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"I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
 
This post really got me thinking that even though some providers have excellent to above average reviews, some of us can still waste $200 these days.

We all know women can be moody and not desire intercourse as much as we do, and here many of these women can become very tired of having just too much. As with everyone, but especially women, they need a reason or be attracted to someone they are sharing their intimacy with. Other women are just in it for the money and could care less who they alienate because by nature this business is short-term.

My question is what recourse is the proper action when we are dealt a frustratingly substandard experience? Do we try and just pound her as long as we can to get our money's worth even though the chemistry is not there or do we just accept that we are being treated like an atm?

This isn't marriage where most of the time the men have to grin and bear it because of the obvious repercussions, and here the RA is not in a strong bargaining position with regard to being engaged in illegal activity so what can we do?

This is why i stick to my ATF for half my sessions and then research the reviews very carefully before spending $200, which is pricey on the high-end in these hard times.

What do you bros suggest one do when the session is worth less than $0 with an RA who clearly doesn't want to do her job and just wants the donation? Women can be unreasonable especially when her pride is involved and to let them get away with it sort of condones that type of behavior.


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1. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   Helps to reference prior thread http://forum.myredbook.com/dcforum2/DCForumID19/44186.html

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15. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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I just read through the original thread & am glad I walked out on Moon too when I went to see her. I got bad vibes the minute I saw her & after a few words of exchange caught a hint of bad attitude so I walked. I couldn't care less if they blacklist me fr that org. Talent has gone downhill anyway. Plus drive is too far for me.

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2. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   <My question is what recourse is the proper action when we are dealt a frustratingly substandard experience? Do we try and just pound her as long as we can to get our money's worth even though the chemistry is not there or do we just accept that we are being treated like an atm?>

I don't think pounding away on an RA who is concurrently showing her disgust and contempt towards your being is considered by many as a method of 'getting your money's worth'.

My suggestion for a proper recourse would be to write an honest review and if you are a good client of the org, complain to the PO afterwards. If I don't know the org, I just walk and never go back.

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21. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   Exactly. Getting even by getting rough with someone is a douchbag move and who ever does it should get blacklisted. Write a review and move on.

If you can't afford a lousy session and potentially wasting $200 I would advise you to download porn and wack away. You shouldn't be in this expensive hobby.

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3. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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LAST EDITED ON 24-Jul-10 AT 06:27 PM (PST)
 
I feel bad for Frank_MM, and I think we've all had a few of those. Still, it's hard to tell if he just caught her at a bad time, they were astrologically incompatible, or she's always like that. Given that she stands to take a big financial hit based on a single thread, and that her other reviews are mostly positive, it would help if someone else who has seen her could post his impressions. Not trying to discredit anyone here -- just trying to get the big picture.

Regarding Aampmaster's question, it's not always easy to put the brakes on -- especially when someone else is holding the stick shift. After the flip, instead of lying passively on my back, I want to be sitting upright, doing a little touching of my own and angling for a kiss. Her body language should give me plenty of clues about what lies ahead.

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5. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   You bring up a good point about the girl potentially taking a financial hit here with little means of defending herself.


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8. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   LAST EDITED ON 24-Jul-10 AT 08:10 PM (PST)
 
When I posted the original thread, I did not plan to cause the RA to have a financial hit. If you read the original thread, I did not mention the name of the RA until it was posted by others. I'm sorry if my original thread causes her to loose customers.

My original intent was to just vent about getting bad service. And yes, we have all had bad service, but sometimes the service leaves the customer, how should I say it, feeling down. I don't expect to get a level 10 service every time I see an RA. Maybe I overreacted and should not have posted my thoughts, but isn't that one of the things this website is for?

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9. "take it easy..."
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   You simply had a bad experience with one hooker. I hope that $200 you spent on her was not your lunch&gas money. Share your experience in review.

No, you are not hurting her business. There are lots of johns do not read/post in the forum. They scan for next to-do hooker, get laid and get back to their regular life.

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10. "Don't worry. You did good."
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   Frank:

Don't worry. That's exactly the intended use of this website. Your report is credible and useful, and is the same as submitted a review indicating your experience.

Other great Providers occasionally get average to poor reviews, but they continue to be busy.

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11. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   Not to worry; your original post and intent was quite clear and no rational person is going to blame you. As AF indicated, I too would like to read about others' experiences though it probably won't change anything for me since I had little to no interest in seeing her in the first place.



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13. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   I did read your original post, and thought your post was reasonable given your frustration, and that it does fit the purpose of this board. I never went as far as saying that we shouldn't post about this kind of things, precise because I think the discussion in this case was within reasonable bounds, at least in my opinion.

Sorry if I sounded accusing, but when I replied to AMPFan, I really only wanted to underline a point that could be missed, and not to point a blaming finger at anyone. In this case, I feel you pain, and I'm sure a lot of us, me included, have had similar experiences.

I'm glad that you seemed to have chosen to stick with this hobby a little longer, and stimulate this economy along with the rest of us. Good luck with your future sessions.


Argus

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22. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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>When I posted the original thread, I did not plan to cause
>the RA to have a financial hit.

ok......really?

>If you read the original
>thread, I did not mention the name of the RA until it was
>posted by others.

A simple review would have been sufficient. It didn't cross your mind others would dig up the who you were talking about?, and how did they find out who you were refering to?

>I'm sorry if my original thread causes
>her to loose customers.

ok...........

>My original intent was to just vent about getting bad
>service. And yes, we have all had bad service, but
>sometimes the service leaves the customer, how should I say
>it, feeling down. I don't expect to get a level 10 service
>every time I see an RA.

I've been disappointed a few times but have not found it necessary yo start a thread. Shit happens to all of us.


>Maybe I overreacted and should not
>have posted my thoughts,

BINGO!

>but isn't that one of the things
>this website is for?

For some, but if I recall there were a few members based on your bad experience stating they will not see "her" now.

Like I said I've experienced a few disappointing sessions, OH WELL!
The reviews for those few I wasn't pleased with have many good reviews from others. Who knows?, maybe they found me unattractive,(or to good looking), maybe my breath was unpleasant, I had a HUGE pimple on my nose, personal issues for them, on and on.

Lifes a bitch................sometimes.

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6. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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LAST EDITED ON 24-Jul-10 AT 07:53 PM (PST)
 
if you think shes a bitch within the first 2-3minutes, just walk away? wtf

im really amazed at how most johns think that they should get great service 100% of the time. sometimes you wont click. its nothing personal. a lot of times people just tend to dislike others for no reason.

boohoo. just try to write an unbiased review and move on

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4. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   I don't find pounding the RA "as long as we can" appealing to me. Everyone has off days, even the best of RAs. I'd just let it go, and chalk it up to luck. Write up a detailed review about the girl or the PO, or whatever else screwed up the session, and move on.

I've gotten unlucky with RAs' cold attitudes before, and RAs have gotten unlucky with my inability to pop. In both cases it was best to realize the situation early, and just sit back, relax, and zoom out a little bit. By chance, you might strike up a conversation or get in a good mood with the RA and set up for an excellent repeat the next time. And a friend of mine even received an offer of refund when things failed to go well, when he just decided to stop and watch a little TV with the girl instead.

Another thread talked about the amount of money we spend on this hobby. And truthfully, if you seriously look at how much you've spent? One bad session isn't worth getting upset about. I'd just relax and look forward to the next adventure.

If you're not willing to do that, I guess sticking to ATFs and your favorite org might allow you some recourse in getting a refund.


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7. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   I have been fortunate in that I have never had a bad session due to the girl. A few times I had not been up to the task, but that was on me and not her. I would echo others in that the best remedy would be to write a review detailing the lack luster experience. In these times most people are spending their money far more carefully than in the past.

I believe that the reason I have been very successful in my hobbying is that I try to establish some sort of connection with the provider. I realize it is an exchange of money for pussy but I try to make it somewhat personable. One time in paticular I began a session and it was quite cold. I inquired if there was something wrong and she told me she was simply worn out and not feeling well. She gave me my money back and appologized. I left her 60 for the house and cut my losses. I did return at a later date and had an amazing session.

I guess I am saying we all have off days. I am grateful these girls are here providing their service at what I feel is a rather reasonable fee.

Thanks for sharing your experience and letting us have a topic we can actually have some intelligent conversation about.

Fish

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12. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   >even though some providers have excellent to above average reviews, some of us can still waste $200

It happened to me a few times. The next session was always with the ATF, which tended to even things out. Overall, I feel like I am ahead despite the couple of $$ wasted.

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14. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   LAST EDITED ON 24-Jul-10 AT 11:41 PM (PST)
 
>This post really got me thinking that even though some
>providers have excellent to above average reviews, some of
>us can still waste $200 these days.

This is why you should post reviews good or bad to give a more
true picture. Sometimes RA has lot of shills or ATFs padding her
reviews.

>My question is what recourse is the proper action when we
>are dealt a frustratingly substandard experience? Do we try

When I get a dead lay I do her doggy style so I don't have
to look at her face (especially if she has look of disgust on
her face) and I try not to think about her much at all but
concentrate on myself and getting myself off. I don't pound
her because I don't get off on hurting women. But I'm also
not thinking about if it feels good to her because I know it
probably doesn't. After you having fucked 10s or 100s of guys
she is probably desensitized to fucking.

Sometimes you guys are give these whores way too much power
over you. On the other hand, sometimes you are really asking
these girls for a lot for $200. Jeez.

They are whores no matter how you slice it. You can try
to romanticize it by calling them RAs, providers, courtesans,
mistresses, and so on. But the bottom line is they are being
paid to fuck. It's not McDonalds, so don't always expect
service with a smile.

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17. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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this one reviewer claims hes 'making love'. hilarious

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16. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   There is always a way to have fun.....


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efRGjRMwagA

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18. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   Frank,

Never think that just because you just started the session or are in the middle of the session that you can't walk and recoup more than half if not all of your money. You are the customer and you are paying for service period. Now granted some girls have rules like no DFK or they just don't do the BBBJ deal and that's fine. But in this business certain things are to be expected like the ability to touch the tatas. I can tell you that if I was in the middle of a session and the girl laid down some ridiculous rules or coped a serious attitude I would get up immediately and get dressed. After I was dressed I would demand my money back. Now if she did provide some intimate play I would comp her for partial play, let's say $40.

Good luck and remember you are the customer even in this Bizz.

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19. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   In response to your question to what I would do if I experience something like the first post in the first thread, I would try to endure it and just pound away to my own satisfaction. I am not there to please them they are getting paid to please me, simple really just don't be a bitch. But if they start getting really bitchy then sometimes you just have to cut it short, and leave in the middle of it all. Depending on where you're at in the session, I'd ask for a refund. That's right. A fucking refund. No way I'm losing $200 to a whore treating me like a trick. Remember they are in our country, we are not in theirs. We run this fucking joint. If you get ripped off during a session while overseas there ain't shit you can do. You can't act up or something bad might happen to you. Here, how the fuck are you going to allow a whore who's here illegally in the first place to push you around like that? It depends what your tolerance level is. Mine is probably about average, I have had to only ask for a refund back once from a $200 RA a long time ago. She clearly had fake reviews and changed her name and pictures cause she just wasn't cutting it in this business but I fell for it. It was so awful basically after 3 min of doing the deed I'm being shouted at to 'hurry up'. Wasn't even worth busting a nut, got up and demanded back part of my money. She was pissed, I was pissed, she probably felt like I had just robbed her or some shit, I felt like she had robbed me, but I offered a fair resolution and left her with a more than fair amount for the shitty services rendered.

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20. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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Thank you, Ambrose Bierce.

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24. "A. B. reference"
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   >Thank you, Ambrose Bierce.


AMBROSE BIERCE: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ambrose_Bierce

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23. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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That's savings in my pocket.

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25. "RE: I just wasted $200 - Part 2"
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   LAST EDITED ON 25-Jul-10 AT 11:29 PM (PST)
 
I missed the opportunity to input at the first part of this thread. Here are a couple of actions what I think we should take in this kind of situations.

1. Bang the bitch until she passes out. A bitch has nothing to take pride of.
2. Write a detail review in good faith and also post a thread on this forum for immediate heads up.

I hope this is the end of this topic.

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