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aamp_harmony aamp_harmony rating
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"Two or more problems & solutions facing RBers."
 
   LAST EDITED ON 18-Jul-10 AT 02:35 PM (PST)
 
I offer these possible solutions, not as criticism of RBers. After all, harmony is a good thing.

Problem 1: Reviewers often complain that they do not get the full hour appointment that they understood they would be getting.
Possible solution: If you arrive on time, always point out unambiguously on your watch or on the location's clock the exact starting time and then figure out the exact ending time, 30 minutes or 60 minutes or 90 minutes later. Then get the RA to verbally agree to that ending time. If she agrees, hold her to the agreed time; don't let her push you out early. If she does not agree, then consider walking. If she does not agree and you stay, do not complain if she puts you on the banana peel early and shoves you out the door.

Problem 2: Reviewers sometimes complain that they get no more LFK or DFK after DATYing or rimming.
Possible solution: After rinsing your mouth with mouthwash after the shower, always take 2 small cups from the bathroom counter (or bring your own larger cups) with you to the room and place them on the night table. In one cup, put 2 to 3 tablespoons of mouthwash and dilute it with an equal amount of water. The other cup should be empty. After DATYing or rimming, always rinse your mouth, spit into the empty cup, and wipe your mouth on your towel before attempting to LFK or DFK. Offer the cups to the RA after bbbjing. She will appreciate your efforts. Try this to see if it works.

How do these possible solutions sound to you?

If you have had problems of your own or noticed other problems in the reviews and have possible solutions, this is your opportunity to state the problems and offer solutions.

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artwolf artwolf rating
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1. "RE: Two or more problems & solutions facing RBers."
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   Problem 2: Your solution of using a solution (cute, huh?) is just too complicated for me. I do think about it, however, and my solution is as much as possible to get the first appointment of the day. Far from perfect I agree. Beyond that, I just try to be fatalistic (if it's gonna happen, it's gonna happen)--or as some would say, suicidal.

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Astroglide
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18-Jul-10, 04:32 PM (PST)
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2. "RE: Two or more problems & solutions facing RBers."
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   Good post and thoughts.


Regarding problem #2, just save any downstairs M2F attack for the end of the session, rather than interrupt for oral medicinal swishes. Or avoid M2F downstairs attacks if this RA is known to curtail LK/DFK when her secretions and excretions are on your lips.

I've only been with two RAs who seemed to care about that sequence so this must not be a "widespread" (yeah !) problem.

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Kitty_radar
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18-Jul-10, 06:12 PM (PST)
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3. "RE: Two or more problems & solutions facing RBers."
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   LAST EDITED ON 18-Jul-10 AT 06:12 PM (PST)
 
If I'm going to LFK/DFK her after BBBJ/Rimming, then I expect her to do the same...

And as mentioned before, I almost always am the first appt. I always ask when speaking to the PO.

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DownSouth213 DownSouth213 rating
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18-Jul-10, 09:52 PM (PST)
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4. "RE: Two or more problems & solutions facing RBers."
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I always get much more dfk after I go downsouth on RAs...go figure?

Two roads diverged and I chose the road down south

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amp_nomad
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18-Jul-10, 09:54 PM (PST)
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5. "RE: Two or more problems & solutions facing RBers."
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One thing for sure, I at least do not inflate ratings like some people. We're talking about 2 points above what it should be.


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traderjohn traderjohn rating
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6. "RE: Two or more problems & solutions facing RBers."
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   Face it, you're not really paying by the hour, you're paying for service, and the service could be done in less than an hour. I always think of the hour as an upper limit, meaning we have to be done by then. If I don't feel rushed, have a great time and finish in 40 minutes, I can still walk out with a smile on my face.

If you are the kind of person who is determined to squeeze every last minute out of the hour, the girls will dread seeing you and you'll get the kind of mechanical service you deserve.

Exception: If you're actually paying for another service, like massage, then if you pay for an hour massage, you should get an hour massage.

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Astroglide
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7. "Huh ? Why the difference ?"
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>Exception: If you're actually paying for another service,
>like massage, then if you pay for an hour massage, you
>should get an hour massage.

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Don't understand this so-called exception. What difference does it make if she's massaging your body or your ----, or you are massaging her with something somewhere.

She still needs time to get ready for the next client.

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bone69 bone69 rating
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9. "RE: Two or more problems & solutions facing RBers."
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   I agree with TJ. Say you've hit all the menu items on her resume (coed shower, FBSM, BBBJ, CG, 69, DATY, mish, doggie). The only thing that may or may not be missing is a lame massage. Allowing for the 2nd shower, there is 10 minutes on the clock. She says "Shower?". Do you insist on the remaining 10 minutes? Massage? Cuddle? Talk? You know she will be watching the clock the whole time. For me, I'll just go ahead and take the shower. Insisting on the remaining 10 minutes is NOT quality time because you had to ask and you are making her stay with you (massage, cuddle, talk) for the remaining time. I would just rather end it on a good vibe and go home happy.

To me, I'm not paying for an hour of company. I'm paying for a service that is timed to take up to an hour.

If you are the type that pop too quickly, you should look for providers that offer MSOG or pace yourself better. I would not demand it (MSOG) if it is not on her menu. That's why it's important you read the reviews.

Never encountered problem #2.

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8. "RE: Two or more problems & solutions facing RBers."
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Reasonable tactic on problem 1, except that the RA who just agreed with you on an ending time is not the person who will knock on the door and yell "Time up" 15 minutes ahead of schedule. Besides, since we don't trust their wall clocks, why expect them to trust our wristwatches? She'd probably never allow doggy style for fear that you'd keep turning your watch back 10 minutes.

As for solution 2, it pains me to read that some of the RB reviewers are so clueless. What may be acceptable in porn videos (where they edit out all hygiene-related content) simply does not translate very well to the typical AMP or AAMP session. Stepping into her shoes for a moment, how many of you guys want an RA to stick her tongue in your mouth right after rimming you? (Personally, I prefer to simply remember what I ate four hours ago.) Regardless of her occupation, assume she has the same preference. As for spitting and/or rinsing, more than one RA has taken offense; the implied message is that you find her to be unclean or disgusting. Better to discreetly use a towel for excess fluids still sitting in your mouth, under the guise of just wiping your face. For both parties, a more practical alternative to solution 2 is to get the DFK out of your system at the start of the session.

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aamp_harmony aamp_harmony rating
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10. "RE: Two or more problems & solutions facing RBers."
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   LAST EDITED ON 01-Aug-10 AT 01:49 PM (PST)
 
B U M P -- for those who do not know the meaning of this term see the thread "What is bump?" at http://forum.myredbook.com/dcforum2/DCForumID15/529.html

I bump this so that new RBers who have not read this may do so and learn from the opinions of others on how to deal with these problems. Also, for the new RBers, I strongly suggest that you take some time now and then to read some, or better yet many, of the permanent threads in the Clueless? forum at the bottom left of the board = http://forum.myredbook.com/cgi-bin/dcforum2/dcboard.pl The threads in Clueless? have a lot of useful info for all RBers.

This bump also provides the opportunity for others to write about similar problems before this thread goes to the nether, neither, never lands of the archives.

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jsthavnfun jsthavnfun rating
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11. "RE: Two or more problems & solutions facing RBers."
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>I offer these possible solutions, not as criticism of RBers.
>After all, harmony is a good thing.
>
>Problem 1: Reviewers often complain that they do not
>get the full hour appointment that they understood they
>would be getting.

One could book multi hours, usually "I" am the one watching the clock out of condiseration for the women. Don't seem to have that problem, especially with independants.

>Problem 2: Reviewers sometimes complain that they get
>no more LFK or DFK after DATYing or rimming.

I clearly state "my" #1 rule when meeting a woman for the first time,...kiss my lips not my ass. I've never had a woman argue with me, yet? As far as daty goes, DFK, if on their menu, is always a go! There was this one girl, for some reason aftered she O'ed, she wouldn't let me continue to daty, wonder why?


No offense to the OP but, some of you guys expect awhole lot for your donations.

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