder what other sets of rules people use. I've got a few:

1) Clean Up First - shower, shave, wash your hair, make sure you smell decent and your breath doesn't make the dancers hold theirs

2) Clothes Count - Soft pants are really important! I've been told my more than 1 dancer how much they dislike giving dances to guys in stiff jeans - no dancers crave rugburns as the price of giving a good grinding LD. For a shirt, I prefer a soft material button shirt - so the dancer can have fun unbuttoning it if she chooses.

3) Be Nice To The Dancers - Perhaps there are dancers that would rather be with someone that's being rude and abusive/intrusive, but I find that the ones that I like want to be treated nicely - that doesn't mean an absence of heat or dirty talking or whatever - but things like grabbing their boobs like you want to twist 'em off and take 'em home are not terribly appreciated (and astoundingly common)

4) LD's Rule! - Even with my top faves, a warm-up LD before I have a PS with a particular honey is a necessity.
a) It's a great opportunity to reconnect with the dancer and get you both all hot and bothered for what's to come in the PS room.
b) (semi)Public Displays of affection are a lot of fun!
c) You might not need to go to the PS booth to have the time that you want to have
d) It might not be the day/night when you're gonna have the heat between you to justify the PS
e) For those who want the dancer to "prove" to them that they're gonna earn the additional $$ in the PS room, its more fair, in my opinion, to ask them to prove it when you're paying them to prove it - and some dancers, like Candy, seem to LOVE proving that they're going to be worth it in the PS.

5) Have a good time, and if you're not having a good time, leave and come back another day - no point in embittering yourself long-tems just cause it's an off-night (or day)

Other than that, I don't have much hesitation to go after a dancer that attracts me if she's on the other side of the room - and I've started my relationships with most of my faves that way.

High-satisfaction dancers are gonna deliver high satisfaction whether they approach you first or visa versa and some dancers (the kind I like) are flattered that you initiated things and will reward you for the flattery.

I've got no hesitation about getting an LD with a dancer that I've never seen on stage if I'm turned on by her at first contact - Sole and Annalyssa both fit into that category for me and both were a blast!

So those are my rules - yours?

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Dehl
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1. "Re:"
In response to message #0
 
LAST EDITED ON 12-Oct-06 AT 09:17 PM (PST)
 
PP excellent rules.

I just have 1 rule I would alter:

"d) It might not be the day/night when you're gonna have the
heat between you to justify the PS"

I say if you are a regular heat is always essential from your
ATF/Favs (otherwise rethink it).

Contact and frottement and the dynamics of bodies.

The temperature of a body depends on its level of molecular
exitation, therefore of the kinetic energy of each molecules.
With 0 Kelvin the kinetic energy of the molecules of any body
is thus null. The more cinetic energy of each molecule has, the
higher is the temperature.

"quand la riviere coule; les rochers se lavent"
"when the river runs; the rocks are washed "
Lao Tzu

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PinkPanther22
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2. "RE: Re:"
In response to message #1
 
   >PP excellent rules.
>
>I just have 1 rule I would alter:
>
>"d) It might not be the day/night when you're gonna have the
>heat between you to justify the PS"
>
>I say if you are a regular heat is always essential from
>your
>ATF/Favs (otherwise rethink it).
>


I don't know about that, Dehl. Life is complex. Lots of things could be going on to make things less "hot" on a given day, which wouldn't mean that you should re-think that person being your ATF.

That's the way I look at it, anyway.

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FastEddie2
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3. "RE: Re:"
In response to message #1
 
LAST EDITED ON 12-Oct-06 AT 09:30 PM (PST)
 

>Frottement
>
>The temperature of a body depends on its level of molecular
>exitation, therefore of the kinetic energy of each
>molecules.
>With 0 Kelvin the kinetic energy of the molecules of any
>body
>is thus null. More cinetic energy of each molecule is large
>plus the temperature is high.

Not to sound like a downer Dehl and PP, but at strip clubs from a realistic point of view, the only person who has a high level of "molecular excitation" is the customer 99% of the time. Out of the dancers I know, only 1 % will mutually contribute to the process, (at least it seems to be) and they/she know who they are...

To a more experienced person, the percentages may be greater on the dancer's side though.

Thanks, Eddie

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Dehl
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4. "RE: Re:"
In response to message #3
 
LAST EDITED ON 12-Oct-06 AT 09:24 PM (PST)
 
Ok, let me correct the lingo:

I say if you are a regular heat is always essential from your
ATF/Favs (otherwise rethink it).

Contact and frottement and the dynamics of bodies. The temperature
of a body depends on its level of molecular exitation, therefore of
the kinetic energy of each molecules. With 0 Kelvin the kinetic
energy of the molecules of any body is thus null. The more cinetic
energy each molecule has the higher is the temperature.
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That said Elvis, I seldom refer to a dancer as my ATF, and when I
do I mean it. She is special to me at that point, and in return
she does her best to make each zone encounter "molecularly
exciting"...LOL


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FastEddie2
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5. "RE: Re:"
In response to message #4
 
LAST EDITED ON 12-Oct-06 AT 09:25 PM (PST)
 
>That said Elvis, I seldom refer to a dancer as my ATF, and
>when I
>do I mean it. She is special to me at that point, and in
>return
>she does her best to make it "molecularly exciting"...LOL

So that would be the 1% that I was talking about...LOL

Thanks, Eddie

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LoveMeLola
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6. "RE: Re:"
In response to message #5
 
   Elvis doesnt have an ATF...
but if he did...

=P
XOXO
Lola

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FastEddie2
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9. "RE: Re:"
In response to message #6
 
>Elvis doesnt have an ATF...
>but if he did...
>
>=P
>XOXO
>Lola

But if he did BabyDoll, you would probably have to put a gun to his head for him to admit it ...

Thanks, Eddie

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DeNada1
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7. "RE: Re:"
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You neglect the second and third laws of thermodynamics.

And Newtonian physics: A body in motion tend to stay in motion.

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Rollinrenegade98
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8. "RE: Re:"
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   The more money a customer has the hotter the stripper gets for the money duh, so it can be more than 1%!!!!

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Dehl
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10. "RE: Re:"
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"And Newtonian physics: A body in motion tend to stay in motion."

They do...LOL


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11. "RE: Re:"
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   LAST EDITED ON 12-Oct-06 AT 10:38 PM (PST)
 
I dont know how many of you guys sit in the front at CH or if you just go to see your favorites so you dont have too. I usually sit in the front for about 8 to 10 girls shows. Of course depending on which girls I find to be most attractive!! But a rule of mine is that if a girl goes to me while she is on stage and gives me alot of attention, Im pretty much a lock to a LD and or a PS. If you feel the love then its real easy to give in for a LD or PS!!! And of course its works both ways if you tip alot while a girl is on stage and you get no attention once they ask you for a LD Im kind of turned off to the idea so I say no!! Thats another rule I live by....thanks

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PinkPanther22
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12. "RE: Re:"
In response to message #11
 
   >I dont know how many of you guys sit in the front at CH or
>if you just go to see your favorites so you dont have too. I
>usually sit in the front for about 8 to 10 girls shows. Of
>course depending on which girls I find to be most
>attractive!! But a rule of mine is that if a girl goes to me
>while she is on stage and gives me alot of attention, Im
>pretty much a lock to a LD and or a PS. If you feel the love
>then its real easy to give in for a LD or PS!!! And of
>course its works both ways if you tip alot while a girl is
>on stage and you get no attention once they ask you for a LD
>Im kind of turned off to the idea so I say no!! Thats
>another rule I live by....thanks

I almost always have a dancer I know is going to be there that gets me in the door, but there's a lot of honeys that are a blast to see on stage, plus a lot of new girls all the time, so if there's someone I'm hot for on stage, and I'm not otherwise engaged, I love to be stage-side.

I really like being there when it's slow - you can have SO much fun stage-side at those times. I agree that if I were shined on during a stage-show, I wouldn't be interested in an LD. Stage shows are the best opportunity a dancer has to promote herself to a broad audience. Smart dancers use them as an opportunity to line up post-stage dances too.

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13. "RE: Re:"
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LAST EDITED ON 13-Oct-06 AT 00:48 AM (PST)
 
I almost NEVER sit at stage-shows. I prefer to go strait for the Jugular as soon as I spot a familiar face...


Thanks, Eddie

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Dehl
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14. "RE: Re:"
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LAST EDITED ON 13-Oct-06 AT 00:56 AM (PST)
 
I may be too shy for stage side.

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15. "Exactly!!!!!!"
In response to message #14
 
   > I agree that if I were shined on during a stage-show, I wouldn't be >interested in an LD. Stage shows are the best opportunity a dancer >has to promote herself to a broad audience. Smart dancers use them >as an opportunity to line up post-stage dances too.


Well put my friend, we should write a book and give to strippers, titled "How to be a successful stripper" by the customer!

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PinkPanther22
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16. "RE: Exactly!!!!!!"
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   >> I agree that if I were shined on during a stage-show, I wouldn't be >interested in an LD. Stage shows are the best opportunity a dancer >has to promote herself to a broad audience. Smart dancers use them >as an opportunity to line up post-stage dances too.
>
>
>Well put my friend, we should write a book and give to
>strippers, titled "How to be a successful stripper" by the
>customer!

I don't know about you, but I consider myself to have about a thimblefull of knowledge - not quite enough for a book, but OK for posting in a forum where I can get input from other people.

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PinkPanther22
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21. "RE: Exactly!!!!!!"
In response to message #16
 
   >>> I agree that if I were shined on during a stage-show, I wouldn't be >interested in an LD. Stage shows are the best opportunity a dancer >has to promote herself to a broad audience. Smart dancers use them >as an opportunity to line up post-stage dances too.
>>
>>
>>Well put my friend, we should write a book and give to
>>strippers, titled "How to be a successful stripper" by the
>>customer!
>
>I don't know about you, but I consider myself to have about
>a thimblefull of knowledge - not quite enough for a book,
>but OK for posting in a forum where I can get input from
>other people.

You know what would make a better book? Get some strip club smarties like Dirty Mike, Lola, Charlie, Mykel together for a round table discussion - tape it, edit it, add some other necessary info to fill it the gaps and then you might have something that would be worthwhile for women getting into the business or thinking about getting into the business.

I've sure seen a lot of new dancers that seem utterly lost when it comes to basics like How To Work A Room.

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17. "RE: Re:"
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   Regarding sitting stageside, I do it on rare occasion; very rare.
-Can never pack enough 1's.
-Not enough of a playa' to pack enough 5's.
-Don't like getting beat up or having my articles of clothing stolen by dancers.
-Conversely, feels weird when I'm ignored.
-If they're walking/strutting down the catwalk, my neck gets sore
-If they're crawling down the catwalk, I get heebie jeebies from the guys staring across the way (I know it's not at me. Okay. I'm pretty sure it's not at me).

-If I'm low on 20's and feel like feelin' stripper skin, I'll sit stageside.
-If a dancer asks me specifically to watch her dance, I'll wander up there.
-If there's a particularly intriguing PS, I'll jostle to a stageside seat.

As far as the other rules, I think I threw some in way back long ago. I concur-shave, try not to stink up too much (body or breath), no jeans.

And, giving one away here, if sitting in the back section, take the second seat in. It seems a stripper is more inclined to plop down in the seat next to you if it's aisle side rather than inboard. The downside to this strategy is if you get someone who doesnt adhere to American standards of personal space and plops his jeans wearing, stinky, unshaven self in the seat next to you.

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Dehl
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18. "RE: Re:"
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LAST EDITED ON 13-Oct-06 AT 10:01 PM (PST)
 
Avantim I share some of the discomfort described and in
particular I feel strange having private bits & pieces
touched and ... in presence of a bunch of folks while
they are staring. I am just not that voyeristic.

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PinkPanther22
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20. "RE: Re:"
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   >Avantim I share some of the discomfort described and in
>particular I feel strange having private bits & pieces
>touched and ... in presence of a bunch of folks while
>they are staring. I am just not that voyeristic.
>
>http://www.pbase.com/dehl/gallerie
>
>000000_______XOXO_______000000

Public displays of affection - mmmm - love it! Frankly, I don't pay that much attention to the other customers, but I've had a lot of great and fun interation with dancers stage-side and usually get a very generous amount of attention from the dancers. If I'm not interested in that interaction, I just go sit elsewhere.


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19. "RE: Re:"
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>-Don't like getting beat up or having my articles of clothing stolen by dancers.

LOL, that's rarely happened to me but it is a big fear of mine for sitting stageside.

>-Conversely, feels weird when I'm ignored.

I agree with this as well. I used to sit stageside a lot but don't do so much anymore. I found that since many of the dancers recognize me as a regular now, they don't pay as much attention to me stageside as they used to (unless it is pretty empty stageside). The ones I don't patronize usually ignore me and the ones I always patronize know I'm going to patronize them regardless so they'll smile and say hi but move onto others for mini-laps and such. Now this isn't true of all dancers, but I'd say it's about 50/50.

The Other One

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22. "Hey I shave!"
In response to message #17
 
LOL. Why is it you can be sitting in an almost empty SC and some dude will sit right next to you? Use to happen at MSC alot. Especially that older asian guy who would remove his shoes and put his feet up on the back of the seat in front of him.

Cheers, TV

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23. "RE: Re:"
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   >"quand la riviere coule; les rochers se lavent"
>Lao Tzu

lao tzu spoke french?

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Dehl
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24. "RE: Re: Lao Tzu"
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He got heavily translated. The nuances however
differ visually and this was the best language
to express it, I thought.

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