The Sac Lounge is not a Hobbiest only board. There is one..this just isn't it. Sasha made some of the same points that have been made in recent threads on this matter and doesn't desearve to be banished over to PB with her "Providery notions". Just? really? JUST?

As for the fact that she may have been playing him and it went wrong. Hmmmm...I've seen it go wrong with NO "signals" or "$ requests" or "favors" given or asked for by a provider. Sometimes men just fall in "love" and don't get it that this isn't Match.com.
It often starts in the into email. Talking about how handsome they are, how much money they have, how they want to wine and dine you and make you feel like a woman....blah blah blah.

I have to run...thank you for reading my post. Even though I'm just a provider.

I drove into the driveway at one of the massage houses (everyone had gone home for the night/was with my little one) to find a stalker-hobbyist pruning my hedges.

He called and texted me like a crackhead and drove by the house when I didn't answer back (I lived elsewhere).

Had to change my pseudonym/disengage from the collectives, and change my number three times to shake him.

It was scary.

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo
p.s.

If something horrific happened to a hobbyist and father of young children - compassionate Hearts would share on both PB AND RB.

Why longquickii? The "stupid Ho's" should stand down and keep their opinions to themselves?

Sasha's post is relevant to recent discussions in this forum and I enjoyed reading her post. Maybe you should post in Pinkbook?

The Mighty Magical Wizard of Pussy

I am sure they have info in Pink book and they should in nieghborhood watch matter fact it should be in every forum in all capps!!!

I know for the good guys that want to see a lady in the upcoming weeks it may be a lil harder to get in with a provider.

Because i would hope every rb sister here will screen calls well!

This time of year is always slow because kids are returning to school. Things will pick up after the 5th or 6th so just hang on young ladies.

Its gonna get better so if you get a bad vibe just don't take him! I know its hard when you need money and its been slow. But its better that you lose the money and not your life!

colleen massage therapist

Jedi Master Yoda of the Strip Clubs

BTW, here is my freebie to you (and no, I don't want to "feel like your friend"). Try pushy ones instead of "pushy one's" and until instead of "intil".

She's looking at things from a business perspective, as all of us should strive to do. Certainly we can become fond of some of our providers (I do) but boundaries have to be understood.

Would you expect your esteemed automotive technician, the one who always takes care of you in exactly the way you expect, to do things for you that you didn't pay for? After he changes your timing belt and replaces your crank seal, do you then expect him to call you to chat?

The condition IS the money. That's it. Nothing more.

>Do you want them to lick the bottom of your shoes clean
>and walk your dogs as well?

She's not suggesting that. She just wants to keep the transaction a transaction. So should you.

>BTW, here is my freebie to you (and no, I don't want to
>"feel like your friend"). Try pushy ones instead of "pushy
>one's" and until instead of "intil".

Critiquing Shyla's English usage here is not only unnecessary to the discussion, but also funny considering that you seem to think that people associate "to" each other, and not "with" each other.

While we are at it, have you ever heard of term double negative?

We are talking about a human being that has been murdered. We can all agree to disagree with out getting all fucken butt hurt about it.

colleen massage therapist

People get murdered everyday all over the world. What makes her so special? Because she is a whore like you? Ever heard of Pat Tillman?

Man do you sound bitter.

By the way did it make you feel superior to try to make her feel inferior?

Is that how you are able to walk tall by cutting down people around you?

You might want to think about that. It doesn't make you really look good.

-Never underestimate the power of human stupidity.

Yes, it does. Your bitterness taints your outlook, which seems to be that you think all women are out to use you. That's a distorted view, probably caused by God-only-knows what happened to you as you were growing up. Don't blame women for your fucked up view of them.

I am a woman. I am run by emotion, which is why I made the original post...the story moved me and prompted me to post. I was drawn into this business by need. I never knowingly harmed anyone, and tried my best to make everyone I met happy. I consider myself a good, kind, loving woman that is worthy of respect. Please don't place a blanket judgement on all women because if you think about it really hard.....in all of your bad situations....what, or whom shall I say, was the common denominator?

Well if you are worried about any woman treating you like that then you can do as I do.

I too in my younger days, have been basically used by women. Sometimes I had such a low self esteem that I actually let them, because I didn't think I deserved better.

Well I have grown up since then. And a good lesson I learned with any woman not just a provider. Always show a woman respect. But do not show her kindness unless she is going out with you.

You wouldn't believe how that simple rule has changed my life with women. First I only do favors for women and expect nothing in return if the woman is going out with me. A SO or GF. Otherwise I try to get something in return. One girl asked me for a ride for some errands she needed to run. I said that is fine but you will be washing my car after we are done. She agreed. So she washed my car. I find that women have more respect for you if they have to do something in return. It doesn't even have to be of equal value but make them do something. Cook you dinner, Sew a button on a shirt, something.

That has worked out great for me. Oh, and if she doesn't come through with her part. I don't do another thing for her until she makes it up to me in some way.

This has worked out great in my life since I started doing it this way. If only I acted this way when I was younger. Still never too old to learn.

-Never underestimate the power of human stupidity.

I am not worrying about any woman treating me like that. I just sense that is her prerogative from her post. That seems like the trend nowadays, especially in RB, hence the lapdogism.

That being said...how often is it that we find such a crime being connected to our own RB community? Yes, we have CL killers, CL stalkers, RB weirdos that fly under the radar....but how often is this site highlighted as the connection point between the killer and the killed?

It just opened a thought process and helped me renew some of my own thinking...how comfortable I once was on RB back in 2003 when I initially joined. It was almost a feeling of instant comfortability when s gentleman caller would say "Hey, this is XXX from RB". Things have changed and to compare today with just 5-7 years ago, I'm amazed at how horrible things have become....quickly declining.

Life is about learning and my intuition is pretty good. I've only found myself in 2 scary situations and both of those were when I let the saying "all money isn't good money" fly out the door. I learned from that...but what could have become of me? I could be a statistic. I still can become a statistic...of some sort. There are no guarantees.

I will never allow myself to become so desensitized that I chalk a death like this up to the profession and that she was just a thing, not a human being that had life...and brought forth life in this world that now has to go without her.

I am sad at ALL death, that's just how I feel.

As we discuss in my philosophy class....this would not be considered a "necessary evil". This was just plain ol' evil....and I hate that.

very good advice, thank you