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millionaireloser click here to view user rating
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"It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual friends"
 
LAST EDITED ON 05-Feb-10 AT 03:04 PM (PST)
 
My friend told me that there is different types of friends. Wine and meat friends, true friends, casual friends. But he said that dancers are just casual friends, they are your friends, but they are not ''really'' your friends. They are just people you see at their job. I think i gotta try different avenues. I realized I never had a date in my whole life. Even 12 year olds are ahead of me in the game. NOw that is sad. Imagine a 10 year old has more girlfriends than I ever had. I had a few strippers tell me that were boyfriend/girlfriend but I'm not so sure it counts. I did go out with one dancer before. I went to her house actually. Never kissed or anything. I paid for her rent and car window, also gave her money to gamble. she lost 400 in 3 minutes. i went to the bathroom came back and she lost it all! couldn't believe it. i got mad at her and she snapped back at me and told me to never come at her like that. So i met up at her place a few times. She told me that i was her boyfriend. I wonder if that counts. That's as close as i ever got. I think more was to come out of that relationship but for some reason her phone stopped working. I hope she is all well.

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1. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   "But he said that dancers are just casual friends, they are your friends, but they are not ''really'' your friends. They are just people you see at their job."

Same thing applies to civey "Party-Girls" - you see them at YOUR job lol

Thanks, Eddie/Elvis

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2. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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What do you mean by civey? You use that word a lot. Interesting. You mean the tall girls you always encounter right?

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Eddie_aka_Elvis
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3. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   LAST EDITED ON 05-Feb-10 AT 03:26 PM (PST)
 
>What do you mean by civey? You use that word a lot.

Short for "civilian." (not a Stripper, Escort, Asian massage et.al)

>Interesting. You mean the tall girls you always encounter
>right?

Something like that...

Thanks, Eddie/Elvis

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4. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   As long as you got the ca$h...

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5. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   > I think more was to come out of that relationship but for some reason her phone stopped working. I hope she is all well.

The reason was she didn't want you to call any more. Get the picture? You must be the most naive person on this planet. If you didn't bone her without giving her money then you weren't her boyfriend. She's an expert in the game that she plays. You are a noob, and will always be one.

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6. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   Hey you learn, move on. Keep posting brother. Fuck all the guys who tell you not to post.

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8. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   LAST EDITED ON 05-Feb-10 AT 11:41 PM (PST)
 
>ML, if you are going to go on a date with a non-stripper
>you're going to have to learn to carry on a conversation.
>You probably don't have a regular job, so you're probably
>not around regular people most of the time. You're circle
>of friends include people who think they can live forever by
>wearing magnets, and can turn from Asian to White by taking
>pills. Regular people will think you're a creepy dude,
>which is probably true, by the vibe you give off. It will
>be difficult for you to carry on a conversation with anyone
>(man or woman) because you are just so far out there.

What a racist cocksucker. "Can turn from Asian to white" by taking pills? Kay Kay Kay member, eh?

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10. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   > What a racist cocksucker. "Can turn from Asian to white" by taking pills? Kay Kay Kay member, eh?

Do your research before spewing off at the mouth, okay? In one of his videos his boy claims to look more White than Asian because he's taking gorgeouspil.

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9. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   Just get your ass out there and mingle with regular people. Strip clubs are a wacky microcosm. Some of us visit just for some playtime. Most of visit for a slice of fantasy. The important thing to remember, as difficult as it may be at times, is that these women really just see a wad of cash instead of a human being. They aren't struttin around in 5 inch heels for their health. They're working. If you remove the money from the equation they disappear like roaches when you turn on the light.

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11. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   That was kind of poetic.

Roaches and strippers....

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12. "not so"
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LAST EDITED ON 06-Feb-10 AT 02:04 AM (PST)
 

No Muffdriver, What are you saying? No she was the one that called ME most of the time. She was the one that wanted to be with ME most of the time. She's an expert? We went out several times, even holded hands! I even met her friends and her ex boyfriend and was inside her bedroom!! Your saying she would bother with all that just for a few hundred bucks? I actually went to her house and went out with all her friends and even spoke to her mom!

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14. "RE: not so"
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and you got played for a fool, son. look around you, there are couples everywhere, and you're the only single one. maybe you should go back to china where you have a clue.

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16. "RE: not so"
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   LAST EDITED ON 06-Feb-10 AT 03:28 AM (PST)
 
Yeah honestly Millionaireloser, sounds like you got played. The fact you gave her all that money payed her rent etc and didnt sleep with her says alot. I mean really, even to get her in bed, probably wouldnt have been near the amount of money you imply you spent on her.

Women are more strategic then you think, you got played buddy.

If her phone got shut off, and she really were interested in you, she could have called from another phone. She's not in prison or on a dessert island right?

And she bit your head off for pocketing your gambling money. Thats just sad man. At least she could have thrown you a pity F87k...

Some guys have all the luck, unfortunatly your not that guy...

Things could be worse though at least your not that delusional mazingared guy. Or Girlypink whatever his name was. That guy imagined having sex with people and thought it was real.

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21. "RE: not so"
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   > Things could be worse though at least your not that delusional mazingared guy. Or Girlypink whatever his name was. That guy imagined having sex with people and thought it was real.

Yeah, but he's pretty close.

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20. "RE: not so"
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   > No she was the one that called ME most of the time.

Yeah, but did she call you when her phone stopped working?

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15. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   LAST EDITED ON 06-Feb-10 AT 03:07 AM (PST)
 
"Just get your ass out there and mingle with regular people."

LOL...ROTFLOL...Magic "regular people" as in DRUGGED-OUT "Party-Girls," horny nurses and FEMALE BARTENDERS...lol.

Thanks, Eddie/Elvis

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13. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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Was she tall?

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17. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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no argo she was only like five two. But I thought she really like me. I got played? you guys don't know what your talking about. I actually went to her HOUSE! have you guys went to a strippers house? and meet her friends? and hold hands at the casino? She probably had an emergency and lost my number. She was going through a lot. Hope she is all well. now i miss her cuz she was my friend. :(

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22. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   LOL. Stop it ML you're killing me!

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18. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   I thought ML was getting his own channel?

>My friend told me that there is different types of friends.
>Wine and meat friends, true friends, casual friends. But he
>said that dancers are just casual friends, they are your
>friends, but they are not ''really'' your friends. They are
>just people you see at their job. I think i gotta try
>different avenues. I realized I never had a date in my whole
>life. Even 12 year olds are ahead of me in the game. NOw
>that is sad. Imagine a 10 year old has more girlfriends than
>I ever had. I had a few strippers tell me that were
>boyfriend/girlfriend but I'm not so sure it counts. I did go
>out with one dancer before. I went to her house actually.
>Never kissed or anything. I paid for her rent and car
>window, also gave her money to gamble. she lost 400 in 3
>minutes. i went to the bathroom came back and she lost it
>all! couldn't believe it. i got mad at her and she snapped
>back at me and told me to never come at her like that. So i
>met up at her place a few times. She told me that i was her
>boyfriend. I wonder if that counts. That's as close as i
>ever got. I think more was to come out of that relationship
>but for some reason her phone stopped working. I hope she is
>all well.

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19. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   >I thought ML was getting his own channel?
>

Why would he need his own channel when so many are clearly encouraging him to use this forum as his own channel?

It almost makes me long for the days of the flame threads - though that was equally vile as this non-stop spam shit to me.

That crap tended to happen, though, in threads where there was some sc-related information being conveyed. These threads are just completely repetitive and devoid of any sc-related information.

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23. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   My feeling is that it's probably best to think of the dancers as strippers. That would seem to be the most accurate assessment of the situation.

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24. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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   You face a potential problem if you start treating the dancers as your friends. Psychologically, you might start treating your friends as strippers. You know, paying them to go to dinner with you, or even to sit on your lap. And that could lead to some serious embarassment and misunderstandings.

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25. "RE: It's probably best to just think of the dancers as casual fri"
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Yes, always keep it fun and casual!

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