LAST EDITED ON 01-Sep-10 AT 07:48 PM (PST) by (moderator)
If anymore comments are going to written on this subject (BBFS), please write something that most don't already know or hasn't been written before.Synopsis of what we already know or have written about:
1) yes, BB is risky. BBFS even riskier. Even if RA had clean bill of health at latest checkup, the next client knowingly or unknowingly may give her something (STD or HIV).
2) Most providers practice safe sex. Many escorts won't even do BBBJ. Only CBJ and CFS.
3) Most AAMP providers usually do CFS but may, at their discretion, offer BBFS which you can partake or decline.
4) Unless a provider regularly offers BBFS, you should not advertise in reviews or minis that a provider offered BBFS to you. She offered you something that is not on her regular menu and you should be discrete so she doesn't get bombarded with BBFS requests.
5) If you know a provider does BBFS sometimes or all the time and you do not approve, please QUIT crying about it. Go see her or not. You can always insist on putting on a condom. Use a dental dam for kissing and DATY also.
6) If a provider refuses to allow BBFS, please do not bully her into giving in and letting you go bare. It's not on the menu. Does not mean you are entitled to a discount or your money back (RA should have asked for money up front for someone like you). And if you write a bad review because she refused to give you BBFS, someone will alert it to have your review DELETED.
Sex is messy. All sorts of bodily fluids are passed back and forth (saliva, sweat, vaginal secretions, semen, etc). All of which may contain stuff we don't want (cold virus, STD, herpes, HIV, etc). Hobby at your own risk. Use a condom and a dental dam to protect yourself (and her) if you want or are required to by the RA. But please quit whining about perceived risky behavior by others. No one is forcing you to see and have sex with someone.
If you have an STD, HIV or even the common cold/flu, please refrain from hobbying until you are cured. If you had contact with someone prior to diagnosis, you should let them know so they can get tested. To continue hobbying even though you know you are infected is criminal.
If you find out you are infected with something, please don't try to do the blame game. It doesn't help or solve anything. Besides, how are you going to prove who gave it to you? YOU could have been infected earlier (and not showing symptoms yet) and have now infected the RA you are accusing. If an RA gave it to you or YOU infected an RA, an epidemic is brewing and must be dealt with. Contact everyone you had the opportunity to infect (including civies) that they should get tested as a precaution. And of course, see a doctor, get treated and refrain from hobbying until you are cured.
That should just about cover it.
Hopefully this will be the last BBFS thread.