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"The need for surgical strikes"
 
This forum now has two different threads in 48 hours railing against storefront AMPs in San Francisco. I find nothing wrong with the occasional surgical strike, but both threads reek of collateral damage. In one thread, a bad session with one RA became an excuse for the OP to not only trash the org, but also disseminate way too much graphic detail regarding rates and services in a storefront AMP. In the other thread, a rate negotiation problem led to disparaging remarks made about an RA based on nothing more than another RA's prediction about who she'll see and what she'll charge if and when she returns to work. If that's not enough, the OP goes on to attack a few other storefront AMPs for no apparent reason other than the age and ethnicity of the providers, while somehow managing to blame providers who charge more for a one-hour session than others charge for 30 minutes.

As far as I can tell, there are exactly TWO providers who merit some criticism, based on recent events. Instead, co-workers, workers at other AMPs, and customers (who now get to worry again about LE radar) are all getting caught in the crossfire.

No one likes to lose two bills, and I like it even less than most of you. When it happens, we all understand the need to vent a little here. Just try to respect the unwritten code of discretion, and try to remain focused on the actual target. If that means waiting a day or two to sort things out in your mind before posting, then by all means do so. Trip reports are never time-sensitive unless they're about a new arrival at a 10-day house.

As always, thanks for your cooperation.

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1. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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   I second this respectful request, please keep the level of detailed disclosure down as the storefront's are prime targets already, no need to encourage Christian Fundamentalists and LE from targeting places based on RB , loose lips.

D99

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31-Jul-10, 04:41 AM (PST)
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2. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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   Point taken, should have let some details ride. It is just in years of hobbying I have never had such bad service and wanted to call them out on it.

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31-Jul-10, 04:53 AM (PST)
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3. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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Write a review about your experience instead. You don't need to announce to the world about it.


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4. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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From one "fan" to another, thanks.

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5. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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>> "In one thread, a bad session with one RA"

Actually, I would say that it is pent up frustration from several experiences. This was just the straw, that broke the camels back. The guy has a lot experiences in these places, and wouldn't just pop off, because of one bad session. I agree with his rant. That place has done a complete 180 degree turn, without any stated reason. The place is turning into a den of ROB's. I challenge you to tell it like it really is, instead of trying to over protect them. With your insider ability, you will be doing us all a good deed, and asking them why they have changed so much.

--Rat

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6. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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I will eventually address your remarks, RT. For now, it makes more sense for the OP to reply than for either of us to try to spin his thoughts.

For the record, I haven't been there in a few years and haven't seen Tina in about 8 months, so you may be overestimating my insider ability and misinterpreting my motives.

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31-Jul-10, 08:31 AM (PST)
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7. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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Much like over-inflated/post-orgasmic reviews, it's always a good idea to give yourself 24 hours before posting a "rant."

You'll be a bit more rational and thoughtful about what you write and it will be more objective - which in turn can convey the information to the boards w/o the collateral damage as aampfan mentioned.

Or, post it in VIP at least. That's what I ended up doing on a visit somewhere and it was met w/ more... cordial? responses and thoughts.

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11. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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   >For the record, I haven't been there in a few years and
>haven't seen Tina in about 8 months, so you may be
>overestimating my insider ability and misinterpreting my
>motives.

The point of my OP was that it as changed, even in the last year or so, at least IMO and others seem to agree. Others have commented on Michelle's change as well, so my comments on recent and other past threads are not just one person ranting.

As for Tina, her service is pretty much the same and I'm not knocking it, but the heart of the matter is the attitude that has developed at Nikki's as a whole and with most of the girls in general.

Let's see what happens with Tina and her supposed name and rate change. It may or may not happen, but my source has been straight with me in the past and she seems pretty sure of it. But just hearing that it might happen was the final straw. I really don't get much out of my sessions at Nikki's with ANY girl for some time now, so I'm finished with them. As I stated, there are a LOT of options out there and I'm enjoying them.

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12. "RE: not necessarily always"
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   Not sure what so secretive and sacred about this one particular place. It might have been "the" hobbyist's destiny in its olden golden days but sounds like its time has since long passed. In pre-AAMPS days I used to hold great fascination for the place and used to have the crave to drive 45 min. from SB to the city but not anymore. I now have absolutely zero feeling to visit the old playground when it's so much more convenient and cheaper with younger (relatively speaking of course) cheaper (perhaps less jaded less bitter)... reliefs around.

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31-Jul-10, 11:50 AM (PST)
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9. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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   Well said. To hell with the lapdogs and shills.

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15. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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LAST EDITED ON 31-Jul-10 AT 06:47 PM (PST)
 
dude, nikki's has been this way since after BT...no doubt, and i'm not making excuses for these ladies....

instead of turning it up a notch and making more of themselves in times of crisis(BT), they all decided to head down a different road and path for themselves.... well, they've literally made their beds and have been sleeping on it, so to speak...

michelle's attitude has turned south on me since 2004 i attribute that to the fact that i remained "loyal" to tina all these years and she definitely holds a grudge...i know that for a fact when i used to session with her when tina was in VN on vacation...so, she is what she is...

so here's my take:
as someone else pointed out, their time around to work and be beneficial and productive is now very limited...how long? i dont know?
and so, the point in asking for more is to make up for the volume that they don't plan on doing anymore....simple math, i guess...

and as far as tina's concerned, that lady can do whatever she wants...i spoke to her briefly about this and she went on a tangent about not wanting to work anymore...and so this business plan makes kind of sense for her and i'm not going to beat her up for it....she knows the repercussion and what not...she's a big girl and she's gonna have to live with the decisions she makes for herself...i havent been a steady john for her these last few years and i can attest that she also holds some kind of grudge on me, for f'ing with the beautiful k-girls(as she calls them)..and she hates the fact the she knows that me and the rest of us pay these young k-girls $200 a session and can see why she is jealous of this whole situation... it's all about the human emotions and good-GOD, these women are very emotional about these things!

>>> "In one thread, a bad session with one RA"
>
>Actually, I would say that it is pent up frustration from
>several experiences. This was just the straw, that broke the
>camels back. The guy has a lot experiences in these places,
>and wouldn't just pop off, because of one bad session. I
>agree with his rant. That place has done a complete 180
>degree turn, without any stated reason. The place is turning
>into a den of ROB's. I challenge you to tell it like it
>really is, instead of trying to over protect them. With your
>insider ability, you will be doing us all a good deed, and
>asking them why they have changed so much.
>
>--Rat

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31-Jul-10, 10:27 AM (PST)
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8. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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   This is a very well thought and presented point.

The need for discretion is warranted but are you saying that the prodigious and eclectic bad experiences should be reserved for the reviews? Isn't lambasting negative experiences at a store front AMP tendentious? With all due respect, there are a plethora of AAMP providers who have been excoriated by OPs after negative experiences on this forum and those comments have been invaluable in selecting who I visit. Was it wrong to post the negative reviews?

The AAMPs highlight their quotidian rates for each RA. On the other hand rates at some store front AMPS are often tenebrous. While elaborating details of their service is wrong, posting their rates should not be.

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13. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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LAST EDITED ON 31-Jul-10 AT 03:48 PM (PST)
 
> tendentious ... quotidian ... tenebrous

Thanks for expanding my vocabulary, 10inch. I'm reminded of an old Wonder years episode where Wayne urges Kevin not to be obsequious or phlegmatic.

> The need for discretion is warranted but are you saying that the
> prodigious and eclectic bad experiences should be reserved for the
> reviews? Isn't lambasting negative experiences at a store front AMP
> tendentious? With all due respect, there are a plethora of AAMP
> providers who have been excoriated by OPs after negative experiences
> on this forum and those comments have been invaluable in selecting
> who I visit. Was it wrong to post the negative reviews?

I find negative comments as informative as you do, provided that they stay on point. In this case, what should have been a criticism about one provider or one AMP's pricing policy turned into a harangue about anything and everything. Vietnamese providers were universally characterized as ROBs, mature providers as hags, one now-defunct AMP was labeled a den of thieves, and one high-profile RA was lambasted not for anything she did or said but because another RA thinks she'll charge more in the future. At a certain point, it becomes less informational and more like listening to an octogenarian blame all the problems of the world on the federal government, the post office, the banks or the evil ethnic group du jour.

By the way, I have the greatest respect for jamster. I consider him to be extremely knowledgeable and a great source of info and hobbying wisdom. Second-guessing a post that he authored does not come easy. If I hold him to a high standard, it's because I have an equally high opinion of him, hobby-wise.

> The AAMPs highlight their quotidian rates for each RA. On the other
> hand rates at some store front AMPS are often tenebrous. While
> elaborating details of their service is wrong, posting their rates
> should not be.

While the VIP AAMP forum is more liberal, the general guideline here is to avoid linking storefront RA names, rates and sexual acts together in a post or thread. I may buy your point that it's less damaging to post "Jane at Shoreline provided unspecified services for $199.95" than to say "Jane at Shoreline gave me a Philadelphia Flying F*ck and a Venus Butterfly for the usual amount," but the limited informational value doesn't really justify the breach of confidentiality. The rate info in the review section is much more substantial due to the sheer volume of reviews, and it can even help you identify YRMV (your rate may vary) providers. More to the point, a rate quote on the board is no real substitute for applying casino logic to an AMP visit -- bring only what you're planning to spend and leave the plastic at home.

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31-Jul-10, 01:21 PM (PST)
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10. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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   So what? That's what message board is for. If the women are afraid being under the LE radar because of this, in this case, provide better service or quit the business.

"As always, thanks for your cooperation"... what are you really, the message board police or the director of S.F. massage parlor union?

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14. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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> If the women are afraid being under the LE radar because of this,
> in this case, provide better service or quit the business.

The flaw in that logic is that a woman who provides such great service that everyone wants to talk about her would need to deal with the same fear of LE radar. Should we then counsel her to provide mediocre service or quit the business?

> director of S.F. massage parlor union

What a great idea for a job! I'd even be willing to work for minimum wage, plus all the RAs I can eat.

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ampgoer008
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31-Jul-10, 06:54 PM (PST)
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16. "RE: The need for surgical strikes"
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   >Should we then counsel her to provide mediocre service or quit the business

that's exactly my point. good or bad business practice, people will talk about it. and if that's going to put her in fear of LE radar, then maybe she should quit.

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