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rawhide
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"Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her numb"
 
   She never called me back. I don't feel like making a fool of myself and honestly I think anything I was thinking was going on between me and her was just the small head thinking.

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1. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her "
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   just be sure you never spend another dollar on her at the club--and let her know WHY. and do not accept any excuses for her not calling you--including being repulsed by you.

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2. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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   Ah, that's tad bit extreme. The whole phone number thing is part of the whole illusory world of strip clubs. I bet-if you don't bring it up-she won't even remember that she gave you her number.

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3. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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   I am pretty sure this would not affect her life very much, though it would go a long way towards making you appear desperate and maybe just a little weird.

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4. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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   The entire idea behind the giving of the phone number and then not returning calls is to get you back into the club to see her.
She may eventually in fact see you but it may require many such trips to the club. Be prepared to hear excuses as to why she did not return your call.
- there was a mix up on my phone bill payment - I can't pay it yet ... could you...
- my phone fell in the tub while I was taking a bath ...
- I had to go out of town on a family emergency and was ...
- add your favorite here ...

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6. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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   your being at the club makes you "appear desperate". but if she gave you her number or took yours, you CANNOT return to the original stripper-patron relationship, or she will forever siphon money from you AND tell all the other strippers about you.

you MUST refuse to pay her further for club activities (this, of course, excludes mbot, where you can already get what you really want). it is no different that coke or heroine--she got used to you giving money away. you must now nip it in the bud. this too will make the rounds to the other strippers, and YOU will be dealing from the base of power. in fact, you will soon relish telling them, "no honey, no money".

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11. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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   >your being at the club makes you "appear desperate". but if
>she gave you her number or took yours, you CANNOT return to
>the original stripper-patron relationship, or she will
>forever siphon money from you AND tell all the other
>strippers about you.
>
>you MUST refuse to pay her further for club activities
>(this, of course, excludes mbot, where you can already get
>what you really want). it is no different that coke or
>heroine--she got used to you giving money away. you must
>now nip it in the bud. this too will make the rounds to the
>other strippers, and YOU will be dealing from the base of
>power. in fact, you will soon relish telling them, "no
>honey, no money".

Calm down.

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12. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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   No kidding. Dancers can be flaky; you can roll with it, or you can spend a lot of time being pissed off.

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13. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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I don't your "base of power" will matter much if she just moves on to the next pl.

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5. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her "
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   Sorry stuttering ben, dont mean to steal your shtick.. but. in response to poster..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qeMFqkcPYcg

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8. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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   Child Pleazzze.

no problem. don't be sorry, be happy. like eddie.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y7aNnsVXstQ


http://forum.myredbook.com/dcforum2/User_files2/9xa3d1jqnvj0e06v.jpg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8E926g_xegI

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7. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her "
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   How long did you wait to call back and what were you thinking was happening between you and her?

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9. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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   I waited a few days.

I thought she might want to do a private session.

I have pretty much dropped the matter. I am finding better things to spend my money on that are a much better value.

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14. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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   That's pretty much the right attitude I think. If you go to the club again, have an attitude of not caring but not hostile.

Personally, if she inquires, state that you gave her a call but never got called back so you figured she was not interested. Then go spend money on some other dancers. If you want a relationship (which I would not), you can't give money to her on on her terms. Make her do the next step. If you want a cordial client|dancer relationship, buys a few lap dances after she comes back to entice you. Make her work for your dollar again.

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15. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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   Doods. Let's focus. These girls are at work. It doesn't matter what you say/do/gesture/arm fart, within human decency. They still want your money and they're still working. Even the really cool ones, even the ones you have chemistry with.

Very occasionally dancer/PL relationships happen, but they're such lightning strikes it's hardly worth spilling keystrokes over. And ah NEVAH heard of a relationship coming about on the first PL try with a dancer. The one-in-a-thousand relationship happens after you hang about a while.

Veni Vidi Vici
The Mandarin

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17. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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   "It doesn't matter what you say/do/gesture/arm fart, within human decency. They still want your money"

It doesn't matter what you say/do/gesture/arm fart, within human decency. These threads about delusional PL's and their quest for out-of-the-club relationships will NEVER end...

Thanks, Eddie/Elvis

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16. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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   That's an easy one. Just move on. Plenty of options for private sessions outside of the strip club world.

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Eddie_aka_Elvis
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10. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her "
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   It means she wants your business...

Thanks, Eddie/Elvis

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18. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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SHAZAM! I too had this happen once, and got all excited thinking that we were in love and she never called. The next night I went back to the club to claim my love and to my surprise she was giving a PD to some 400 pound loser! needless to say my heart was broken and I never returned to the club again....till next week.

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19. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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   If you intended to pay, I don't think your expectations were too far out of line. It does depend on the girl/club to a degree, but at MBOT they used to have a little pad of paper at the snack shop to make it easy for the girls to give out their numbers. You'll probably pay a premium price, but if it's something you like and you can afford it, why not? Just call her again, don't sweat it.

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20. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her "
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   >She never called me back. I don't feel like making a fool of
>myself and honestly I think anything I was thinking was
>going on between me and her was just the small head
>thinking.

Try using text. Works for me.

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21. "RE: Follow up to: 'what does it mean when a dancer gives you her"
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   I can tell you what I've done in the past. When one of these girls gives you her number, do nothing. Give it like a week or more. Then next time you see her and talk to her in person, she will be pissed. She will want to know why you haven't called (the reverse of your current predicament). Now you'll know she really wants you to call her. You can then either call her or turn it into a game where you keep promising to call but don't call (don't play that too long, lol). If she never confronts you about your not calling, you probably weren't a big deal to her to begin with.

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