LAST EDITED ON 31-Jul-10 AT 03:48 PM (PST)
> tendentious ... quotidian ... tenebrousThanks for expanding my vocabulary, 10inch. I'm reminded of an old Wonder years episode where Wayne urges Kevin not to be obsequious or phlegmatic. 
> The need for discretion is warranted but are you saying that the
> prodigious and eclectic bad experiences should be reserved for the
> reviews? Isn't lambasting negative experiences at a store front AMP
> tendentious? With all due respect, there are a plethora of AAMP
> providers who have been excoriated by OPs after negative experiences
> on this forum and those comments have been invaluable in selecting
> who I visit. Was it wrong to post the negative reviews?
I find negative comments as informative as you do, provided that they stay on point. In this case, what should have been a criticism about one provider or one AMP's pricing policy turned into a harangue about anything and everything. Vietnamese providers were universally characterized as ROBs, mature providers as hags, one now-defunct AMP was labeled a den of thieves, and one high-profile RA was lambasted not for anything she did or said but because another RA thinks she'll charge more in the future. At a certain point, it becomes less informational and more like listening to an octogenarian blame all the problems of the world on the federal government, the post office, the banks or the evil ethnic group du jour.
By the way, I have the greatest respect for jamster. I consider him to be extremely knowledgeable and a great source of info and hobbying wisdom. Second-guessing a post that he authored does not come easy. If I hold him to a high standard, it's because I have an equally high opinion of him, hobby-wise.
> The AAMPs highlight their quotidian rates for each RA. On the other
> hand rates at some store front AMPS are often tenebrous. While
> elaborating details of their service is wrong, posting their rates
> should not be.
While the VIP AAMP forum is more liberal, the general guideline here is to avoid linking storefront RA names, rates and sexual acts together in a post or thread. I may buy your point that it's less damaging to post "Jane at Shoreline provided unspecified services for $199.95" than to say "Jane at Shoreline gave me a Philadelphia Flying F*ck and a Venus Butterfly for the usual amount," but the limited informational value doesn't really justify the breach of confidentiality. The rate info in the review section is much more substantial due to the sheer volume of reviews, and it can even help you identify YRMV (your rate may vary) providers. More to the point, a rate quote on the board is no real substitute for applying casino logic to an AMP visit -- bring only what you're planning to spend and leave the plastic at home.