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rickybobby8889
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"Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
 
   Was talking to one of my ATFs the other day. She mentioned if I book her for multiple hours that we could go out on the town for dinner, etc. She also suggested we could also just stay in and cook and have more time to relax together. Now I'm not naive I realize she benefits b/c more $ yet less "pounding". But have to admit it'd be nice given I fully understand the reality of it all. There are certain ATFs I really enjoy as a person yet that one hour seems to fly by. Anyone else tried this?

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1. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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We have all experienced that twinkle in her eye or that look that says you da man or that unrepeatable performance that was all because of her. Its your dough and your time but no way should you pay her for off the clock hang out time. I have been out with plenty of RA's on the town and never once did I or her ask about compensation. You pay for the pounding and if your paying and shes not getting pounded then your wallet is. Spend time with her when you not paying and see what kind of person she is then.

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2. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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   Yeah, if she really wants to hang out the. She could schedule it on a day off. I would not pay for time like that. But it's your dime and as a general rule you should not listen to a guy named fishsandwich nor anyone on Internet forums

Also rules were meant to be broken. Best of luck whatever you choose to do.

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3. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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As Osiris already said you should not be paying her just to hang out during or after hours. This kind of private time spent with an RA is typically "off the clock".
On the contrary, on many occasions it was the RA who insisted on picking up the tab for entire evening. This allows her to maintain control of the non working relationship and avoid any feelings that she owes you something or feels pressured that she must reciprocate with sex.

>Was talking to one of my ATFs the other day. She mentioned
>if I book her for multiple hours that we could go out on the
>town for dinner, etc.

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rickybobby8889
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4. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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   Yep. I understand wht everyone is saying here. I also know that it is common for escorts go out with clients and it's paid. After all that is where the term "escort" originated. I realize an RA is not the typical escort but seems like this is the arrangement she is trying to work. This particular ATF says she gets no off time while she is here so tht is why there is a charge cuz any time spent w/ me outside is time she doesn't get paid for. Meh....I'll stick to the program for now and see what develops.

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9. "As far as this h00ker goes, you are not getting 'free' time from"
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   her. She is on 'metered' when she is with you.
If you want off the clock time with a h00ker, try someone else....

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10. "RE: As far as this h00ker goes, you are not getting 'free' time f"
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LAST EDITED ON 16-Mar-10 AT 03:55 PM (PST)
 
>her. She is on 'metered' when she is with you.
> If you want off the clock time with a h00ker, try someone
>else....

Good sage advice. But...not all "hookers" are hookers off the clock.

I've dated a few and they're just human beings that do the same basic human being things the rest of us do.

Some of my fondest memories were shopping (they buy their own stuff of course), going out to lunch (on me, petty stuff), going to sightsee (most of the time on me, again, petty stuff), and dinner (often on me but sometimes on them, again, petty stuff).

These gals are for the most part decent people when not "working". I've had freebie sessions simply because she wanted to get to know me. Of course, freebie is not totally free, as petty stuff has to be paid for as referenced above.

I once had an overnighter with Crown Royal and some good food prepared by her at her apt. (not working apt.), and it was all FREE. I didn't have to pay a cent but days after, rewarded/responded in kind to her friendship with benefits by taking her out to a nice restaurant. Again, that was AFTER she first extended her generosity and kindness out of nowhere randomly and spontaneously.

Like anywhere else in life: It's worth it if you click and have chemistry, and enjoy each other and it might work if both are compatible. But you will only know that if you have an open mind and an open heart and yes, an open wallet (within reason).

PN69

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rickybobby8889
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13. "RE: As far as this h00ker goes, you are not getting 'free' time f"
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   Agree...I have become friends with a few working gals (not AAMPs gals tho)and they are all nice people who are just doing a job. One of my good friends is a pretty famous p-star that I hang out with every time I am in LA (for free;-) ) Most people would be intimidated by her but she is so cool...like one of the guys and very laid back.

But back to the subject....I posted here to see if anyone had spent their paid time with an RA for other than boinking. Not to determine if it was worth paying for or not. In the end you end up paying one way or the other for time you spend with the women you enjoy being with. Anyway, anyone straight up paid to take these girls out and do you regret it? I'm pretty much on the fence and will just continue our standard relationship for now. But still curious to see what others may think.

Thanks...

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14. "RE: As far as this h00ker goes, you are not getting 'free' time f"
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   LAST EDITED ON 16-Mar-10 AT 07:50 PM (PST)
 
a few months ago, i became good friends with an RA. i am lucky enough to be born in the states & able to speak mandarin. so i was able to thoroughly communicate with her. she got Ponzi Schemed in China and had to escape to the states to make money to pay people back. so shes not your typical hustler type woman, shes a good woman put in a terrible situation. to this day we are still good friends. i never had to pay her money to take her out for "non-boinking" time. shes a sweet woman. what ive learned though, is that most of the RAs are hustlers. they care only about the paper. very rare to find one that will spend time with you without having you spending money...

anyways, rb_mod99 will probably delete my post within a few hours so yeah im just givin my two cents before he deletes my post.

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rickybobby8889
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15. "RE: As far as this h00ker goes, you are not getting 'free' time f"
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   lol....why would the mod delete ur post?

glad to hear you found a good friend in this hobby.

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16. "RE: As far as this h00ker goes, you are not getting 'free' time f"
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   i dunno the first time i ever posted on the forums he deleted my post and locked the thread, for god knows what reason. im pretty sure i didnt violate the terms of service.

yeah i found a good friend. and to be honest it was the luck of the draw, i cant afford to see RAs as a hobby. but the week i saw her twice i had a good run in poker so therefore had some extra cash to spend. some say its fate/destiny, i say its the poker gods.

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12. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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As a Gigolo, she pays you right?

What an odd handle for someone on a hooker site. Unless you're a provider, surely you're the opposite of a gigolo....

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SiliconValleyGigolo
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24. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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Yes that's correct. Civilian women pay me for my time and services. I gladly accept their cash donation but sometimes they shower me with expensive lunches & dinners or the occasional designer gift.

I use the cash they give me to book multi-hour appointments with Hot Korean & Taiwan RA. Life is good!

>As a Gigolo, she pays you right?

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5. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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   Very good responses from the three previous posts.

"She mentioned if I book her for multiple hours that we could go out on the town for dinner, etc."

Proceed with caution, her comment says that it's not off the clock.

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rickybobby8889
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6. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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   Oh it's def not off the clock. We discussed cost. I think I will just concentrate on being a normal regular for now and see where that goes.

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7. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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   I've paid for multiple hours but it was for extended time and more boinking. Guys pay escorts for multiple hours (anywhere from one hour to a whole week). You are paying for her time. probably 80% of the time not spent boinking (going out to dinner, shopping, sight seeing, relaxing, etc). With a fair amount of boinking in between but definitely not the entire time.

If she likes you, RAs will often spend off the clock time with you for free (have something to eat afterwards, take her shopping on her off day, etc). So you don't always have to pay to spend down time (free) with an RA (unless you are the one paying for the shopping excursion).

When you book 1 or more hours, you could spend the entire time talking or massaging each other if you wanted to. But I see RAs mainly for the boinking. If you wanted to spend multiple hours with her, you could book a 3 hour session. The first hour for boinking, 2nd hour for dinner, and the 3rd hour for more boinking. The 2nd hour will be your recovery time so you can recharge your "gun" for that 2nd shot.

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25. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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   Dunno about the rest of you, but I hate boinking on a full stomach. I say boink twice, then dinner.

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8. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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I agree with what's being said. If your gonna take an RA out for some fun it shouldn't have to cost you. I go to a dinner and a movie with one of my favs about once a month. It's the only time when I actually look forward to a woman having her period lol....

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11. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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   Keep it strictly business.
If she wants your company she'll buzz you and make arrangements.

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17. "RE: Multiple hrs/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???Yes"
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I have booked at most 2 hours of my ATF 's time. Boinking and dinner on me after the event to spend chatting and quality time with her. That way you get to see her reaction outside the Aamp environment and also gives her some breathing ground instead of being locked up for weeks at the apartment. I usually book the restaurant reservation ahead of time near her place too. She will be very thankful for the gesture and you will be rewarded likewise on your next visit ie her own cooked dinner after your session, etc and occasionally overnight stay or mini vacation on her time off. Please only do it with your regular ATF and the experience will worth your time and monies. I have done it too many times and never had a bad session or experience yet. Just do it as in Nike's commercial. Do not be such a tightwad like some monger expecting a freebie after all they are here for the greens and we should be thankful for the quality time we spend with them and the extra special attention we got from them too. They are after all human being ie social people. This is what it is. Cheers

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19. "RE: Multiple hrs/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???Yes"
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That's a load of crap. I will bet you there are very few RAs that would agree to boinking and a dinner while working. And you can't squeeze an hour long boink and a trip out to dinner into two hours and get back to work to make the next appointment. That's just down right silly. Which is why your best bet is to see her on her days off. It made for a good story though...

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21. "RE: Multiple hrs/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???Yes"
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If you never done it yourself, you stay out of it. I only take my ATF near her place of work with her prior consent. I guess some people are just jealous because they cannot afford to monger but making useless remark to increase your post count. This is what it is. Cheers

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22. "RE: Multiple hrs/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???Yes"
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LAST EDITED ON 16-Mar-10 AT 09:10 PM (PST)
 
You borrow those lines from someone? Dude I don't give a crap about post count get real.

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23. "RE: Multiple hrs/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???Yes"
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   Children, let's try to stay on topic

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18. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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If money isn't the issue for you, you should go for it. You should look at it as a once in a lifetime experience. Since you pay for her time, you should make sure you get something in return.

Tell her you want to do it three times in a day. You can schedule shopping, cooking, eating out, watching movie,etc. in between. Tell her to wear skirt but no panty. You may want to do her outdoor at least one time.

If you don't have to pay for her time, please don't expect too much from her.

Remember, it is all about business, no love is involved.

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20. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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   >in between. Tell her to wear skirt but no panty. You may
>want to do her outdoor at least one time.

lol...she's not a Real Doll you can just take in the stall with you during the previews...hahaha... i like ur style tho.

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26. "RE: Multiple hours/Seeing RA outside of AAMP - worth it???"
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   >Anyone else tried this?

I have.


"But have to admit it'd be nice..."

End of story, and I agree.



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