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manhattan2 manhattan2 rating
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240 posts, 1 feedbacks, 2 points		 26-Aug-10, 10:02 PM (PST)
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"What to do if a regular is not buying lap dances"
 
   I used to be a regular who buys very little lap dance. The reason is the lap dances were $60 a pop, if you want to enter the booth that is. Too expensive for bad times. Another reason is for some reason all my favorite girls refuse to give me a lap dance. This is absolutely true. I am not lying.

Why can't the manager just come up to me and ask, "Hey, Mister. How come you are not buying lap dances? Is there anything I can do to help? Speak to me. Can I give you a better rate, say a 30% discount? Which girl you like? Maybe I can tell the bouncers that when you do a lap dance, you get better rate."

I mean managers see regular customers all the time. When they are not spending money, I don't think its because they ain't got money. No they do. It's just that they are careful or the prices are way too high. So the manager should negotiate with the customer. I mean negotiate like a used car salesman. Why can't the strippers be like a used car and be negotiated?

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1390 posts, 8 feedbacks, 11 points		 27-Aug-10, 00:20 AM (PST)
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1. "RE: What to do if a regular is not buying lap dances"
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   Of course you can negotiate...anything can be negotiated..except death; even taxes can be negotiated.

You seem to be so socially deprived of any level of common interest to anyone that the intrinsic alienation you display is a complete turn-off...you have been spamming this board for just a few days and I already feel sorry for myself.

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Victory29
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2. "RE: What to do if a regular is not buying lap dances"
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   Do the girls ever tell you why they refuse to dance for you?

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manhattan2 manhattan2 rating
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5. "RE: What to do if a regular is not buying lap dances"
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   Well, I think one girl says shit about me, then the other girls all volunteered to boycott me. Very strange. I don't know what they could say about me to cause the boycott. Like Im creepy or something?

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TheMuffDiver
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6. "RE: What to do if a regular is not buying lap dances"
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   Is it possible that you try too hard to impress them with your knockoff goods?

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Eddie_aka_Elvis
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8. "RE: What to do if a regular is not buying lap dances"
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   LAST EDITED ON 02-Sep-10 AT 10:40 AM (PST)
 
"Like Im creepy or something?"

Those girls are strippers, fercrissakes; they see "creepy" duudes all night long. Either you posted some shit that offended them on an open discussion board, (lol) or you insulted them to their face. Otherwise, don't think for a second I believe your story...

Thanks, Eddie/Elvis

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Udaho Udaho rating
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9. "Yoo Hoo! You finally figured it out!"
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   > Like Im creepy or something?

Congratulations! Apparently I underestimated your intelligence!

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gfunk49 gfunk49 rating
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3. "RE: What to do if a regular is not buying lap dances"
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LAST EDITED ON 27-Aug-10 AT 02:36 AM (PST)
 
I've bargained with dancers all the time. It actually works maybe 1/3 of the time. But you can't ask for just one dance - something like "hey, how about a 2 for 1 topless dance?" Prices aren't always set in stone. Well, maybe at Centerfolds, but I avoid clubs with overpaid penguins and bathroom spies.

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4. "RE: What to do if a regular is not buying lap dances"
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   I suppose you can negotiate if you want but that's not going to make a favorable impression if she feels she is getting cheated and if she doesn't like you are not likely to get a stellar lapdance. If you are "nice" to them then they will be nice to you.

I know you talk about not wanting to spend money on lapdances, so sit next to the stage and tip $1.00 bills all night. That's cheap or just wait until a girl comes and talk. You don't have to buy her a drink (but you should) and if she finds you interesting she will stay around and if she finds you really interesting she can meet up with you when she gets off of work just to hang out. But you need to make a very, very favorable impression. That's not likely to happen if you are perceived as cheap.

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10. "RE: What to do if a regular is not buying lap dances"
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If she feels she can make better money than at a 2-for-1 pace, she can easily turn my offer down, and find another PL who will pay the full rate. I don't force this kind of offer down a dancer's throat; I merely offer it as an alternative to saying "No thanks"... and offer it only on slow nights. A busy night, obviously, this won't stand a chance.

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