LAST EDITED ON 25-Apr-10 AT 01:49 AM (PST)
>> Well, are you going to out who this provider was or you going to cover for her? <<Should he choose to report who this provider is, it seems that the truly correct venue for such a post would be the Neighborhood Watch forum. Depending on the specifics of the circumstances and the level of detail he provides, it might not stick there though
If my experience, and that of a few others I have noted is any indicator, five bucks says that if he knows her well, he'll catch a ration of shit from her fans (notice I didn't say lapdogs or hired guns) for saying anything about it.
Why is that you may ask?
Because if he knows her well enough to repeat regularly, and to the point where he will grant favors, such as let her stay in his home, a special or romantic relationship will be perceived or implied that is outside the narrow confines of your typical, one off, client/provider, all standard boundaries in place, non-relationship session.
Whether such a "special" relationship truly exists in the heart and mind of either party or not, becomes immaterial. One will be assigned. True or not, absurd or not.
If someone introduces and/or promotes the relationship and/or the "he said she said" angle to explain and/or excuse poor and unprofessional conduct on the part of the provider, most will be led or coerced into believing that one or both parties have forgotten or dismissed the underlying professional nature of their relationship.
My advice to the OP? Apology accepted. Just fix the feedback thing.
Beyond that, fuck it. Save your breath.
Even if it's Crystal Clear that every detail of the account you give is the God's Truth, and nothing but the Truth, you bear no malice, and you have absolutely nothing to gain by disseminating any falsehood..........well, it just ain't worth the headache.
If I had any reason to believe that exposing a few more examples of unconscionably poor professional conduct (of a few that I know beyond just sessions) would be appropriately received, and viewed/analyzed objectively, I'd probably do a couple a more bootsy ass provider posts myself.