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POLL: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with soulmatin', and even more by the dynamics of that relationship so much a poll was warranted. Here it is:What traits do you look for MOST in a Soulmate/WIFEY, even if she happens to be a provider?
Posted by PeterNorth69 on 04-Aug-10, 09:13 PM PST
Result after a total of 22 votes

DDG Stunning Looks and Beauty. 2 votes, 9% Vote for this choice
Frequent, Regular, and Enthusiastic Service in the Bedroom. 3 votes, 13% Vote for this choice
Basic Virtues of Loyalty, Honesty, and Integrity. Selflessness. Giving. 9 votes, 40% Vote for this choice
Education and Values. 1 votes, 4% Vote for this choice
Trophy Wife Sophistication, she can be unethical, i don't care. 1 votes, 4% Vote for this choice
Money, but this means on par with my money, because Lord knows few women marry down. 1 votes, 4% Vote for this choice
She just needs to be a Nympho and like Sex ALL THE TIME, like me. 2 votes, 9% Vote for this choice
Compatibility, same interests and wanting kids at the same time/timing. 3 votes, 13% Vote for this choice
Please explain your ideal mate, and why in a post. The choices just aren't damn comprehensive, all-encompassing, and good enough. No votes Vote for this choice

 
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jamster jamster rating
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1. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
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   "Basic Virtues of Loyalty, Honesty, and Integrity. Selflessness. Giving." "...even if she happens to be a provider"

You've got to be kidding, right?

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amp_nomad
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2. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
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This is really counter-productive...


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sometimesthoughtful sometimesthoughtful rating
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3. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
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   <You've got to be kidding, right?>

Hey Jam-Man,

I voted for that one, it sounded virtuous to me.

Related to that and on the topic of Drifter09's love story, I'm surprised no one thought to ask "While tragic and sad, do you think maybe she felt she had the right to fuck you over because she found your hobby phone, discovered your obvious sexual addiction and read the posts and reviews you wrote on RB durng the time you professed your love to her?" Oh, she said it was cool that you take care of your own needs, right?

In my experience, women can find justification for anything they do, in your behavior.

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HoesB4Bros
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5. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
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>In my experience, women can find justification for anything
>they do, in your behavior.

That is so true. They can justify any of their wrong and irrational behavior, especially if you do as they want or say.

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8. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
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   >That is so true. They can justify any of their wrong and
>irrational behavior, especially if you do as they want or
>say.

Yeah, they should just learn how to justify their foibles like a man does. For instance:

Girlfirend: Why did you fuck my best friend?!!
Boyfriend: She was there, and I could tell she wanted it.
Girlfriend: How in the hell could you tell that?!!
Boyfriend: Her makeup mirror fogged up when it got near her nose.



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Rompe Palle

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4. "She says 'Hey Y'all' and 'Yee-Haw'"
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   LAST EDITED ON 04-Aug-10 AT 10:45 PM (PST)
 


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QETkcP-81F0



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6. "RE: She says 'Hey Y'all' and 'Yee-Haw'"
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I think I'm just gonna start making sappy pitiful stories and put them in a AMPers beware book and see who's willing to pay for it.

This will be in the "When to quit while you're not far behind" section.

Life is a box of expensive chocolates!

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7. "RE: She says 'Hey Y'all' and 'Yee-Haw'"
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   Let me help with the editing...


Chapter x: When To Quit While You're Not Far Behind

...

Last line of the chapter...

It's too late.



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Rompe Palle

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9. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
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   Working girls can and do provide a wonderful relationship with men on occasion. Some even marry and live happily ever after. This constant promulgation of degrading remarks about relationships with providers on this board is simply done out of ignorance. Providers are after the bucks just like the johns. There is nothing wrong with this. They simply do it with the talents they have. One can't condemn them for that. As businesswomen, many are often much better off than their johns. Many are looking at million dollar bank accounts. How many of you are in the same bracket?

I have personally known several women that advertise here seriously, and have had several long term relationships with some. I regret none of them, and wish them all the best. Some I wish i could have spent a lot more time with.

The frequent sob stories johns relate about their ATF on this forum, like the ones lately, don't move me as the stories promoted by the GF are virtually always a lie, and johns that fall into that trap are simply stupid.

Providers that i know well describe their sessions with such individuals to me in laughing terms. This is at once funny and sad as the providers don't "get" American culture and don't "get" the damage they cause to these individuals. On the other hand the johns don't understand the utterly foreign social mores of the provider's culture, and are constantly thinking in "American" terms, which simply don't apply. Get wise, guys.

So, in summary, don't be stupid. Some providers as GFs are a dream come true. They can be the perfect corporate wife and fuck your brains out continuously - a condition many would consider paradise. Others will scalp your and leave you flat broke. It takes some sorting out. Not all johns it appears are up to the task.

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11. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
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Working girls are for the most part, more hardened than your average civie. If a civie can take you for a ride, a typical working girl is a pro at it.

You just have to realize if a relationship isn't based on trust and give and take, it stands on very little.

"If it's paid, it's not true. It's fantasy."

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13. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
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   This is one of the best posts I've read on here. You obviously understand this "hobby" better than most!

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15. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
In response to message #9
 
   >Working girls can and do provide a wonderful relationship
>with men on occasion. Some even marry and live happily ever
>after. This constant promulgation of degrading remarks
>about relationships with providers on this board is simply
>done out of ignorance. Providers are after the bucks just
>like the johns. There is nothing wrong with this. They
>simply do it with the talents they have. One can't condemn
>them for that. As businesswomen, many are often much better
>off than their johns. Many are looking at million dollar
>bank accounts. How many of you are in the same bracket?
>
>I have personally known several women that advertise here
>seriously, and have had several long term relationships with
>some. I regret none of them, and wish them all the best.
>Some I wish i could have spent a lot more time with.
>
>The frequent sob stories johns relate about their ATF on
>this forum, like the ones lately, don't move me as the
>stories promoted by the GF are virtually always a lie, and
>johns that fall into that trap are simply stupid.
>
>Providers that i know well describe their sessions with such
>individuals to me in laughing terms. This is at once funny
>and sad as the providers don't "get" American culture and
>don't "get" the damage they cause to these individuals. On
>the other hand the johns don't understand the utterly
>foreign social mores of the provider's culture, and are
>constantly thinking in "American" terms, which simply don't
>apply. Get wise, guys.
>
>So, in summary, don't be stupid. Some providers as GFs are a
>dream come true. They can be the perfect corporate wife and
>fuck your brains out continuously - a condition many would
>consider paradise. Others will scalp your and leave you flat
>broke. It takes some sorting out. Not all johns it appears
>are up to the task.

Pussification galore. Up to the task ? Relationships are difficult enough without needing another task. Your contention sounds heavenly and ideal but falls short of being the experience of virtually all men. Most women are not paid sex workers, so why chose them in the first place ? These women have had tortured childhoods full of abuse. As prostitutes, their opinion of men degrades. Their prostitution work involves deceit, manipulation, and a marked increase in alcohol-drug-gambling addictions and depression. Most are ashamed of what they do and it affects their already poor image of themselves. They are abused by their work and sometimes owners. None of their past and present enhances the chance of a successful relationship. The men who seek these women are usually the men who think they can save and rehabilitate these women and this goal doesn't make for a healthy relationship. Men revere these women when they are paid sex workers but shun them socially, and with any attempt at a social relationship men are always suspicious they are having sex with other men while pretending to be in an exclusive relationship. Men report that sex with former sex workers is a complete flop aggravated by these suspicions. For the very few women who sustain a long term relationship, sex was reported to be always better with their prior (or present) customers, and not their husband or supposed significant other. These women live concerned that their former life might be disclosed as there is still a great stigma against prostitution, especially with women who have never been sex workers.

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10. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
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   I handle Cosmopolitan magazine very well. Follows all of the above guidelines.

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12. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
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Normally I ignore these silly polls, but I just couldn't help myself.

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What traits do you look for MOST in a Soulmate/XXXXX, even if she happens to be a provider?
*****************************************************************

How good she looks nakeeeeed for the next few hours.

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14. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
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You normally avoid my silly polls because it's usually about the Recession and how it's prolonged nature has hurt the aamp industry and somehow that irks you.

Feel free to ignore even more future silly polls. No one really cares.

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17. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
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   >No one really cares.

Looks like you might be off by one.



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18. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
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>You normally avoid my silly polls because it's usually about
>the Recession and how it's prolonged nature has hurt the
>aamp industry and somehow that irks you.
>
>Feel free to ignore even more future silly polls. No one
>really cares.

Your right, I'm not really into peters' doom and gloom daily reports, or the habitual crying about how much pussy costs. And if I might add, your also humorless.

But mostly, these polls are just plain.............stoooopid. Ya got to much time on your fingers.

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miamivicerules
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16. "RE: I was intrigued by drifter09's first hand experience with sou"
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   definitely must be a shortage on RAs with all this useless dribble on this board.

Lets get back to talking about the girls and save the soap operas for the networks..

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