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"Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
 
What would be best for you when with someone just a bit more special ?
As far as sessioning goes.

The build up ?
Vs
The get down to business ?


Please add your .02 cents.

NvH

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1. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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   When I'm going for the hour I like to pop twice. So I dive right in and get the first one. Then I relax and chat and maybe a little snuggling while I rest for the second. Last couple of times with my ATF I only popped once and spent the rest of the time chatting. I just enjoy her company along with the sex of course.

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2. "RE: No options anymore"
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When you're as old and useless as I am,
it can only be the build up.

LM469
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3. "RE: No options anymore"
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I've had lunch with you. You're not that old and as far as your carrier not useless either !

I agree with you on the build up. Taking ones time.

Now a big question would be how long should one take their time ?

Ladies how long is to long for a man to keep you waiting to build on making the moment just right ? Not just any man but one that you know and you might click with ?

I'm talking more days, weeks and months not minutes during the session. Building a good rapport and foundation with them to make it a better experience.

(I feel like I'm talking myself right into a hole here)

NvH

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4. "RE: No options anymore"
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Jeeze baby, gonna propose?

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5. "RE: No options anymore"
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How'd you know this was about you ?

I know I have been dragging it out (you know) (in through the out door).

NvH

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7. "RE: No options anymore"
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LAST EDITED ON 01-Sep-10 AT 07:33 PM (PST)
 
UR A DORK. StarFish sends love, feels empty without you! XXXOOO

PS. I wanna be the flower girl please

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15. "RE: No options anymore"
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Where's that dam vommit emoticon when you need it!

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6. "RE: No options anymore"
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I think it depends on how well and fast 2 people click sometimes it can be instant or it may take a few weeks to really get to know each other but i will say the more times you see someone the experience does get better because you are more open with each other and more relaxed Enjoy Life...

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17. "RE: No options anymore"
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LAST EDITED ON 02-Sep-10 AT 01:01 PM (PST)
 
Darling Legman469 you are FAR from useless!

xoxo
Ray
I can't help it, I LIKE sex!

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8. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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Personally, I think the anticipation can be great, and absolutely adds to the thrill of the initial meeting. However, its the subsequent meetings, like SH mentioned, that can really become awesome once the comfort level is established.

-Your Wonder Woman-

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9. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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You know what, Jewels, most of my sessions have been set up in advance. I almost never cold call a provider anymore and try to set up something on short notice. So there usually is anticipation and for me that is half the fun. Even if I have set up something with someone I know well and have seen many times. The anticipation and build-up can be so exciting. I get like a little kid the night before Christmas.


~Everything in moderation
including moderation

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10. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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I agree with Tom, Jewels and others who enjoy the anticipation of meeting!

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

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11. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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There have been times with both civilian women and providers that we meet, we gaze into each other’s eyes, we embrace, we kiss, caress, strip off each other’s cloths, and in bed making passionate love all within a matter of minutes.

There have been a few civilian women that the buildup occurred over years, around 25 years being the longest.

It starts out with meeting and recognizing that magical spark that can occur between a man and a woman. That kindred affinity, that no matter how skilled we are at decorum and not engage in blatant flirting, the truly observant see the special glow.

While we can’t hide the crush we have on each other we are bound to the rules of etiquette with appropriate behavior, for to do otherwise would be disastrous. So we suffer with unrequited love or more like unfulfilled lust.

Over the years we see each other less and less until it becomes rare. When we would meet, only one would be free.

One day the stars were in alignment and we came freely into each other’s arms. There has been no greater love than ours. The energy surrounding us was felt by all who came near.

Alas, a love that burned hotter than fire eventually turned to be colder than ice.

I’m now thinking of a particular provider. Afternoon and evening we sessioned, socialized, dined and shared genuinely warm feelings of two people who enjoy each other’s company. For whatever reason, we have not got back together.

When we meet at social events we flirt and steal away for a few quick kisses and hugs like high school kids.

Thank you for posting this NvH, I’ve been putting off scheduling with this hot, sexy, vibrant, wondrous woman way too long…………sending inbox now.


Too much sex is still not enough

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12. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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step back fable...im going to be the flower girl

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20. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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Panther. I know where you keep your nuts.
Left side pocket.

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13. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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LAST EDITED ON 02-Sep-10 AT 06:20 AM (PST)
 
The build up is the best part for me. Of course it is nice to see a familar provider where I am comfortable and can get down to business... but the most exciting part of the hobby is seeing someone new that you have wanted to see for awhile. I get butterfies as I am walking up to the door. The glow after you walk out of a good session feeling like you are 7 feet tall is nice, but the pre action anticipation is often the best part IMO. As TC said... I am like a little kid on Christmas morning when I have a special session scheduled.

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14. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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Well I think I know for you, it's the build up to spending the time with that special someone.

Once she's there, then you've gotta hope that she's not the type to just get straight down to business and leave you with wanting more, cause you've put more than just the business side into getting to know her...........

now the getting down to business, SUCKS! I want to enjoy my "HOUR" of her time! If that means bullshitting for 20 minutes, then she's gotta bullshit for 20 minutes, that's the guys job to find that woman that isn't all about getting right down to business the second she walks into the door, or vice versa.

Me, it's definitly the build up! Take meeting Sexy Ria Leone, I've known her for a couple of weeks, and finally over this weekend I got to enjoy her, in a public setting and another private but somewhat public setting, too! I must say, the buildup was great, but the fireworks were even better!

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16. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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Like a fine wine or cognac, your time with an extraordinary woman is best when savored....


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18. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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LOL - Considering my knees buckled and I nearly squirted when you pulled my hair in public NVH, I think you know my answer to that question! Hell I can't even wait until session time!

For me, the moment the door opens and he walks in, I want to fall into a passionate embrace and practically get to it before the door closes. Once the initial explosive passion has been sated, then the lovely comfy cuddly chat to me is much more familiar, fun, natural and sincere. The gentlemen who come in and want to chat with me before any physical interaction make me feel as though they aren't comfortable or as into me as I had hoped. Of course, I accommodate all my guests' preferences in this respect but I'm a firey, passionate, redhead and my anticipation and build up of sexual energy has peaked by the time there is a knock on the door and I need an immediate bit of release.

There is always time for MSOG and I truly enjoy getting to know someone before the first meeting via chat, text, email, phone or even meeting for coffee or lunch or a drink before we play so I completely get that allowing the physical attraction to build is a positive thing for the overall outcome of the session(s), however, at session time, come ready to play and play hard when you walk through that door as I'm likely to tackle you.

xoxo
Ray
I can't help it, I LIKE sex!

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19. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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Most of my clients just see me, which makes it more excitig for me, because I know, that build up is there. I have a clent that calls me when he's really built up, and I find it really exciting, I call him when I'm built up too occasionally, of course he still pays me, but our experiences are very exciting. I would say a week 1/2 would make a good build up.

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21. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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Just let it flow naturally dude. Communication is key. No rules, no plan. Spontaneous combustion or a slow smolder leading to an inferno. If you're with someone you click with it just all works out. No need to count pops, that's for kids, lol.

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22. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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No need to count pops, that's
>for kids, lol.

Yeah and nobody likes a show off anyhow ....

*whispers* "Thats 8!!", "no thats 9!!!!" hehehhe

-Your Wonder Woman-

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23. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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> No need to count pops, that's
>>for kids, lol.
>
>Yeah and nobody likes a show off anyhow ....
>
>*whispers* "Thats 8!!", "no thats 9!!!!" hehehhe

Damn, Jewels! I better start some serious training if I wanna play in the big leagues.

I have only managed 6 in a two hour period.


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including moderation

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24. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 02-Sep-10 AT 07:32 PM (PST)
 
The build up can be a lot of fun. It's foreplay and most of the ladies I've seen seem to enjoy it was well. That includes all the teasing communications right up to the act. It was like that with all the ladies I saw last weekend.

I can only think of one lady I've ever seen here where I just dove right in as soon as I entered the door. It was a half hour session so time was of the essence, but she liked to get right at it as well and she was non-MSOG. That was the reason I switched from hour sessions to half hour sessions with her and that was something she actually didn't like. ...the lost income. LOL!

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25. "RE: Taking Your Time or Diving Right In ?"
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..talk dorky to me baby.

Since you're talking about sessions, I would say take your time as much as you can. Only you know you, but if you know you are a quick cummer(? lol) take your time in everything you do.

I think in their personal lives and with SOME clients, many women love to just be touched for hours and foreplay is the key ingredient. LOTS of kissing, touching, hell foreplay can start in the morning by just holding hands through out the day.

But men, the harsh reality is that some of these providers are playing a part and want you out as soon as possible. So, taking your time I wuold say depends in the world of sessions.

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