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tavarez click here to view user rating
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"Souper time with my ATF"
 
   Visted with my favorite RA yesterday and after a really great time followed by lots of hugging, fondling, chatting and laughing we got on the subject of cooking, whereapon she told me she makes great soup and brought me a bowl (since it was just after lunch). First time I had lunch with an RA.

Its times like these that blur the line between provider and "freinds with benefits."

There is better eye candy out there, but I am hooked by the complete experience with her.

Anyone as nuts for their favorite RA as me?

tav

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1. "RE: Souper time with my ATF"
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Except for friends with benefits don't pay for the benefits!

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2. "RE: Souper time with my ATF"
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   Friends with benefits is a no pay deal...RA's expect you too pay them
for the deed. How blurry is this too you?
It's a part of the job too make you feel special and appreciated.
Just enjoy the complete experience with her and don't go nuts.

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3. "RE: Souper time with my ATF"
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   have not seen her for while but cat of nekocat used cook some really good taiwanese soups and dishes. used to spend some very relaxing time with her after the action and great massage. very sweet woman, unfortunately she was getting a little too paunchy for my taste when i last saw her.

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4. "RE: Souper time with my ATF"
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   LAST EDITED ON 02-Mar-10 AT 10:34 AM (PST)
 
How did you know who I was talking about?

Boys, thanks for keeping me focused on the fact that this is P4P. You are correct of course, but it is still cheaper than some dates I have been on, and no regrets later.

As far as her being a bit "paunchy", true, but not compared to me! (Maybe I should have said "no thanks" to the soup!)

tav

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5. "RE: Souper time with my ATF"
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   LAST EDITED ON 02-Mar-10 AT 11:20 AM (PST)
 
>How did you know who I was talking about?
>
>Boys, thanks for keeping me focused on the fact that this is
>P4P. You are correct of course, but it is still cheaper
>than some dates I have been on, and no regrets later.
>
>As far as her being a bit "paunchy", true, but not compared
>to me! (Maybe I should have said "no thanks" to the soup!)
>
>tav

didn't know that's who you were talking about, mentioned cat because her dishes stood out for me, rustic, savory home cooking that's a different than the chinese and korean food that i normally ran into. i have nice memories of sharing food and drink with her well into the night.

i have not seen her since before she moved to the peninsula last year. i think she is back in the south bay again. like i said, she is very sweet, enjoyed every minute spent with her so what's to regret?

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6. "RE: Souper time with my ATF"
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   If you want this kind of extra tender loving care service like cooking than Sophia is the best.

http://www.myredbook.com/showpro.aspx?id=9929

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10. "RE: Souper time with my ATF"
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   >thanks for keeping me focused on the fact that this is P4P

I shared dinner with an RA once, at her insistence. However, I did not think much of it. I just thought it was a nice gesture and that was about it, given that it was my first time with her. It was also possible that she had too much food and she did not want it to go to waste.

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7. "RE: Souper time with my ATF"
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>
>Its times like these that blur the line between provider and
>"freinds with benefits."
>

Of coutse your gonna hear from the P4P guys, and why not, it's true.
But, you do indeed develope $pecial? relationships with a few of the women, what do you P4P guys say about booking 2 hours and ending up spending 5 hours, or 4 hours?

I will admitt having seen these few women many times, I guess you could say;

"pay it forward"....................

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8. "RE: Souper time with my ATF"
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   Yes but she's retired now. I do miss her. If there wasn't such an age difference, maybe...

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9. "RE: Souper time with my ATF"
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   >Yes but she's retired now. I do miss her. If there wasn't
>such an age difference, maybe...


not retired, her classified ad is up today
http://classifieds.myredbook.com/classified.php?adid=128751

despite the age difference, maybe... you should.

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13. "RE: Souper time with my ATF"
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From ad:

"Pleas call: 408-665-5333(Friendly Male PO)
Hours: 11pm to 10 pm "

She has a LONG work day. Must be all the cooking!

DB

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11. "RE: Souper time with my ATF"
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Great!
Why dont you just do this, from now on?

Don't schedule for any more PAID sessions with her.
Just become her "kitchen papah" and cook meals for her AND you.

Viola! You become the bitch, and one with blue balls at that.
And this is the reason why CQ says he's in the "doghouse" so much.
You put yourself out of being just a regular John and become involved with the whore in HER business. ANd this is where the RA/girl, draws the line, and says to you: "I wont fuck you no more".

The end.

And PS, if you didnt get the subliminal message: You are either her customer or you work for her. Not both and there's no such thing as being "friends".

>Visted with my favorite RA yesterday and after a really
>great time followed by lots of hugging, fondling, chatting
>and laughing we got on the subject of cooking, whereapon she
>told me she makes great soup and brought me a bowl (since it
>was just after lunch). First time I had lunch with an RA.
>
>Its times like these that blur the line between provider and
>"freinds with benefits."
>
>There is better eye candy out there, but I am hooked by the
>complete experience with her.
>
>Anyone as nuts for their favorite RA as me?
>
>tav

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14. "RE: Souper time with my ATF"
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   Same thing happened for me when my ATF brought me a gift-wrapped box (and no, we're not talking about that box...perverts) after a session after the holidays. Real sweet gesture, even got me something that I needed. Talk about blurring the personal/professional relationships.

The way I see it, the RA/client relationship's the same as any business relationship. I've certainly become friends with some of my business clients in the past, even shared a couple drinks/late night outs with some. But at the end of the day, it's still a business arrangement, you pay for a service. Sure, you may be able to share a laugh, a meal, or a night out, but I'll echo the sentiment shared by the other brothers on this thread: no pay = no play.

Just continue to treat these girls right for the good ones really are something else.

Play safe, gents.

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15. "RE: Souper time with my ATF"
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LAST EDITED ON 09-Mar-10 AT 04:37 PM (PST)
 
Hey Tav. It happens a lot. Especially if you see the RA on a regular basis and the line gets really blurry when you see her off the clock and she turns out to be pretty cool person. Once the line is crossed and you become genuine friends then that is when you start to go nuts:) It can get messy with emotions flying, but you have to keep reminding yourself where that line is and where the boundaries are.

To be honest one of my ex-ATFs in San Diego takes me out...treats me to dinner more then I treat her..jeez..she reminds me when my birthday is and plans a birthday dinner party with her...that is when she became my "ex-ATF" and just a real good friend because if I continued appointments with her it would probably ruin the friendship (there are many in my rotation so who cares if there is one less). You really have to keep site of the business / friend ship boundary and that is what I did for her.

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16. "flashing on an anecdote"
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   Old gent confined to a retirement home receives a surprise visitor --a hooker sent by his nephew as a treat for the old guy's birthday.

Voluptuous babe, flinging open the curtain to his bed space: Hi!!

Old gent: W-who are you?

Babe: I'm here for super sex!!

Old gent: O-okay then. I'll just have the soup

/bada-Bing

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17. "RE: flashing on an anecdote"
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   It happens all the time.

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18. "RE: flashing on an anecdote"
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>It happens all the time.

Really? They never offer me soup!

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19. "RE: flashing on an anecdote"
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   >>
April 16 (Bloomberg) -- When a male resident at Kildegaarden nursing home in Denmark made an indecent sexual proposal to a member of the staff, the home's director, Inger Marie Kristensen, told a nurse to telephone for a prostitute.

``There was a considerable change in his demeanor after the escort girl had paid him a visit,'' Kristensen said in an interview. ``We do this for our clients just as we offer them other services that they need as human beings.''

Kildegaarden, located 100 miles (160 kilometers) west of Copenhagen in Skanderborg, has about 100 residents, including victims of Alzheimer's disease and strokes. Nurses arranged visits by call girls three times in the past three years.

While Welfare Minister Karen Jespersen says Denmark's 98 municipalities are free to let nurses call prostitutes, some lawmakers are stepping up efforts to pull women out of the profession, which has been legal in the country since 1999.
>>

Now that would be some great health care reform in the US. We can only hope. Why are we so backward here in the US?


d99

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20. "RE: flashing on an anecdote"
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   Reminds me of that old joke where Hillary Clinton is taking a tour of a hospital...

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21. "RE: flashing on an anecdote"
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   Once, an RA cook a dinner for me after the session, a nice treat!

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