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"Questions about what to say to dancers"
 
*** First of all these are serious questions, so I don't want these BS 1 word responses that seem smart ass.

ONe time i read an ebook oh how to pick up strippers. I forgot what your supposed to do. That was a long time ago. He said stuff like you gotta say you wanna come tag along on a trip with me? Makes you sound fun. That kinda stuff. But anyways, I would like advice on these questions.

1. When you decided to get a dance, if she asks you what you been up to what should you say? What do most people say? do most people blab about themselves and the businesses they run and their money and that stuff? do most guys talk about their lives in depth with the ones they are in love with? I mean sure, the dancers will act like they care, but they don't. Lets say you do a few different things and they are business oriented. Do you say you been working? or is the correct term, marketing? Or should you say oh i don't do shit, just to sound funny. Like when you really like a girl and you get a dance with her and she asks you what you been up to, what are you supposed to say? Like say not much? What sounds good?

2. When a dancer that you like asks you what your doing here, what should you say? Im here to watch? Im here to spend money or flash cash?

3. Should you ask a dancer what she has been up to? What are the questions you ask a dancer?

4. Is it good to act mature to dancers? Like be nice and respectful? Or do they think your boring.

5. Are you supposed to act like your into the ''backstage'' stuff if you know what i mean? does that impress?

6. Do they like it when your funny?

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1. "Blah blah blah"
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Cupcakes

Straight cash homey.

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2. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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LAST EDITED ON 16-Jan-10 AT 10:05 AM (PST)
 
Geez, OK I'll take ONE stab at this.

First of all, if you are going to come on here and ask how to pick up strippers, you are on the wrong forum. Most guys around here think all hot women are only attracted to looks and $$$.

I'm about to blow your mind... this is NOT true!

While a lot of strippers are "in it for the money", most women are primarily attracted to a man's confidence, strong personality as well as a mysterious and ambiguous attitude. So, if you go in with that kind of vibe, you will surely stand out from all the rest.

How do you do it? Hard to explain but here's what not to do:

Don't kiss their ass! Let me say it again, don't KISS THEIR ASS!
Don't spend a ton of money on them!
Don't act like a wuss!
Don't act all impressed, like you are in the presence of a goddess.
Most importantly, don't act like every other guy she's seen that night.

What you should do?

Be cool, calm, and collected. You're almost bored to be there. Been there done that. You aren't impressed by any of them! Tease them.. in a fun way, not mean. Trust me, it will blow their mind because NO other guy in there is acting like that.

Now, I realize this is going to be hard for someone like you who has NO confidence, but that's OK. You can learn.

Go over to Google and search for a website called "Double Your Dating." Buy his ebook and read it. Once you are done READ IT AGAIN!

It's the single best piece of literature out there for explaining women and attraction. Once I went through his stuff, my dating life changed forever.

And try to get out of strip clubs and use your new attitude on regular girls at bars and coffee shops. There's too much drama associated with most strippers and it's just not worth it in my own opinion.

Oh, and stay away from any PUA or "pick up artist" material. Most of it is too aggressive and if you try and use that material, you'll surely screw it up.

Now, hopefully you'll read this and at least try and understand.

Save yourself before it's too late.


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3. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   There was a show on VH1 called The Pickup Artist, starring Mystery. They have these dorky dudes who had to compete in challenges, and one of them was picking up a stripper. They essentially were taught similar things. Don't act like every other punter there that night, don't get a lap dance. Say things that raise your personal value, make you sound interesting. Say things that are somewhat backhanded compliments.. haha. i.e, tell them they're obviously attractive, but is there anything else of substance to them?

Anyway, my personal experience for this is that it works primarily if you can sound confident, interesting, and then close the deal with getting a # or date. I hooked up with a cocktail waitress at a Vegas strip club, and she had tried dancing one day and quit. So yeah, I guess I can say it works.. haha.

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4. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   "if she asks you what you been up to what should you say?"

I usually tell em about my escapades with all the Party-Girl bimbos and FEMALE BARTENDERS I meet on the job, and that a SC visit here and there is just a change of pace. Dancers more than likely will refrain from any ROB attempts after experiencing a "ho-hum" disposition from a prospective customer. Actually, a few of my ATF's get a big kick out of those stories, as they sometimes set a mood and act as a catalyst to extremely fun LD's/PS's.

Other than that, just relax and don't act like your nervous or inexperienced. "Chicks, bees, cops, dogs and STRIPPERS can smell fear like a fart in the car in the dead of winter. "

Thanks, Eddie/Elvis

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5. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   millionaireloser you should follow your bosses (resurrection3) lead and boycott all strip clubs. Why are you so stuck on getting a stripper to like you? There are attractive girls who aren't strippers. Do you really want to take her home and introduce her to your entire family, and tell them that she spreads her legs for a living? If you just want a hot piece of ass just pay for it (google Tiger Woods). Follow Alex's lead and get a matchmaker to set up a date for you, or see a psychiatrist.

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6. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   "There are attractive girls who aren't strippers."

There are many strippers who aren't as attractive as regular/civey girls. (unless it's MARIAH, GIANNA, TEAGAN and certain GC/MBOT dancers, et.al)

Thanks, Eddie/Elvis

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7. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   "There are many strippers who aren't as attractive as regular/civey girls."

That is true too.

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8. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   >millionaireloser you should follow your bosses
>(resurrection3) lead and boycott all strip clubs. Why are
>you so stuck on getting a stripper to like you? There are
>attractive girls who aren't strippers. Do you really want
>to take her home and introduce her to your entire family,
>and tell them that she spreads her legs for a living? If
>you just want a hot piece of ass just pay for it (google
>Tiger Woods). Follow Alex's lead and get a matchmaker to
>set up a date for you, or see a psychiatrist.

Best advice on here to date.

Millionaireloser is obviously an Asian tech geek that never got any ass. Like most geeks he wrongly thought that once he had a lot of cash, the money would make up for his awkwardness, geekiness, and other significant short comings. Low and behold when his pay day came he woke up only to find that he was still a short, geeky loser no one liked. Just richer. But those guys are a dime a dozen in the Bay Area.

His intense frustration and single minded dedication to finding a solution is the skill that made him very success at work. But it's a terrible strategy for running your personal life or attracting girls. No matter how rich this guy gets he is still a geek. Like most geeks his only solace is to post incessantly on message boards, buy ebooks and educate his way to answers.

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9. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   Haha! Brilliant! That pretty much sums it up.

Except for the autism component.

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10. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   Ok im not Millioniareslosers biggest fan, but that was a little harsh. And what do you do for a living mazinga_zed? Garbage man, janitor, you a st&pid maid or something?

I know Millionaire goes about it all wrong, but at least he's making an attempt to be a regular functioning person in society, and methodically fact qualifying what he should be trying to execute. Whats wrong with that. You're a turd dude.

Millionaire loser my advice is be confident they are just chicks, and try to be insightful and talk to them about things that will hit a chord with them. Things that interest them. People in general feel more of a connection when they feel your on the same page, which definatly heightens your chances of cultivating a real relationship/friendship outside the club. And get rid of your ruler dude, no one cares your a midget. Or "mini" whatever you want to call it

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11. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   millionaireloser is just a bizarre individual. Maybe he thinks he's funny or stirring up interesting conversation when he talks about height with the girls. If guys on here think he's a little weird, what do you think the girls are thinking?

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12. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   They think he's Super Duper Weird.

A Looney Mini Me, with a cute magnetic ring that cures Aids, and brings about world peace...

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15. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   Your contempt for garbage men, janitors, and "st&pid maids" speaks really really well of you. Hardly a compelling rebuttal to mazinga_zed's take, which I agree is harsh to the extent one takes millionaire at face value, as apparently you and others do.

I believe that millionaireloser is pretty clearly a troll. I don't know if he's actually a dolt or just playing one - maybe some of each - but his pernicious impact on the board is the same in my opinion. I wish people would ignore his posts, but clearly many do not, and that's their right. We get the quality of discussion that we collectively deserve here; one hopes it's at its nadir at this point.

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20. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   LAST EDITED ON 23-Jan-10 AT 10:54 PM (PST)
 
I have no contempt for garbage men, janitors, maids etc. I believe all honest work is admirable.

I do however find obvious humor in a maid or janitor or someone working in that capacity, passing judgment and attempting to criticize and cut down other peoples ways of life and/or existence's. Especially when its obviously a far cry from accurate profiling.

Mazing_zed has no factual substance to back up his fantasy profile, it just sounds cute, so all who hate millionaireloser jump on the band wagon. Humorous or not, im willing to bet his profile is not even close to accurate.

Therefore logically, I mock him. Its a fitting response to intense stupidity.

Is there a problem with that happy2baply? Or are you all out of big words?

It saddens me my moral compass is not up to your pristine standards. Your a funny guy Tool Box...

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23. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   LAST EDITED ON 23-Jan-10 AT 11:52 PM (PST)
 
>I have no contempt for garbage men, janitors, maids etc. I
>believe all honest work is admirable.

But as a sexually frustrated Standford grad...

>I do however find obvious humor in a maid or janitor or
>someone working in that capacity, passing judgment and
>attempting to criticize and cut down other peoples ways of
>life and/or existence's.

Translation. I have no respect for uneducated people. I am superior because of my intellect and degree(s). But I am still a sad and lonely geek that no one wants to fuck.

>Mazing_zed has no factual substance to back up his fantasy
>profile, it just sounds cute,

Exactly. But I am witty and clever. And of course handsome in person.

>Therefore logically, I mock him. Its a fitting response to
>intense stupidity.

I am rubber and you're glue. Everything that you say bounces of me and sticks on to you.

>Is there a problem with that happy2baply? Or are you all
>out of big words?

I am just getting started.

>It saddens me my moral compass is not up to your pristine
>standards. Your a funny guy Tool Box...

Moral standards... What planet are you on? We pay girls to get naked and spread their legs in a private both!

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24. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   >Your contempt for garbage men, janitors, and "st&pid maids"
>speaks really really well of you. Hardly a compelling
>rebuttal to mazinga_zed's take, which I agree is harsh to
>the extent one takes millionaire at face value, as
>apparently you and others do.
>
>I believe that millionaireloser is pretty clearly a troll.
>I don't know if he's actually a dolt or just playing one -
>maybe some of each - but his pernicious impact on the board
>is the same in my opinion. I wish people would ignore his
>posts, but clearly many do not, and that's their right. We
>get the quality of discussion that we collectively deserve
>here; one hopes it's at its nadir at this point.

Troll? I think ML is a hilarious troll. Besides, reading trip report after trip report was getting dull in my opinion.

We do get the discussion we deserve. Agree + 100000.

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22. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   >Ok im not Millioniareslosers biggest fan, but that was a
>little harsh. And what do you do for a living mazinga_zed?
>Garbage man, janitor, you a st&pid maid or something?

A little harsh huh? Get real dude, this is a message board for dudes to chat about paying sleazy chicks to grind them until they cum. It's not the church choir's forum. As for what I do for living? I work in tech! Duh. I know a bazillion Millionaire Losers.

Your put down of blue collar and service workers clearly exposes your incredible sense of insecurity. My guess is you fit my description as well. And it burns you up inside to be called out like that.

>I know Millionaire goes about it all wrong, but at least
>he's making an attempt to be a regular functioning person in
>society, and methodically fact qualifying what he should be
>trying to execute. Whats wrong with that. You're a turd
>dude.

Give me a break. Would you give Hitler an A for effort. Just TRYING is not valuable on it's own. Succeeding is what people should be graded on. I am a turd? Wow. Flame war. It's on!

>Millionaire loser my advice is be confident they are just
>chicks, and try to be insightful and talk to them about
>things that will hit a chord with them. Things that interest
>them. People in general feel more of a connection when
>they feel your on the same page, which definatly heightens
>your chances of cultivating a real relationship/friendship
>outside the club. And get rid of your ruler dude, no one
>cares your a midget. Or "mini" whatever you want to call it

Millionaire Loser do not listen to this guy. If you really want land a stripper, you need to be a combination these three things: super handsome (we can work on this), a really smooth talker and a great dresser. Yes money does help but it's not a required.

For the record. I have been out with a number of strippers including many girls that get discussed on here. I have fucked a boatload of hot civilians chicks as well. So I know what the hell I am talking about. I never come on here and brag because it's super lame. But since I got called out like this, well.

If you don't believe even half of what I say fine. What do I care. All I know is if you read my post and read Victory29's who would you think knows what he is talk about? Exactly.

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13. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
In response to message #8
 
  
>Millionaireloser is obviously an Asian tech geek that never
>got any ass. Like most geeks he wrongly thought that once he
>had a lot of cash, the money would make up for his
>awkwardness, geekiness, and other significant short comings.
>Low and behold when his pay day came he woke up only to find
>that he was still a short, geeky loser no one liked. Just
>richer. But those guys are a dime a dozen in the Bay Area.
>
>His intense frustration and single minded dedication to
>finding a solution is the skill that made him very success
>at work. But it's a terrible strategy for running your
>personal life or attracting girls. No matter how rich this
>guy gets he is still a geek. Like most geeks his only solace
>is to post incessantly on message boards, buy ebooks and
>educate his way to answers.

I agree with most of this...EXCEPT
I doubt that ML actually is successful at work, or has any money.
Sad....

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14. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   I got the impression when I was reading Alex Chiu's message board that Alex (resurrection3) is the only one in that group with money; the others, younger than he, just hang out with him and coast on his sort-of VIP status.

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16. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   Alex is the main dude. The others help promote his site and sell rings. In return they get a commission. There is this one guy Franco from Italy that is supposedly on gorgeouspil. I don't think it cured his baldness or made him lose weight. Either these guys are con artist that prey on the REALLY stupid, or they are a little nuts themselves.

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17. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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LAST EDITED ON 23-Jan-10 AT 09:12 PM (PST)
 
If you think ML is a looney on this board, there is this one character named "Lobsang" on that board that will blow ML away in weirdness.

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18. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   I'll have to check Lobsang out. You know him personally?

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19. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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no

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21. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   Appollo do you think ML and Alex are insane?

You seem close to them, whats your honest take?

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25. "RE: Questions about what to say to dancers"
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   The best thing to do is to tell them your real full name and give them your bank card, with the password. Then they will like you long time. Or pretend to.

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