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OurTime123
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75 posts		 12-Aug-10, 02:07 AM (PST)
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"Donation - What would you have done?"
 
   So I finally book with a very popular RA (no names to avoid accusations of shilling) Soon as walk in the door we hit it off fast kissing, giggling and laughing all the way into the shower and onto bed.

About 15 minutes into our session with my face deep between her legs it occurs to me I have not given RA her donation. So I stopped, got up, reached into my pants pocket pulling out the money. Now she is looking up between her still raised legs confused at all this. After seeing me put the money on the table we both burst out laughing and I continue where I left off eventually ending up with one of my better recent sessions.

Point of this post is I believe that unplanned moment added spontaneity which is maybe lacking in first time sessions between new customer and RA - even if my timing was a bit abrupt.

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ruButtHurtt ruButtHurtt rating
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146 posts, 1 feedbacks, 1 points		 12-Aug-10, 02:26 AM (PST)
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1. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 12-Aug-10 AT 02:27 AM (PST)
 
Sounds like you had a good time and hope your not thinking of marrying this girl.. Just a joke.. Next time if she doesn't ask about the donation then wait to give it to her at the end.. No need to ruin a good moment. Thanks for the report and keep up the good work..

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amp_nomad
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3081 posts		 12-Aug-10, 03:37 AM (PST)
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2. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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LAST EDITED ON 12-Aug-10 AT 03:37 AM (PST)
 
I'd wait until right before your climax to whip out the donation.


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ruButtHurtt ruButtHurtt rating
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3. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 12-Aug-10 AT 03:55 AM (PST)
 
>I'd wait until right before your climax to whip out the
>donation.
>
>


Actually you would probably climax inside her asking was that the kinda donation she wanted.. LOL

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4. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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   A most excellent double entendre!



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Rompe Palle

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hkdigweed hkdigweed rating
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302 posts, 7 feedbacks, 13 points		 12-Aug-10, 07:05 AM (PST)
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5. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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Tossed the donation all over her as I came and yelled, "Money shot, biatch!"

Too much coffee in the morning O_o

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chincha
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130 posts, Rate chincha		 12-Aug-10, 07:37 AM (PST)
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6. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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   What I would have done, since I have $200 in $1s, I would've made it in rain on her ass during ds.

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jordan23
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7. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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Are those tip money???

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redball redball rating
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8. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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   Wrong reply link.



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Rompe Palle

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XyMusic XyMusic rating
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319 posts, 6 feedbacks, 9 points		 12-Aug-10, 09:11 AM (PST)
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9. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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Nice. I've also been there, done that. Although not as abrupt as in the middle of DATY.

Life is a box of expensive chocolates!

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mcancun mcancun rating
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151 posts, 2 feedbacks, 4 points		 12-Aug-10, 09:44 AM (PST)
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10. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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I would have brought up the money issue after the session. To me that is a buzz kill, but if it added to your experience then more power to you. Now you can keep doing it (if you see the same RA) and both laugh at it again as a running joke (next time bring all $1 and count them as she is waiting with her legs up in the air:)

MC

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raptor94596 raptor94596 rating
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264 posts, 5 feedbacks, 10 points		 12-Aug-10, 09:46 AM (PST)
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11. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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   Could someone please explain to me what the
purpose or value of this post is?

Can't we have a separate category for useless
posts?

No names, no links, no nothing but a made up
story to shill himself.

How many very experienced "RA's" are going to
do what this guy said within minutes of meeting
a brand new customer?

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CaliforniaT
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19 posts		 12-Aug-10, 10:27 AM (PST)
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12. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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   >How many very experienced "RA's" are going to
>do what this guy said within minutes of meeting
>a brand new customer?

Seems common enough to me. An experienced RA can spot an experienced hobbyist from a mile away. I commonly get good treatment from my first visits without any fumbling around. You don't?

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OurTime123
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75 posts		 12-Aug-10, 12:54 PM (PST)
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16. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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   Its true story. RA was on recent poll and took me 3 days to book. Point of story was made at end of my post. Also, for change nothing wrong with sharing a "nice" experience put smile on people’s faces. Sometimes this forum gets rancorous between its more colorful contributors or frequent I Hate this Happened to Me types of posts. I'm sure you have a similar funny story to share under the category of Useless Posts?

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Kitty_radar
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69 posts		 12-Aug-10, 06:39 PM (PST)
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17. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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   Getting DFK/hugs and grabbing body parts has happened to me on many first time occasions, but I have only forgotten to drop the donation once before the session and it wasn't with a first time visit. The only time I forgot was with my ATF and she had to remind me as I was leaving the room. I just got so caught up in the moment that I completely forgot. She said she was embarrassed to ask and I felt bad she had to.

Ahh...the memories of my ATF...

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amp_nomad
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3081 posts		 12-Aug-10, 07:14 PM (PST)
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19. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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It's a self serving post by a person that wants to feel important in the arms of an RA.


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jdenver
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13. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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   I would get the donation part taken care off immedidately upon arrival. I believe that alleviateS the anxiety from the RA and thus a better session for me. Cheers!

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bone69 bone69 rating
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14. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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   If it is a first time visit, the RA should ask for the donation at the start of the session if it hasn't already been volunteered by the client. The RA can "read" the client and trust him to pay afterwards if she wants. If she thinks he looks untrustworthy, flaky or a trouble maker, she should ask for the donation up front. If she waits till after the session to ask for the donation, she loses her leverage and risks being "stiffed". It can be a mood killer to ask for the donation in the beginning but she has to make sure she gets paid.

I usually offer the donation at the beginning because I just want to get it out of the way and also because I'm afraid I'll forget. I have forgotten a few times when the RA elected to wait till the end. I'm almost ready to leave and hadn't volunteered the donation so she would give a subtle hint to remind me. Sometimes, at first time visit, the RA would ask for the donation up front. Most of the time they just start with the session. I guess I look trustworthy. I then almost always volunteer the donation. They will almost always remind you if you forget. With my ATF, I have forgotten a few times and left without paying. The first time I got a call to come back. The second time, I remembered as I was walking to my car, called her and had her buzz me back in. I see her almost every week so she would trust me to pay at the next visit if we both forgot.

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sxykauk sxykauk rating
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283 posts, 4 feedbacks, 8 points		 12-Aug-10, 06:54 PM (PST)
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18. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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   I certainly wouldn't have done what you did. Was she laughing with you or at you? Why not pay her at the end?

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amp_nomad
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3081 posts		 12-Aug-10, 07:16 PM (PST)
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20. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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That's what the fucking envelope sitting on the night stand is for. Damn you n00bs.


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Kitty_radar
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21. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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   Honestly I have only seen one envelop at one of the many RA's I have visited. But I do always leave it on the nightstand or dresser in plain view.

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eros2354 eros2354 rating
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3221 posts, 12 feedbacks, 23 points		 13-Aug-10, 01:17 PM (PST)
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22. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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LAST EDITED ON 13-Aug-10 AT 01:19 PM (PST)
 
Congradulations. You sometimes do get those priceless memorable moments. Next time have the bills tied to little Johnny there & even get a bigger laugh. Unless its the size & not the amount she's laughing at.

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HoesB4Bros
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23. "RE: Donation - What would you have done?"
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Don't be so Poindexter or Melvin to these hoes.

Be a man.

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