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"Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
 
   HEY HEY ALLLLLL GOOD MORNING ....


CWB, I WANTED TO POST ON YOUR ORIGINAL THREAD BUT IT WAS LOCKED SO HERE'S A NEW ONE.


I WATCHED THE NEWS WHEN THAT STORY CAME ON AND FELT EXTREMELY BAD FOR THE FAMILY.......

I WANT TO COMMEND CWB AND OTHERS WHO WOULD LIKE TO GET THIS THING TOGETHER AND SHOW SUPPORT TO THIS WOMAN'S FAMILY.


I KNOW THERE ARE ISSUES AND PROBLEMS HERE EVERYDAY, BUT I REALLY THINK FOLKS NEED TO STEP OUTSIDE OF THIER DRAMA AND ISSUES AND REALLY STEP BACK AND TAKE A LOOK AT THIS. THIS COULDVE BENN ANY OF US ON HERE......

SO LET'S STAT APPRECIATING WHAT WE HAVE AND WHO WE KNOW AND LOVE EVEN THE ONES THT WE MAY NOT BE SO FOND OF, BECAUSE THIS IS A LITTLE TOO CLOSE TO HOME FOR A LOT OF US AND WE NEED TO START LOOKING OUT FOR ONE ANOTHER AND LOVIN EACH OTHER A LIL MORE.


SO ON THAT NOTE ( SORRY RAN OFF WITH MY THOUGHS ...IT HAPPENS) CWB LET ME KNOW WHAT YOUR PLAN IS SWEETE I WOULD LOVE TO HELP.......


HAVE A GREAT DAY ALL AND SEE YA'LL SOONER THAN LATER MUAH

MISS SILKY

I'M A LOVER .....NOT A HATER

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26-Aug-10, 09:16 AM (PST)
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1. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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LAST EDITED ON 26-Aug-10 AT 09:17 AM (PST)
 
Great Post!!

I have an idea, how about all the providers offer 1/2 off their rates and Hobbiyst could take the other 1/2 and donate it to the same fund.. (Of Course rates should be the going rate in today's market)


Then we elect some person to collect the monies and keep them in some type of trust account for the lady..

How many providers are willing to participate?

If enough interest is generated providers could respond here, then somebody body could come up with an idea...How do account for this, although the logistics will take some planning, I'm sure it could be done.


Life is a Natural Bush ;)

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26-Aug-10, 09:37 AM (PST)
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3. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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I think that is making things too complicated. I think we should keep it simple. The more moving parts you have in a transaction the more likely something is to break down. JMO- People should donate what they can donate and the money should be collected at the September Gathering. At that time CWB and a provider that know the family should make a anonymous donation to the family. Not sure if a trust fund is set up for the kids but many local banks will do it for free (and the free pub).

Does anybody know the provider.

Joe

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26-Aug-10, 10:21 AM (PST)
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6. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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LAST EDITED ON 26-Aug-10 AT 10:45 AM (PST)
 
I agree SB, I was sort of being a little facetious,
(As Many providers as well as others seem to only participate these type's of discussions for their own personal agendas, i.e. "PUB etc., or merely to make themselves feel good, but when it comes down to it, they do not do squat)!!

but I also did not want to sound unsympathetic nor did I want to show lack of support to this lady's family. For myself personally, I am donating a large sum, anyone truly interested, can contact Social Services,,.. or the PD Chaplin..@(916) 857-1802.


Life is a Natural Bush ;)

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9. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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While I agree to a certain extent but I am not quite as cynical as you are... maybe I am just newer to the game.

Many people have great intentions but lack fullow through... which is why I think we take the collection at the gathering to make it a simple one stop shop... donate, grab some food and drinks, meet some new friends and promote our common interests (girls getting clients and guys meeting new and old friends). Win/Win for everybody.

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26-Aug-10, 10:56 AM (PST)
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10. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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LAST EDITED ON 26-Aug-10 AT 11:42 AM (PST)
 
"Many people have great intentions but lack fullow through..."

That was a much better way better way I should have said it like that, then maybe HS would not have attacked me;

again SB your,
Right on

However their are many people who have motives that truly do not come with intentions to do anything, then talk, but when it comes down to it those people would never give a dime to anyone but themselves.. Not sure what that has to do with discounted pussy or in my case free pussy.. But in light of HS's Statement, I have decided to give back, by donating 1/2 of the cash for all the free pussy I've manipulated from his wife and sister...

GRAND TOTAL!!! $37.50 Cents!! Any providers want to help increase this amount, by giving me some free pussy, please in box me..


Life is a Natural Bush ;)

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26-Aug-10, 10:28 AM (PST)
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7. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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>I have an idea, how about all the providers offer 1/2 off
>their rates and Hobbiyst could take the other 1/2 and donate
>it to the same fund.. (Of Course rates should be the going
>rate in today's market)

Damn, this is got to be the lowest you have ever been. Even worse than the stories about you pressuring and manipulating providers to give you discounted sessions. You really should be ashamed of yourself.

Sbix was being very kind in calling your scheme complicated rather than pointing out the obvious self-serving BS that it is……….

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8. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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LAST EDITED ON 26-Aug-10 AT 11:19 AM (PST)
 
HS, your lack of uneducated thought process never ceases to amaze me..

Guess that is why your an RB MOD, more then likely your best accomplishment in life..,,

Great carrier, keep up the good work Bud!!..

I guess you ex told you, damm! she promised, never to tell and for your information smarty pants, I never pressure her, I just asked her to lower her fee from $25 to $10 Bucks..

Fair Game, as everyone knows Mod's manipulate free pussy all day long, by using their false sense of power,,

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12. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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Sad you can't pass up a chance to prove you're an ass.

Jack

"If U were smarter, I'd have nothing 2 do"

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13. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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LAST EDITED ON 27-Aug-10 AT 12:22 PM (PST)
 
?????????????

>HS, your lack of uneducated thought process never ceases to
>amaze me..


Am I correct in thinking that "lack of uneducated thought process" equals an educated thought process?

If you lack an educated thought process than aren't you ----uneducated? And, therefore, if you lack an uneducated thought process than aren't you --- educated?

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18. "covered in another post"
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   LAST EDITED ON 27-Aug-10 AT 11:43 PM (PST)
 
eom

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2. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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LAST EDITED ON 26-Aug-10 AT 09:27 AM (PST)
 
DAWM GIRL! Is your caps lock busted?

Anyone find her RB ad yet?
PS, I've already offered up my paypal to CWB for his donation thread. We'll see how it goes.

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4. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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ID LOVE TO DONATE AND HELP! ANY WAY I CAN THIS IS VERY SAD!

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5. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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Referenced thread:

"Fund Raiser For The Kids Of The Dead Mother"

http://forum.myredbook.com/dcforum2/DCForumID21/38890.html

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Originalmskitty
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11. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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   Talk to CWB, inbox him. It's already in the works...

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14. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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This is sad, I hope the children don't get split up, and grandma takes care of them. The foster care system is awfull. Ladies please think twice In fact DON'T even think on bringing anyone home to your private residence especially if you have children. I mean no one new friend, guy/ girl you just met at a club, client from rb NO ONE!!!We all take risks but bringing that risk home to the kids it way too much!!!!

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15. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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I'd bring you home, no matter what the risk

Life is a Natural Bush ;)

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19. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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   Well not every women dreams to be in one your secretly videod amateur porn tapes posted on PORNHUB.....

And it is also quite interesting LBM that you elected yourself class treasurer. Now that made everyone's confidence swell with enthusiasm that you would be more uprighteous and honest than Ahmed Zarcozai.

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21. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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   Michelle, The subject of the OP is about support for the children, but since you have brought the safety issue up, and it's been brought up a number of times before, I hope you and other readers don't mind my responding to your post. Because, while I certainly agree with the cautions you and others have raised, I think it's unfair to reject out of hand the possibility of friendship developing--even with someone met through Redbook.

Certainly, no one should ever bring home someone they've just met, children or no children. Whether they met on RB or at the mall or at a bar (I recommend renting "Looking for Mr. Goodbar." Now there is a cautionary tale if there was ever one.)

Developing a friendship with someone met through RB may be rare, and certainly should be entered into with great care,but there are a few of us who have developed friendships this way, and the rewards are rich (I'm not talking about the sex part, either)

It can only happen after trust has been built over a period of time and demonstrated through consistently positive, tangible, mutually beneficial support and responsible behavior. It isn't a planned or manipulated process, it just happens, intitially because two people are just having lots of fun together, like to be together, and enjoy each other's company beyond the physical intimacy and financial part.

But, of course, there is--and should be--the awareness of possible danger signs along the way. I have been honored with being invited into a provider's home, meeting and spending time with her daughter, and I have invited them into my home. I've taken them shopping, out to eat, the daughter to day care, and taken family portraits which she proudly hangs on her wall plus provided a bit of financial support. I haven't seen her in the provider/hobbyist way in a long while, but I am honored that she considers me a friend. BTW, she is no naive newby, either. Quite intelligent, and has survived more than a few hard knocks without becoming jaded along the way.

I happen to be single and in no committed relationship. I raised three wonderful children who I adore, and, for me, while getting started on Redbook was a way to satisfy my sexual drive, I am, by nature, more of a one woman kind of guy who just hasn’t happened to meet the “right one.” Thought I had a time or three, but just didn’t work out—another story. So, here I am. That’s just me. And, I suppose I am setting myself up for some real flaming here. So be it.

I would submit that the cautions one should take before becoming close to another, with or without children involved, are the same outside of Redbook as in and must be closely adhered to. And, for some, maybe most on Redbook, it's just not something they would ever consider by personality, experience, narrow objectives (no interest in anything more than sex for money) or personal circumstances.

Within Redbook Craigslist, or anywhere within the world of sex for money, a person, both provider and client, should be even more attuned to the potential risks. Obviously.

And beyond that, both parties should be comfortable with the idea of friendship developing and always attuned to the other’s comfort level, because what starts lightly can change.

But we are not all woman- or man-hating, obsessive, jealous jerks. In fact, some of us guys are really quite nice and “normal” --at least normal except for liking the company of a beautiful young woman. Oh, wait, that is kind of normal, isn't it?

The rare, and really quite special friendship--with attendant boundaries that must be willingly accepted--is possible, and I'm disappointed to see so often that the valid warnings segue into admonitions that friendship should NEVER EVER be allowed to happen under ANY circumstances. One size does NOT fit all.

Do I have a trusting nature? Yes, I've been told I am gullible. Have I been actually taken as a sucker? Yes. But, I went willingly, and, after the disappointment that she turned out not to be who I thought she was, got through it without bitterness and learned something about precautions--and myself--along the way.

Yes, close friendship may be of interest to, and possible for, only a few here. But, I have received the great rewards of friendship in spite of—no, because of--meeting through Redbook.

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16. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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I'm willing to help as well...

Alyssa Lee
Pour Some Sugar On Me

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17. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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Me too.

I think the easiest way is to contact the family (which I can do).

I will send a request for the information this weekend and let you know as soon as I know.

I will post the information for whomever has a memorial and/or college fund set up for the children and we call all send our $ directly to that source.

Every little bit makes a difference.

In this COMMUNITY , we all have different feelings triggered when something like this happens to one of our own (be it hobbyist or provider).

Most of what we post in regards to these tragedies is simply from our own, individual, POVs.

Let's be proactive.

Let us FOCUS on the solution and how to best help these motherless children.

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

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20. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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This is a great gesture!


Few ??? Though.

Does anyone know if the family wants or needs the help. They may not want anything from this community due to the facts and embarrassment they may feel.

According to the news reports the children are in good hands of family. If they want or will accept donations thats awesome. Will they accept donations from the community..


I just dont want all this effort made and have a refusal when presented.

And I have not read all the threads. so if it has been said already I apologize.


Summertime Fun!!!

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22. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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   So i will be setting up a PayPal account with a very trusted and well respected hobbyist. The time frame will be two weeks and then the donations will be tallied and I will be buying 3 savings bonds for the children, one for each. I have contact with a provider who is close to her family ( dont ask, because she wants to keep her name out of it). I have have several conversations with her and she agrees, this is the best thing. Any money collected at the gathering in Sept will also be added. This is the easiest way to get anyone close or far to donate. My goal is $1,500 which should not be hard. I have three seperate gentleman who have already pledged 100 each. So thank you to all the Ladies and gentlemen who are going to help. Hope to see ALOT of people at the gathering...

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24. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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   the all caps thing needs to go.

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25. "RE: Fundraiser For Slain Citrus Heights Mother And Rb Fam Member"
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   Count me in!!!!!!


A man for all seasons, a woman for all reasons.

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