pleazzze

Let's do a thought experiment, because I doubt you've ever really had a relationship with any woman, your mother and aunties excepted.

You've theoretically had a relationship, and you'v theoretically been dumped. Is that because you were nice or because you were mean? Probably neither. You were dumped because you were and are a blithering idiot.

So you have no basis to argue one way or another.

Don't know so much about confidence as I think at least the women I have encountered are always looking for the "fantasy" and want their a-hole bfs to become that fantasy. Do you know how many times I have heard "Oh i wish my BF were more like you", and yet they always go back to dead end relationships? Or they want the fixer uper who always disappoint them. I could tell you of the times listening to women vent and thinking what they want is not that difficult to find as it is sitting right their next to them. Oh well.

Straight cash homey.

And take a look at us. Would we rather be spending time with our dependable significant others, or be chasing hard to get strippers?

"I'd rather be cheated by Trina Banks than make love to my wife."

To tell you the truth, this might be contrary to what most guys might like, but I hate the hard to get game. it's a big turn off to me.

If a chick (whether she's stripper or some hot babe) plays hard to get with me, even if deep down she does like me, I'd give her the finger and move on. I have too much ego to want to play the cat and mouse game.

I would wait for that combustional/chemistry/spur of the moment fall in love/great sex between a man and a woman, (which has happened a few times).