The build up ?
Vs
The get down to business ?

Please add your .02 cents.

NvH

LM469
Attitude is everything

-Your Wonder Woman-

There have been a few civilian women that the buildup occurred over years, around 25 years being the longest.

It starts out with meeting and recognizing that magical spark that can occur between a man and a woman. That kindred affinity, that no matter how skilled we are at decorum and not engage in blatant flirting, the truly observant see the special glow.

While we can’t hide the crush we have on each other we are bound to the rules of etiquette with appropriate behavior, for to do otherwise would be disastrous. So we suffer with unrequited love or more like unfulfilled lust.

Over the years we see each other less and less until it becomes rare. When we would meet, only one would be free.

One day the stars were in alignment and we came freely into each other’s arms. There has been no greater love than ours. The energy surrounding us was felt by all who came near.

Alas, a love that burned hotter than fire eventually turned to be colder than ice.

I’m now thinking of a particular provider. Afternoon and evening we sessioned, socialized, dined and shared genuinely warm feelings of two people who enjoy each other’s company. For whatever reason, we have not got back together.

When we meet at social events we flirt and steal away for a few quick kisses and hugs like high school kids.

Thank you for posting this NvH, I’ve been putting off scheduling with this hot, sexy, vibrant, wondrous woman way too long…………sending inbox now.

Too much sex is still not enough

Once she's there, then you've gotta hope that she's not the type to just get straight down to business and leave you with wanting more, cause you've put more than just the business side into getting to know her...........

now the getting down to business, SUCKS! I want to enjoy my "HOUR" of her time! If that means bullshitting for 20 minutes, then she's gotta bullshit for 20 minutes, that's the guys job to find that woman that isn't all about getting right down to business the second she walks into the door, or vice versa.

Me, it's definitly the build up! Take meeting Sexy Ria Leone, I've known her for a couple of weeks, and finally over this weekend I got to enjoy her, in a public setting and another private but somewhat public setting, too! I must say, the buildup was great, but the fireworks were even better!

Suitcase
We have met the enemy and he is us

For me, the moment the door opens and he walks in, I want to fall into a passionate embrace and practically get to it before the door closes. Once the initial explosive passion has been sated, then the lovely comfy cuddly chat to me is much more familiar, fun, natural and sincere. The gentlemen who come in and want to chat with me before any physical interaction make me feel as though they aren't comfortable or as into me as I had hoped. Of course, I accommodate all my guests' preferences in this respect but I'm a firey, passionate, redhead and my anticipation and build up of sexual energy has peaked by the time there is a knock on the door and I need an immediate bit of release.

There is always time for MSOG and I truly enjoy getting to know someone before the first meeting via chat, text, email, phone or even meeting for coffee or lunch or a drink before we play so I completely get that allowing the physical attraction to build is a positive thing for the overall outcome of the session(s), however, at session time, come ready to play and play hard when you walk through that door as I'm likely to tackle you.

xoxo
Ray
I can't help it, I LIKE sex!

I can only think of one lady I've ever seen here where I just dove right in as soon as I entered the door. It was a half hour session so time was of the essence, but she liked to get right at it as well and she was non-MSOG. That was the reason I switched from hour sessions to half hour sessions with her and that was something she actually didn't like. ...the lost income. LOL!

Since you're talking about sessions, I would say take your time as much as you can. Only you know you, but if you know you are a quick cummer(? lol) take your time in everything you do.

I think in their personal lives and with SOME clients, many women love to just be touched for hours and foreplay is the key ingredient. LOTS of kissing, touching, hell foreplay can start in the morning by just holding hands through out the day.

But men, the harsh reality is that some of these providers are playing a part and want you out as soon as possible. So, taking your time I wuold say depends in the world of sessions.