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millionaireloser click here to view user rating
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"If you like a dancer should you spend lots of money?"
 
Ok i know i sound cheap but i used to spend some money before. Then i just got dissatisfied overtime and because shy to do so. But if you really really like a dancer, should you buy a dance? I read in the e book that you should get a basic one. But what if the dancer you like doesn't do the basic one? I read your supposed to be that ''guy'' not that ''customer'' And then I was wondering are you supposed to be real? are you supposed to be yourself or should you play some kind of game? my other friend said you get girls by bullshitting. the other guy said you gotta be yourself. I am so confused now. does the girls want someone who bullshits or just a normal guy?

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Argo
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1. "RE: If you like a dancer should you spend lots of money?"
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You get girls at church.

You get fantasies at strip clubs.

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alias39
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2. "RE: If you like a dancer should you spend lots of money?"
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   You're barking up the wrong tree.

Strippers are incapable of ever seeing you as anything but a customer -- a source of income -- their job. It's their mindset, it's their nature. They are acutely aware that their time equates to money. Always.

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mazinga_zed
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11. "RE: If you like a dancer should you spend lots of money?"
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   >You're barking up the wrong tree.
>
>Strippers are incapable of ever seeing you as anything but a
>customer -- a source of income -- their job. It's their
>mindset, it's their nature. They are acutely aware that
>their time equates to money. Always.

Real girls as well...

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3. "Try this, dude"
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Hey ML, you might want to try more underhanded methods, especially since your mackin' skillz are so lacking.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Date_rape_drug

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4. "RE: Try this, dude"
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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't get anyone to like me!!!!!!! why???? i am a nice person!!!!!

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5. "RE: Try this, dude"
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nice guys finish last. If you actually want a girlfriend, well, you obviously don't have the skills. So do some research:

http://steelballs.com/

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8. "RE: Try this, dude"
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   Maybe it's your height.

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6. "RE: If you like a dancer should you spend lots of money?"
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   You should calculate your net worth, then subtract next week's lunch money. Divide the result by 4, and that should give you the exact amount that should spend on a girl that you REALLY love, so she'll know that you're sincere... and NOT like, you know, the "others".
Probably, you'll need to run it by your accounting team, though, just to be sure!

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7. "RE: If you like a dancer should you spend lots of money?"
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   IMO, buy one at the minimal price and then leave.

These stripper/prostitutes must grovel for $$$. IMO, it is all a facade.

Lance

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9. "RE: If you like a dancer should you spend lots of money?"
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   Maybe you should consider doing dudes....this whole dating women thing clearly isn't working for you.

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10. "RE: If you like a dancer should you spend lots of money?"
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   Yes, if you like a dancer, treat her right. I know it takes some investment to be with her, but if she likes your attitude, then maybe she'll see you outside. Why limit yourself to strip clubs? I admit its a confidence builder, but I realized if you dressed nice and have some dancing skills, girls (anywhere) come up to you. And confidence, whether you play it real or bullshit a girl, it's always confidence.

For dancers, if I like her, I don't mind spending, but then unless she's willing to meet me outside, everything is all fantasy in the club.

>Ok i know i sound cheap but i used to spend some money
>before. Then i just got dissatisfied overtime and because
>shy to do so. But if you really really like a dancer, should
>you buy a dance? I read in the e book that you should get a
>basic one. But what if the dancer you like doesn't do the
>basic one? I read your supposed to be that ''guy'' not that
>''customer'' And then I was wondering are you supposed to be
>real? are you supposed to be yourself or should you play
>some kind of game? my other friend said you get girls by
>bullshitting. the other guy said you gotta be yourself. I am
>so confused now. does the girls want someone who bullshits
>or just a normal guy?

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mazinga_zed
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12. "RE: If you like a dancer should you spend lots of money?"
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   >Ok i know i sound cheap but i used to spend some money
>before. Then i just got dissatisfied overtime and because
>shy to do so. But if you really really like a dancer, should
>you buy a dance? I read in the e book that you should get a
>basic one. But what if the dancer you like doesn't do the
>basic one? I read your supposed to be that ''guy'' not that
>''customer'' And then I was wondering are you supposed to be
>real? are you supposed to be yourself or should you play
>some kind of game? my other friend said you get girls by
>bullshitting. the other guy said you gotta be yourself. I am
>so confused now. does the girls want someone who bullshits
>or just a normal guy?

Keep buying those eBooks off Clickbank.

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13. "RE: If you like a dancer should you spend lots of money?"
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Whatever ebook you read was created to take advantage of you, not help you out. It was lying to you. Forget everything you read in it. Only go to strip clubs for a taste of fantasy, not to pick up chicks. If you see any more ebooks telling you how to date strippers, immediately go and rent the movie "They Live!" by John Carpenter. Every time you see an ebook about dating strippers, watch it again.

"The more we take, the less we become"
~Mclachlan

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14. "RE: If you like a dancer should you spend lots of money?"
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LAST EDITED ON 25-Jan-10 AT 09:32 PM (PST)
 
no your wrong. it is possible. you just need to crack the code. i think a lot of dancers are sweet girls, they just need to pay for tuition or some have sick parents.

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16. "RE: If you like a dancer should you spend lots of money?"
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You're missing the point. It's not that it's impossible. It's that you can't possibly really want what you're asking for, and be sane at the same time. You do not want to date strippers.

Moreover, going to a strip club to pick up girls who work there, even if you do, is nonsensical. If you wanted to get to know someone, you'd go somewhere they were being themselves.

Now, if you just want to rent pretty girls for a weekend, and you're soaking in cash, sure.
But that's entirely different than a relationship, or a bg/gf emotional bond, or anything like that.

Walking in with these misconceptions, you might as well walk in wearing a tee-shirt that says "cow. please recycle.".

"The more we take, the less we become"
~Mclachlan

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15. "RE: If you like a dancer should you spend lots of money?"
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Yes, it's only a fantasy. Women only like rich men and strippers have never and will never date any customers!

Good job bumping up every one of this guy's threads in one hour!

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17. "RE: If you like a dancer should you spend lots of money?"
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Yeah, I know. Just getting caught up, and for whatever reason, this guy appears to be the primary poster these days.

"The more we take, the less we become"
~Mclachlan

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