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"what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'?"
 
   this is often used in ads

curious what you think it means?

the floor is now open for debate...

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1. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
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LAST EDITED ON 28-Aug-10 AT 06:47 PM (PST)
 
It just means that she takes her time and gives you the entire time you paid. Plus, if takes a few more minutes to get the job done, so be it.


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2. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
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LAST EDITED ON 28-Aug-10 AT 07:41 PM (PST)
 
It means instead of a session lasting an hour it will last as long as it takes for her to get you off and out the door...

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22. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
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Well Ferdinand, having met you and knowing you -in the biblical sense, wink wink- I can't imagine any ladies kicking you out of the bed at 60 mins.... You are a charmer!

Anyway, let's not get carried away either though. Some people actually do need much longer from maybe a little blue pill or the opposite, or they are just made that way - and it wouldn't be fair (to other hobbyists) or ourselves to push that much consistently.

If it takes someone two hours or an hour and a half to get there- he should certainly book for that time knowing himself, or bring a healthy tip.

Other than that, I've always been known for not being a 'clockwatcher' and that to me means, that it may go an extra 15 mins or in the case of extremely great chemistry-30 mins. But that is usually from the 2nd finish...
I've had some sessions be booked for an hour--that went for 2, but they are exceptions.

No one should be held to a strict 60 or 30 minutes UNLESS they've gone at it steady and hard without a break or breather.
One thing that makes it different for some ladies I suppose is if one has booked appts ahead with only an hour or two between, or has the rest of the day open...it depends.

I learned a long time ago, to not prebook more than one appt in the same day, as I don't know how physical a session will be and/or how tired I'll be after. Other factors: did he run a little late?/ was there a long talking break-stretching out the final ending time, or is he just going to want one 'pop' & need to run off. You just never know and can't really plan that.

I get what longquickie is saying about paying for the fantasy, and of getting a woman who is foremost, waiting-willing and ready for you!
I'd say that is the main appealing thing for hobbyists who do this.
And we aren't that way just because the money is exchanged...it's got to be also because we know we are 95% gonna have a fun "roll in the hay" for awhile--and get satisfaction as well as satisfy in the process.

Once in awhile if I feel that me and a client have gotten carried away or are close and starting another round, I'll take a glance at the clock then or when getting water, or going to the lil girls' room, and gauge what we can still have time for or gently remind them.

This is good to bring up every once in awhile as when I first started I did try to keep my sessions to the actual time, but had much more fun when not thinking about it.

You get a feel for gauging the time whether getting carried away or with a 'boring' client, eventually.

Timing the sessions becomes an instinct, but should only be used for good-not evil~

Have fun everybody!

LustyLyndy

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3. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
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Just read the reviews and see if what she states in her ad is backed up by your RB brothers!

Have fun and stay safe!

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

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4. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
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   Good advice.

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5. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
In response to message #4
 
Lexxxsana Minaj a.k.a Alexxxsandra

lets not get it confused here, because often guys see this as a way to weasel in "free" time. A clockwatcher is someone who during your appointment is constantly looking at the time or reminding you of how much time you have, or have left.

A girl who isn't a clockwatcher goes about the your time together, not mentioning time, not looking at the time, and not acting like it's a timed event. HOWEVER, if you give a donation for an hour and the full hour is up and she lets you know "hey hun, it's been an hour" of course saying it in a better way, that does not make her a clockwatcher and just because she doesnt want to give you an extra 15-30 min to continue to try and get it done does not make her a clockwatcher.

It is not fair to label a girl a clockwatcher just because she makes you aware that you guys have spent 60min together already. Thats why we list donations for our time and not actions. If you know you can't have fun in just one hour then book 2 or 1.5 but don't go there spend an hour, and when your not done, but she has respectfully given you the entire time without making you feel timed, try and call her a clockwatcher just because she doesnt want to give you an extra 15-30 min free.

Now my opinions do not mean that I am in any way stuck up, or all business, but it's only fair, if you book an hour and I give you a full hour (plus time to get yourself together afterwards) then be fair and understand you have an hour, not an hour IF you finish, but just an hour. Thats what you selected and thats what we should provide you, but we also need to be good enough at our job to make you feel; one, like 60 min felt like 5 because you had such a wonderful time, and two, you forgot this was something set up because it felt so natural, relaxing, fun and relieving!!!

Lets be fair and respectful of EACHOTHERS time ladies and gentlemen!!!

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6. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
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I always thought it meant they weren't a member of some budding political party known as "The Clock Watchers." Then again, I've never seen an ad where the girl proclaimed membership in such a party, so perhaps I'm off base.

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7. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
In response to message #6
 
I think that the initial responses explain the hobbyist POV.

I think that Alexxandra (or whatever your name is this quarter) gave the response of a provider that has worked too much for her young age and is jaded.

I think that most of the (actually) pimped young girls that use it in their ads are completely full of shit and just trying to use it as a hook.

The reality is that if you connect with the gal that you are sessioning with and she is either actually enjoying what she is doing because she 1) likes to fuck; 2) is experienced enough to swallow her disdain and fake it well or 3) actually happens to get off on that particularb session because she likes your look or you remind her of her lost love or something. If any of these are the case and she is not working it like a factory, it (the clock) becomes a non-factor to the session.

"It's only a hobby, right?"

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8. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
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longquickii


Life is a Natural Bush ;)

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9. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
In response to message #7
 
I am going to say this at the risk of being labelled a shill or lapdog for Alexxandra but I have never sessioned or met her so that can't be the case.

I agree that if we pay for the hour, we should respect her time and either be done by the hour or at least have the courtesy to acknowledge to her that you are aware of how much time you have spent and offer to pay her something extra for the extra time that it takes. She can either accept or reject your offer. It is her choice.

We are paying a professional for her time and should respect that for her time is money as it would be for you if the circumstances were reversed.

Those are my $.02 on the matter. Let the flaming begin.

This sure is an expensive hobby.

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12. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
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   LAST EDITED ON 30-Aug-10 AT 09:00 PM (PST)
 
Well, then, flame me too. Alexxxsandra is right on.

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13. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
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"we should respect her time and either be done by the hour or at least have the courtesy to acknowledge to her that you are aware of how much time you have spent and offer to pay her something extra for the extra time that it takes."

That's always been my thought process Taving. If I'm at a SC, with a provider, I'm always going to square up on the overtime.


The delusion of some here is just amazing.

3) actually happens to get off on that particularb session because she likes your look or you remind her of her lost love or something."

What and the fuck is this guy smoking? lol lightbrightman is clapping, need I say more? He's every providers lost love and they
just can't get enough. And when he stiff's them for the overtime he wonders why they won't see him again.


The Mighty Magical Wizard of Pussy (97 -)

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14. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
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   Pitt and Taving I could not agree with the two of you more. Some guys don't respect these ladies and look at them as "trash" and not providers. These indivisuals normally have issues booking an appointment because of their degrading and demeaning attitude towards woman in general. These same Johns are quick to scream rob,rip off or rush service.

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16. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
In response to message #9
 
LAST EDITED ON 30-Aug-10 AT 10:36 PM (PST)
 
What a very kind and thoughtful response.
I think I speak for many providers......

We need more respectful gentlemen like you!


Heather
Your Pleasure is my pleasure!

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19. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
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It is a slippery slope. If a girl is too strict on the time it feels like it is strictly business and not a GFE or escape for the man. On the other hand... you have guys that will linger around forever if the girls are too nice and don't get them moving. The nice thing to do is to offer to run the shower for them or ask if they want another hour... that way it is clear that you expect them to do something (or pay more) but you are not rushing them out.

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10. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
In response to message #7
 
LAST EDITED ON 30-Aug-10 AT 07:58 PM (PST)
 
............you know what I had a response typed out, but for what!? LOL, I am not labled a clock watcher, and I told myself I wouldn't get sucked into this board drama again!!! Everytime, lol, anyways I wasn't supporting clock-watchers and I am not jaded sweety, far from it. I am one of the coolest, most down to earth/humble chicks you will meet! Or not, thats your thing different strokes for different folks.

All I'm saying is just because a lady might say something if your still trying to hang around after 60 min, that doesn't make her a clockwatcher!

Have a wonderful night ladies and gents, oh and its Lexsana this quarter! (my handles still the same)........but it doesn't matter what my name is they all call me the same thing at the end anyways!!!

;) ;)


~Lexxxsana Minaj~F the Illuminati!


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15. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
In response to message #0
 
I agree with Paris (easier to type that name) that we agree to a certain amount of time. Going over it by much is rude. Time is money. I also agree with what she says about how great providers can make it seem like we've been together for hours, even when it's been just one. Providers like that let us hobbyists go away happy, planning our next visit.

I also agree with Longquickii. Paris does come off as an unhappy provider who needs to take some time off. It's why I haven't seen her in over a year.

When we find someone that we have some commonality with, we don't keep track of time. I'd suggest that if/when you realize you've gone over the time you had agreed on, offer something extra to put in her purse.

Some of the girls I've connected with have just asked when I'll be over next.

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17. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
In response to message #15
 
I don't fool myself about anything son.

The only reason I go get pussy on RB or otherwise that I pay CASH for is my personal convenience. I have no trouble making appointments, I always treat EVERY woman like a lady no matter HOW she acts towards me, and I have connected very well with the majority of providers that are mature (I do not mean age) and reasonable acting. I am well aware it is a business, and I never want that line blurred or crossed. But a good businesman (or -woman) gives the effort to show that his/her product or service is superior to the competition - especially in difficult economic times when there is lots of selection and few dollars to go around.

Part of the reason I have good experiences on here is by being as selective as possible about personality. I never have anything to do with most of the supposed "5-stars" that are drooled over (but rarely actually seen) by a lot of guys around here. You know why? I am not paying a gal to sit and act like she is doing me a favor by sucking my dick. I am paying to take a fantasy hour away from real life and just enjoy a SEXUAL experience with someone who is ready willing and able to do the same. If she isn't into it, I'm gonna know just like you will (unless YOU are completely fooling yourself), and I do not go back.

"It's only a hobby, right?"

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21. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
In response to message #17
 
>I don't fool myself about anything son.
>
I am paying to take a fantasy hour away from real life and
>just enjoy a SEXUAL experience with someone who is ready
>willing and able to do the same.

Ok. Stay with not fooling yourself in the fantasy.

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18. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
In response to message #15
 
hahaha you guys are both waaaaay out of wack!!!!!!!!!!!


~Lexxxsana Minaj~F the Illuminati!

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20. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
In response to message #18
 
LAST EDITED ON 31-Aug-10 AT 12:36 PM (PST) by (moderator)
 
Moderator Edit: Please stay on topic - PP

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23. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
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Don't arbitrarily edit things because it is perceived as an attack on a "five-star". PP. It makes you worse than a shill.

She decided to throw in her two cents and continued to respond.

"It's only a hobby, right?"

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24. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
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LAST EDITED ON 31-Aug-10 AT 04:53 PM (PST)
 
"Don't arbitrarily edit things because it is perceived as an attack on a "five-star"."

How else is he suppose to get laid..


Life is a Natural Bush ;)

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25. "RE: what does it mean when a girl says 'I am not a clock watcher'"
In response to message #23
 
LAST EDITED ON 31-Aug-10 AT 05:26 PM (PST)
 
>Don't arbitrarily edit things because it is perceived as an
>attack on a "five-star". PP. It makes you worse than a
>shill.
>
>She decided to throw in her two cents and continued to
>respond.
>

There was nothing arbitrary in my decision to edit your post. Your post was not on topic as stated. Your comments were your opinion of the provider that was questionable and IMO mean spirited.

Your comments are more suited for an inbox to the provider and does not belong in a public forum.

Win, Place or Show!!!

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