Certainly there is the convenience, like having pizza delivered, which for many of hobbyist that may be all that is desired. But, there can be a lot more in creating that special ambiance that promotes romance. It is where you create a paradise where a woman enjoys being.

Create a Love Den

Five tips for turning your pad into a pleasure zone.

http://www.mensfitness.com/advice/sex_tips/305

The following hints in the article are for entertaining women in general and were not done with providers in mind. However, in my experience 99.9% of providers are women. If GFE is being sought, then being familiar with the art of seduction is most helpful. I’ve made comments to the suggestions considering our situation.

Women need to be "in the mood." The right environment is always a good start, so turn your place into a romantic enclave. (yes money puts them in your place and many are good at playing the role contracted for.)

"It's about more than turning off the lights, switching on the stereo, and making a move, "You have to incorporate all five of the senses."

Ace the Visual

Start by cleaning your place. (Personally my own view on this is one does not need to be a clean freak, just have your place tidy. However the bathroom and kitchen need to be spotless and of course there are clean fresh sheets on the bed.)

Then think glass. "This is not the time for disposable plates. Use real napkins, not paper towels, and set out a wine or champagne glass as well as a water glass." (If you are not doing an extended session with dinner, than you can still do this to offer a drink or light snacks, i.e., cheese, crackers, fruit)

Zap "Guy" Funk

"Buy flowers with fresh scents, like tube-roses, lilies, or gardenias, and place them all around, even in the bathroom," "Then pick up a few lightly scented candles, all with the same fragrance—think honeysuckle, jasmine, or red currant—plus some unscented ones for around your food." Have them lit when she arrives. (Maybe it’s just me, but this seems like overkill. Women for whatever reason do like cut flowers. One nice bouquet should be sufficient. Lit candle in the bathroom is a must. Mood candles is the bedroom is a nice touch. Caution, know if your visitor has allergies and back off on the number of candles going. Speaking of scents, if you can smell your own cologne you have way too much on.)

Set the Mood

Make an iPod playlist to run throughout the night, something that can fill the background. "The music should vary throughout the evening," "Start out soft yet upbeat, no dance or rap, and let it continue to mellow out as the night progresses." (Generally we are just talking an hour or two unless this is an overnight. So can do playlist on computer and run it through your sound system or burn a CD. Music can be a good session timer. Start out with the mellow and move to music to fuck by will give you a guide when you should be getting to the main event.)

Bring Out a Few Soft Touches

"Get some fabulous sheets with a good thread count, or a really soft throw for the couch. Or try a super soft lambskin throw rug—it'll be unexpected and the ultimate in tactile pleasure—and they're a lot less expensive than you might think." (There are activities and positions where more than just the bed is used so making the floor comfortable can be nice.)

Master the Menu

"If you don't cook, buy already prepared food at your local market, not convenience store," "Pair it with champagne, wine, or her favorite cocktail." (If dinner is not on the “menu” Fruit and veggie snack trays from the deli)

Too much sex is still not enough

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0I6mhZ5wMw

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Needless to say it worked out for a great time. Expecially when you consider the alternative is a Super 8 motel....definately makes the $ spent worth it more when enjoyed in the solitary comforts of your home.

And yes, any married man who would chance it with an outcall at the house is taking mucho chanco...

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