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SacTownGuy2010
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"Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
 
   Am I crazy because I won't date someone at their residence? Some say they're safer, but I disagree. I would love to hear some input on the subject.

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PostNasalDrip
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1. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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   What could be more safer than knowing where she lives?

If she is LE, she can nab you at a hotel or residence equally. No change of risk.

Hotel management are more or less the same as nosy neighbors, with regard to LE involvement.

If she is a ROB, you know where she lives.
What's the question?

I think the only real increased risk at a residence, is leaving your vehicle unattended for an hour or so, while you are inside. Risk might be higher just because of the neighborhood. But not from the provider.

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2. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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Talking about your safety/comfort not hers, right? Depends on the neighborhood and time of day/nite. Not all the ladies can afford to live in the better (stable) neighborhoods. But many if not most of the low rent hoods I've seen are normal and safe enough during the day. But, yeah, if you're a night owl, especially on a B&G budget, you should be concerned and watchful.

Obviously with that being said, some motels are pretty scary too.

LM469
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3. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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   I like a hotel room for one reason.

"DEAD BOLT"


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4. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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   dead bolt doesnt matter if they get up and open the door Bill!


I like private better if you know the girl or have seen her before .... keeps her expenses down hence rates down

But kinda scarey first time ... too many places for peeps to hide

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5. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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SacTownGuy,

It's all a matter of personal preference. I don't say "no" to a woman whom I want to see just because she wants me to come to a hotel. On the other hand, I feel more comfortable going to her residence. As noted above, you know where she lives . . . or at least where she has a place.

If you get a vibe that something is not right, don't go. My basic rule is: when in doubt, don't; always be safe.

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6. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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   I think it depends on how reputable the lady is. If you stick with girls that have good track records for being independent, providing the service they advertise, and based upon your research (reviews, mini's, posts she's submitted here) she seems to be relatively stable/normal, etc. then I think seeing her at her home would be the safer bet, depending on location, etc.
Although with the same girl, I don't think a hotel would be any less safe.
It really all depends on how much you know about the person you're meeting up with.


xoxox
MB

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Lana_Luvwood Lana_Luvwood rating
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7. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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It depends on the person and area IMO... Would I want to go to a shady area with a TOFFT late at night? No but that would be just common sense. If she plans on robbing you she will do it at a private residence or at her motel, even IF you know where she lives. You also know what hotel room she is in but most guys don't say anything because they were there trying to purchase vagina and who wants to explain that to the SO or the police.

Some ladies maintain a seperate residence for a area they live or frequent alot because it is more cost effective to get a short term lease in a apartment and pay $500-700 a month. Than to pay $100 a night at a hotel. If she is willing to do that I highly doubt she is going to rob you BUT It can happen.

I have had clients ask to look in closets, or behind shower curtains. I tell them to go ahead, nothing there but a clean shower and towels so feel free.

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8. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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I would question why a woman would risk working out of her home..especially if she has children. If she doesn't have a high concern for her own safety and discretion then I'd assume that yours isn't high on her priority list either.

Think about this...in the recent tragic murder/suicide...what if it was only a murder. What is you saw her, your car was noticed parked in front by a neighbor who later recalls the nice silver Lexus (or whatever) and the next guy who visits does something horrible. Do you want to know where she lives? Do you want to be one of the people who were there? In a hotel, I suppose the same could happen. Im just thinking outloud. I am so sad and wish that she would have kept her home life, and children , away from an RB association.

I just think that a hotel room is much sexier than a home, besides being more discreet.

"Too much of a good thing is wonderful."

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SacTownGuy2010
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11. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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   Amanda,

Yes, that's what I'm talking about. Also, I don't like the idea of my car sitting in front of someones house where potentially neighbors, escort stalkers, pimps, etc could write down my plate number. I've seen AAMPS before, but that situation is a little different IMO. When I go to a hotel, I park far away then walk there. I guess technically you could do the same at a residence if ample parking is available. Anyway, I appreciate everyone's input. Thanks!

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9. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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I prefer to see lower volume girls with nice residential incalls. To me that is the safest situation because you know they want to avoid any sort of trouble at their home/apt so the potential for drama is very low. If the place is scary or I am uncomfortable... I just turn around and leave.

Hotel/Motels are much more dangerous IMO but they key is the girls reputation going in. If she has a good rep... I will see her at a hotel.

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10. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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   >Am I crazy because I won't date someone at their residence?
>Some say they're safer, but I disagree. I would love to
>hear some input on the subject.

The greatest risk is probably not knowing *anything* about the provider...regardless of her incall.

If you want to eliminate risk, see well-known providers with good reviews.

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* lookin' 4 the chewin'
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12. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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LAST EDITED ON 24-Aug-10 AT 09:28 PM (PST)
 
+edit mistake. sorry.

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sacvalley
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13. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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hotels only for me just feel safer than apartment or home

also prefer safer hotels for business travelers..........

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14. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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I prefer hotels because my line of work puts me in contact with out of town vendors so I always have the line of 'my car was seen at that hotel because I was meeting with the vendor' because that happens even on days I am not visiting a provider.
As for the residence, I once met a really good provider who lived in an apartment complex and after the second visit I had to stop because I could not come up with any reason I was there if the 1% chance I was seen.
So, I actually prefer upscale hotels since most vendors would be at a named hotel (Marriot, Holiday Inn) over a Travelodge or Motel 6.

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15. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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LAST EDITED ON 25-Aug-10 AT 08:03 AM (PST)
 
**wrong post**

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16. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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Hotel is safer. You are on camera, your personal infor like plate number are not compromised. The hotel security team is also keeping yoaur back

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17. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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LAST EDITED ON 26-Aug-10 AT 12:16 PM (PST)
 
It very much depends on the individual and location.
Knowing nothing about where I am going, a decent hotel will probably feel a bit safer (note I said a decent hotel, in a decent area).

But when I think back on some of the best experiences I've had here, most have been with 30-something milfy ladies working out of their personal residences, or at least a house/apt. whether or not it is their primary. A TRUE 5 star lady who does thorough reference checks and takes pride in providing a comfortable, hotel or spa like environment can make you feel safe and comfortable in their home or apt. and they will be comfy too, have all of their toys and outfits there for you, maybe have the shower prepped and food and drink even. I'm pretty choosy about who I see, and if they are well reviewed, in a decent area, do reference checks, I rarely stress about a private residence and rarely have been worried about something bad happening.

A girl such as Heather, That Girl/Sabrina, NikkiN. who typcially work out of a private residence, who have a good reputation, respect themselves by being very safe and checking references, and really try an provide a comfortable environment for the visiing gent, well, that experience is hard to beat!

Hotels are fine with me as well and the thoughtful lady will make her room there feel just as comfy. I just have also had really good experiences in a private residence as well, my bestones really. So to the OP, you're not crazy, we all should do what we feel most comfortable doing and that your not going to get an ulcer over, but know you may be missing out on some quality and safe ladies as well!

And honestly, sometimes if it is the first time I meet a girl or am a little unsure about the location, I too sometimes park a block away, or down the street a bit. Sometimes even in a hotel, I'll park away from the room or next door just in case.

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18. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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a decent residence over a hotel anytime... and stay out of roseville.
if not now, when?

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19. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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LAST EDITED ON 27-Aug-10 AT 08:13 PM (PST)
 
It depends on their review history.

If they are five-star, providers (like me) with a nice home in a safe, out-of-the-way area that is really well-reviewed -
I would say "YES!

If it's a low-rate, TOFTT-girl that has a couple of suspicious reviews (or none at all), who lives in an apartment complex in a "bad" area/"good" area - or even a quiet, cookie-cutter neighborhood - I would think TWICE.

Apartment complexes, homes/massage studios like mine and even homes in suburban neighborhoods are GREAT - as long as you know the front of her place doesn't resemble the drive thru at
In N Out Burger and again - is WELL REVIEWED .

Trust your friends.

Look for 411, Neighborhood Watch reports and posts in the "General (just for men)" section.

If she's seeing dudes for $50 a hhr...well...you're taking your chances...

Just do your research, ask your RB Brothers lots of questions, and when all is "said and done" have some

FUN!

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

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20. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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I've seen providers at their residences and have never had a problem. But, I have to say this to the ladies: Spend a few dollars and host in a hotel room. It may help to avoid the guys who get obsessed and start hanging out around your house. Just a thought.

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21. "RE: Incalls: Hotels vs Residence"
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   I have provided out of both. Home when I am home, and upscale hotels when I travel.

I would never even think about seeing a gent unless he is safe (references check out) so if I am being that safe, then my gents should feel safe in either or.

Choose ladies that are clean, discreet and well reviewed. The respect level from both parties is what makes the expereince comfortable and smooth As far as stalkers are concerned, I have not had that problem at my residence before, most gents have been very discreet and respectful of my time and my personal life. Thank you all for your continued love and support!

♥ Ava

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