LAST EDITED ON 03-Aug-10 AT 03:13 PM (PST)
amsrocks68,I always got a kick out of your straightforward and unabashed posts. Especially the whole Pink threads. Funny, ballsy, and welcoming of flak from just about all the judgmental guys on this forum.
It shows you have confidence in your failures, and sincerity in your struggles. After all, how are we going to address these issues if we aren't willing to take our lumps along the way, right?
Here's my take on this whole fucking marriage with an RA bit.
First, if she is still allowing you one last romp, you're fucking doomed. If you still need a last romp, she's fucking doomed.
Second, get a pre-nup and consider real hard before popping out children. Do it for the greenie first, because if she doesn't have a card, and you love her, get her one.
Step by step, and go in with both eyes wide open. As many others have stated, and done before you, it has a chance of failure or self-imposed long-term Misery.
Hopefully, you won't need to cheat on her after you're married. If you do, that means it's probably already over, and if she ain't giving it to you regularly like a cat in perpetual heat, then, well, it's over. It's companionship and security from that point so you better find ways to introduce some new spark, because if you don't, it will be misery.
I would buy a book on how to please her in the bedroom in 1001 ways, because if you don't, she won't want to blow you, and that'll mean you just gotta go back to lurking and paying for it, and that's called square 1. Of course, Square 1 with a newfound wife you are financially obligated to.
In closing, good luck.