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manhattan2 manhattan2 rating
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"My friend is scared to enter strip club due to bouncer"
 
   LAST EDITED ON 02-Sep-10 AT 08:40 PM (PST)
 
Just few weeks ago, one of my friends got banned by a strip club. Now this is the 2nd strip club that banned him without any reason. So now he's like me, don't want to goto strip club anymore. Not because he's trying to be like me, fight this to the end. But he said these strip club managers and bouncers are crazy or stupid. Like if you have issue with a customer at lets say Roaring 20s, then the bouncer or manager might inform other club managers to not let that customer in. The result? The customer don't dare to goto any club anymore. Because nobody wants to be embarrassed by bouncer or manager when they tap you in the back and ask you to leave. Its embarrassing. So my point is this: Maybe managers and bouncers should just care about their own club and less about what happened in other clubs. Because lets take my friend for example: He loves strip club. He needs to spend money on lap dances, few times a week. Now he doesn't dare to enter any club because managers of different clubs team up on him. I mean what the fuck for? He got banned the 1st time for an inproper reason. Then for some reason he paid $25 to enter a club, then 1 hour later they just tap him in the back, gave him back his $25 and asked him to lease and never come back. Somebody from the 1st club has informed the 2nd club which banned him. Crazy right? Who's losing money here? Definitely not my friend. I tell you all the club loses money because now my friend is scared.

If you are a club manager, you should consider setting up a conference and tell all other managers to change their ways of patrolling. If a customer has issue in 1 club, that doesn't mean all the club should team up on him. That doesn't mean your bouncers can tap him in the back and ask him questions like you are FBI or something. Customer spend money to enter club. Nobody should bother the customer. No bouncer has the right to tap that customer in the back and ask him did he violate rules or have issues at another club. What ever issue customer has at other club is other club's business. Who cares if all the clubs are owned by the same owner. Every club has different girls. And usually its the issue with a certain girl that got the customer banned. So why should other club's manager or bouncer team up on one customer? Doesn't make any sense. The clubs are losing money if you guys think this is some sort of game. You don't want that in this economy.

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TheMuffDiver
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1. "RE: My friend is scared to enter strip club due to bouncer"
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   Everyone here knows your friend is ML, so why not just spell it out? Maybe ML has some STD that the club owners don't want spreading because they know he tries to make out with all the girls, or they think he's costing their club more money than he is spending. Did you ever think about that?

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manhattan2 manhattan2 rating
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02-Sep-10, 09:18 PM (PST)
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2. "RE: My friend is scared to enter strip club due to bouncer"
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   Oh no, somebody else. I have more than 1 friend that goes to club you know.

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4. "RE: My friend is scared to enter strip club due to bouncer"
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Give the bouncer a bj.

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5. "RE: My friend is scared to enter strip club due to bouncer"
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ML is still pleading his case.

Remember the clubs didn't lose any money. Not all the customers are asked to leave, only the trouble makers are asked to leave. For the safety of the clubs, customers, dancers, etc, trouble makers shouldn't be in the club.

Trouble makers may mean someone with mental problem! Weirdos shouldn't be allowed in the club no matter how much money they have!

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6. "RE: My friend is scared to enter strip club due to bouncer"
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   I concur

Thanks, Eddie/Elvis

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manhattan2 manhattan2 rating
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10. "RE: My friend is scared to enter strip club due to bouncer"
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   I have another friend who got banned from Centerfolds for not taking off his hat. He's losing hair so he doesn't like to take off hat. The bouncer told him once and then he puts hat back on, then bouncer told him to step out. Then bouncer said never to return again. I mean this is some crazy shit. First of all the rule is rediculous. The DJ himself was wearing a hat that night. DJ walking around with a hat but demand the customer to take off hat. And what the ban for? The guy simply ignored the bouncer and put back on the hat.

Guess what? Once I saw a very muscular man wearing only tan top. Bouncer told him to step out side. Guess what? That guy who wears the tan top won't comply. He tells the bouncer to buzz off. Then bouncer talked with another bouncer, and they decided to back off. Nobody wants to touch that guy with tan top because he's so big. No, they just let him roam around the floor with tan top on, did not ban him at the end, nothing.

So why can't the bouncer just risk his life and drag him out for the sake of this club? Why pick on my friend with a hat and also ban him from ever entering? Oh based on your explanation, my friend is a nut job and the guy with tan top is a normal man?

Oh yeah get this. Once at Hustler, I saw a bald headed, 45 year old man, wearing a suit. Looks like Italian gangster. He started taking out his cigarette and started smoking right in the middle of the club. Yeah he was just standing there smoking, like he owns the place. He did it on purpose. Guess what? Nobody dares to approach him and tell him to scram. Those bouncers are all chicken shit.

So I am telling you, its all a God damn game. Some bouncers and managers don't give a shit if the club earns money or not. They are not owners. They don't care. They just want to feel important. They look at you, easy to pick on. They just kick you out for no reason and ban your ass, for fun. That makes them feel important. But I guarantee you a good owner will never take these matters so carelessly. A hands on owner will always think of the customers first. He will speak to the customer and resolve the issue right at the spot.

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11. "RE: My friend is scared to enter strip club due to bouncer"
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   Your right about one thing Manhattan, alot of people including boucers and club managers, prey on individuals they perceieve as weak or defenseless.

One of the owners was at Centerfolds today. Pretty pragmatic guy, just wants to see everything run without hitches. Instead of airing your info out to a bunch of people that can't help you, maybe talk to the middle eastern. The forum actually helps too, they read this.

And I half way agree with your bouncer analogy. Not all bouncers are idiots, but alot of them really are just wannabe tough guys, who like to fight, but dont want to be arrested and go to jail. So when the opportunity arises and they can, they puff up and flex.

Not exactly brain surgeons. Most of the bouncers I know have law enforcement aspirations, but alot also have records, so thats not going to happen.

It really does interest me though, if your buddies are really following the rules and not attempting to maul everyone, that they are ALL getting banned? Kinda hard to believe, if what your saying is factually accurate.

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7. "RE: My friend is scared to enter strip club due to bouncer"
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Those clubs are all owned by the same company. OF COURSE they will gang up on your friend. Just like you and your friends are trying to gang up on the clubs.

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12. "RE: My friend is scared to enter strip club due to bouncer"
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   See, I can tell you probably are not a businessman. But I am. To me managers or bouncers ganging up on customers, to me just a big waste of money. It hurts the owners the most.

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13. "RE: My friend is scared to enter strip club due to bouncer"
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No, I am just not a cheap, penny-pinching landlord.

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8. "RE: My friend is scared to enter strip club due to bouncer"
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going from what i know from dating a stripper that i met at the club. odds are its the way you are acting or they think you are taking pics. the girls hate guys that look like a fool yelling an what not like a mad man rooting her on. now if anything that drives the girls crazy an piss them off and fucks up ther routine its that asshole. but when they do like my ex and make every1 just about in the room go crazy its dif. but when you have sum dip shit acting like a crazy asshole being the loudest person in the room it get old fast and if you start causing them to fuck up to much your ass is out. and if you want to know why every club find out is because most girls work at more then 1 club. my ex would take a week or 2 off from fantasy and go work at 1 of the other clubs just to change shit up and most girls do that about once every to every other month so dont blame anyone but your self for chasing the girls off lol.

..but im happy smoker at 420

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9. "RE: My friend is scared to enter strip club due to bouncer"
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   I concur

Thanks, Eddie/Elvis

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