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drifter09
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"Those of you are in love"
 
   I think this is the time I must confess. Until recently, I have had a relationship with a TAMP girl for the past two years. According to her reviews in the RB she was among the bests in the area. However, she worked for a legit place and never extended her menu beyond BBHJ. Over the past two years I have lost my ten years long SO and over $150K on her. I thought she was the best I could get in this short life. She was 12 years younger than me. She claimed she never had intercourse in her life. I took her to our OBGYN and she confirmed her claim. Last January we got engaged at a cost of over $60K including the ring. I never said no to her demands. After the engagement she went to visit her family back in Shanghai for a month. We kept constant contact. She kept postponing her return date and finally arrived after 4 months. I kept sending money to her home on bi-weekly basis. After returning right from the airport she started yelling at me without any reason. Within seven days of her return, she left my house. She never picked up may phone or returned my call since then. I kept contacting the hospitals, LE and all other probable places. Finally last month I went to Shanghai to meet her family. The sky fell on my head and I lost ground. She got married to a local guy, brought him over and started a family here in San Francisco. The guy works as her driver and she is full blown prostitute circulating in the SF Bay Area. Since then I have lost faith in the whole whore community. Now you bros know why I sometimes get harsh on the whores. One whore destroyed my life like a child’s play. I don’t think I’ll be a normal person in my life again. I won’t even advise my born enemy to get in serious relationship with a whore, rest alone marriage.

Drift Away

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jordan23
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1. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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LAST EDITED ON 03-Aug-10 AT 09:25 PM (PST)
 
Dude, are you serious? That's fvcked up bro. You bring her over, spend all that money and now she brings Porter over??? Does her parents know that she's a whore??? You should probably plaster her pic all over Baidu and let 2 billion people know the real her.

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Astroglide
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2. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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   Money should not have been that much of your relationship and you never should have spent that much on her.

BTW, "legit" places don't give hand jobs.

"I took her to our OBGYN and she confirmed her claim." WTF ? You brought a women to an OB-Gyn just to check on her virginity status ? If you loved and accepted her, why did you care about that ?


Highly unlikely that a physician can diagnose virginity at her age as the hymen often shrinks and factors other than intercourse, such as tampons and exercise, also tear the hymen.

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amp_nomad
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4. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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LAST EDITED ON 03-Aug-10 AT 09:52 PM (PST)
 
I get a good chuckle whenever I see a white dude with an asian chick. Trust me when I say this, asian guys don't give a rat's ass if you go with them either. Some of them can be gold digging whores, figuratively and literally.


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PeterNorth69 PeterNorth69 rating
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7. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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I once had this asian chic who was fleecing this older white guy for all her shopping and toys. Dude didn't know what hit him the whole time. She was sucking me real hard every night for a good three months, buying me Crown Royal and all the other trappings like i was some Adonis Fabio.

I'm pretty sure she was doing another dude aside from me, but at least i was getting my fill. There was no way i was going to approach this one long-term. Just wasn't going to happen.

If they are going to play others, they are going to play you eventually.

Some women are just not worth it.

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Muttley
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5. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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>she is full blown prostitute circulating in the SF Bay Area.

Link please?
(pics preferred and ph#)
Thank ewe.

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HoesB4Bros
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6. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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Man, that is the ultimate in betrayal. You spent way too much on her. Over $150K is insane amounts and look what you got for all your heart, kindness, and generosity?

Some people have no conscience and some women can be so cold and callous.

I'm changing my name to BroesB4Hoes. One horror Hoe story after another.

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fishball818
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8. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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   I feel sorry for you, really.

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9. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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   It takes guts to write what you did, not only to rehash the painful experience, but you opened yourself up to some serious criticism on this board.

Check the archives and you'll see that I've warned guys about getting involved with these girls. Nothing good comes of it. As liars, they are the Masters, even the "nice" ones.

However, the real betrayal is what you did to yourself by giving her all that money and most of all when you wrote, "I never said no to her demands."

Listen up, guys...you have to say no to these girls, otherwise they'll fleece you like she did to Drifter here. Say no to a demand for a tip. Say no to that new purse. Say no to sending money to her family.

Recently, a girl wanted me to pay some big bucks on botox. I flat out told her, "I love you, but NO!" She got pissed and screamed and told me never to call her again. And I haven't. Fuck her, there's more fish in the sea.

Another wanted me to sign a lease for an apartment for her and that I could come over any time...for anything! Yeah...and let her use the place for other guys as well? Nope. I know this because I was that other guy, coming over when Daddy wasn't there fucking the Daddy's girl in the apartment he paid for. I'd lay there in bed after fucking her and thank Daddy for supporting my sex.

I will not be extorted by any whore simply because I want to fuck her. I use my power as a man to say no, spend my money elsewhere, find someone who will respect me.

However, I will admit, it did cost me some dosh in the past. The Korean bartender who wanted a "loan" to open her own bar. I got 70% back, but I had to nag her constantly for it. I've given up on the rest. Or the GF who said her mom was dying of cancer, blah, blah, blah. I gave her $300 and that bought me about three months of pussy. Once a whore, always a whore.

Drifter, I truly feel sorry for you, but I'm afraid it was all of your own making and I think you know that. Thanks for the posting and hopefully others will learn from your very painful lesson.


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PeterNorth69 PeterNorth69 rating
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12. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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>I gave her $300 and that
>bought me about three months of pussy. Once a whore, always
>a whore.

Goddamn, that's the cheapest whore i've ever heard of. That's probably the most bargain sex you'll ever get from any woman, whore or not.

(Do the math...haha..that's $100 per month for pussy. Even if you got it once a month, that's only $100. I'm sure there were 29 other days to adjust the percentages in your favor...lol.)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dlPjxz4LGak

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14. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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   >Goddamn, that's the cheapest whore i've ever heard of.
>That's probably the most bargain sex you'll ever get from
>any woman, whore or not.

You know, sometimes they do fall in love and fuck for "free", but we all know eventually it isn't free. Yeah, she was great. Lot's of free sex on the outside, but eventually she started asking for "pocket money", then more until it came to botox, where I drew the line.

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18. "Once Again, The Paladin Mantra"
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   "The girls offer a service for a fee. Pay the fee, enjoy the service."

And that's as far as it goes. If you're going to do something to show how much you appreciate them, that's fine, but keep it simple. Otherwise, you're asking for trouble. If you invest too much and don't get the proper return, chalk it up to experience and move on.


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10. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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Here we go again. Somebody should archive all these stories for newbies to read in the future. Instead of slamming this guy (and getting my post delete again) I'd like to give a different perspective from the RA's point of view ...

You guys have this romantic view of these girls but the truth is they have probably been victimized and used by men most of their lives. You think you are going to be the white knight savior for them but they have probably become so emotionally hardened to men they have given up on the white picket fence (or whatever) dream long ago. Now its all
about survival for them. So every opportunity they see to improve their situation or make some money they take it. So I don't blame these girls for being hard or cold I blame you guys for thinking they are so desperate they will accept you as their savior. Come on .. who marries a whore? Only guys that have personal issues themselves would take that route and I think these girls know that so to them you are just another male looking to use them emotionally and/or physically.

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11. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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   who is she?

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boobird
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13. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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what is her rate? Please PM me her info and if she offers RGBFE

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ezvz123 ezvz123 rating
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15. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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   OK, so maybe she had a K visa since you were engaged, and she could travel to Shanghai and back, but how does she grab a local Chinese national and just come back to the US with him?

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FaceAssTitties FaceAssTitties rating
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16. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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>OK, so maybe she had a K visa since you were engaged, and
>she could travel to Shanghai and back, but how does she grab
>a local Chinese national and just come back to the US with
>him?

Dude, he said he went to Shanghai to meet his family which most likely indicate that she's shanghainese/chinese.

Face1st
Ass2nd
Titties3rd

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17. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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   LAST EDITED ON 04-Aug-10 AT 01:29 AM (PST)
 
>I don’t think I’ll be a normal person in my life again.

The real challenge is to be so in someone else's. I'm sure you know all the cliches about normality but also that they don't diminish the yearn for acceptance and the very human need to belong to that which is greater than ourselves. To you, and all the broken-hearted compatriots that have shared ordeals on this most revered of lewd and lascivious internet forums, I remind you that you are not alone and dedicate the following on behalf of all who've crossed into the valley of carnivorous, um, carnal delights...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zkfkJCyqCBc


And don't forget these hallowed words...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9FPv2toi5og



__________
Rompe Palle

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20. "Rodney Owned"
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   LAST EDITED ON 04-Aug-10 AT 01:53 AM (PST)
 
..and no one was funnier when he got on a roll

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lbTKEZE_O5Q

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19. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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   Ok I specifically remember I told you you were getting yourself into trouble by marrying her. And now it has cost you your life. I hope you have more money saved up because that's what it was all about. You are a stubborn mule of the highest order. You deserve everything you got and more. Please turn in your man card now. You do not deserve to be one.

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21. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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That is too funny.

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22. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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   WOW, sucks to be you. I find this story hard to believe. I don't intend to be mean, but that is dumb and she is a gold digger. She used you like a two-bit whore, no pun intended. Situations like these skews our perception and just perpetuates the cycle of violence, sexism, racism, etc...

We all live separate lives and the most respectful way is to pay for the services and leave it at that.

I'm sympathetic to your situation and hope that all turns up for the better for everybody.

..maybe the people here are right, if you give her info people can give her a royal shagging, like a revenge fuck, if you will.

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23. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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   Looser!

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MrWoody
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25. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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   Give Drifter a break. He lost large sums of money, his relationship with his SO, was married to someone that he thought was in love with him and tried to make a diffeence in her life.
Thanks for sharing the story. It takes guts to put it up on the board with the risk of getting ridiculed by the know-it-all's here.
We all make mistakes, learn from them and move on. This one seems to be quite a costly one for you. Learn from it and move on.
The act of putting on the board is part of the healing process. Don't give up on on finding a good civilian match for a relationship. There are plenty of woman out there for everyone. Most of the RA's are jaded and have a distorted view of reality anyway. Those types of relationships are destined to fail from the beginning.
You learned the hard way. It's a lesson you will never forget. Time to heal and move forward.

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grnblu
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24. "RE: Those of you are in love"
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   I don't know you but I was saddened to read your post. Honestly, its not even the money you lost which is the saddest part, though it was a small fortune. It was the betrayal. You gotta watch out for Shanghainese women especially. The thing is, how can anyone have absolutely no conscience?? I have run into this before too and its startling when you meet someone and get close to them, think you know them and then realize they really are completely fake. It makes you lose some faith in humanity. I feel for you man, and hope you recover as I am sure you will. The pain will diminish over time....in the meantime, mine for some hidden gems.....and good luck.

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