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"Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
 
   LAST EDITED ON 24-Aug-10 AT 09:23 PM (PST)
 
I realized something important. Long ago strippers told me they won't date men who go to strip club often. Now I realized this is true. I have a tenant who's late on rent. She's a single mother with a 4 year old child. She's waiting for financial aid and unemployment benefit to kick in. Then today she texted me telling me that the plumber can fix the faucet now because she's done showering. Then she gave me her nickname "sunshine". Wow! She's making a pass on me. She's not bad looking. She could strip. But anyways my point is if she knows that I am the kind of man who goes to the strip club all the time, hell no she will try to make a pass on me. No matter how bad the situation, no matter how lonely and afraid she is, the last thing she wants is a guy who goes to strip club all the time. Man I just realized it now. Those strippers are not kidding around.

I mean imagine you are a stripper. Time is tough, and you have a child. You need to strip in order to buy food and pay rent. Would you trust some guy who goes to the strip club all the time even if he's rich and good looking? Because the guy could be using you for one time sex. Then move on to the next stripper. You rather find a decent man who's not into the strip club. Somebody who can help you out financially. I mean these girls are desperate. Time is tough, and they need to strip. Normally speaking if they see a rich guy who's not too bad looking, they should be all over him. But no, not if you go to the strip club all the time. Because if you do then nobody wants you. They don't trust you.

So my theory is go to a club you hardly go. Then see a girl you like and tell her how rich you are. Make sure you tell her you hardly come to strip clubs. Then you never know. She might go out with you.

I realized it now. It's all about trust. If Im a stripper, I rather date some fatass who sits home all day and watch TV than dating some rich guy who goes to strip club all the time. Because the fatass might be lazy but at least he's not cheating on me. But the man who goes to strip club all the time? Flirting with other girls while Im stripping? Hell no.

So to the guy who throws money in the air, the phillipino dude at centerfolds. I suggest you to try another club, a club you hardly go to. Then tell the stripper you go to strip club like once a year. Then give her $50 tip and ask her out. That might work. Do not let her know you are a regular. Once you do you are black listed.

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1. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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   you are a moronic dweeb..

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3. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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   dont ever stop posting dude you are the reason i am still alive i envy your style you got game

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manhattan2 manhattan2 rating
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7. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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   Im the reason you're alive? Why? What's your problem? You got problem with clubs too?

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8. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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   i got banned by omar for more than a year. I was banned from going in mbot. Do you think i got problem with club?!

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11. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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   Congrat! You are free. You are not institutionalized anymore. Hell they are saving you money! It's a great time to save up since the economy is so bad. Plus the strippers won't date regulars anyways. So why keep going back?

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4. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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I'll buy that. Whereas most people don't mind talking about their work, there's a reason most strippers keep their stripper work private -- social stigma. And the stripping profession is sort of a pit that they fall into, and it's really hard to get out of... the money is good, they have no marketable job skills elsewhere. They would love to meet someone who is outside of their "underworld", one who is firmly rooted in the more acceptable, above-ground, real world. If you can pretend that you are part of this world, more power to you.

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5. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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>I'll buy that. Whereas most people don't mind talking about
>their work, there's a reason most strippers keep their
>stripper work private -- social stigma. And the stripping
>profession is sort of a pit that they fall into, and it's
>really hard to get out of... the money is good, they have no
>marketable job skills elsewhere. They would love to meet
>someone who is outside of their "underworld", one who is
>firmly rooted in the more acceptable, above-ground, real
>world. If you can pretend that you are part of this world,
>more power to you.

Well put.

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15. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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   re:

They would love to meet
>someone who is outside of their "underworld", one who is
>firmly rooted in the more acceptable, above-ground, real
>world.

They might like it but it's just a dream for most of them. Even if they did meet someone they'd figure a way to fuck it up by lying or otherwise not trusting the "above-ground" person in question. Most strippers don't make it to the "real world" b/c they don't want to. They think they can get off the "underground" train and transfer to regular transport anytime. Right up until they realize the last bus just left and then they have to foot it...

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6. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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   Yeah I realized this a little late. Or is it because I refused to realize it back in those days? Now I see that most strippers are very desperate and very serious. They ain't got the time to fool around. They're not looking for prince charming. They're not looking for Hung jock. They are looking for somebody who they can trust. So if you goto strip club 2 times a week, you simply are not trustworthy enough. Maybe I refused to realize this back in those days.

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9. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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   Yup, and when they run into a musician/dj who's got no car, share's an apartment, no health plan, no security, goes from gig to gig, town to town, they will go home with him and have his baby.

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10. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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   Yeah I know. It's crazy.

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12. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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All these men who strippers date... what do they have in common?

What do they have that you don't? Think about it.

What's the common denominator?

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13. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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   Oh yeah. Good way to solve problem. Lets see. Most of them are losers, which is not a joke. Not many of them are good looking. Some are but most surprises you. Maybe most are not regulars.

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17. "RE: Fascists!"
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   This is actually a very good post. I hope they don't lock it. I mean people need to know what strippers think.

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18. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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   "Then tell the stripper you go to strip club like once a year. Then give her $50 tip and ask her out. That might work."

LOL...ROTFLOL...manhattan2 your theory sounds delusional at best, and that's coming from a guy who truly goes to strip club like once a year...lol.

Thanks, Eddie/Elvis

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19. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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   You have too much time on your hand, who thinks of things, you need to see a shrink to stop this obsession

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20. "RE: Girls don't respect men who go to strip club often"
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   No, they just think you're a dick.

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