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gracefulazn
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"What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
 
   LAST EDITED ON 04-Aug-10 AT 08:41 PM (PST) by (moderator)
 
Mod Edit, phone number edited and picture deleted so post is in compliance with site privacy rules.

Hello everyone. I dont usually post but I thought I'd share my recent experience with a "friend" that I've know now for a solid couple years.

Very recently, this "friend" (who I know uses this site but doesnt have a handle or atleast so he told me) text messaged me for an appointment. Now while I do not respond to text messages from people I dont know, I do accept text messages from gentlemen that I have seen atleast half a dozen times so I didn't see anything out of the ordinary when he contacted me in this fashion. Everything went as usual. Set up time and place. Then when it came to the appointment time, I heard the knock at the door, checked the peek hole as usual, saw who I was expecting but when I opened the door this woman with red hair comes in and gives me pictures of her kids and starts going off! She's screaming about phone records and that it's my fault that her marriage is messed up and alot of other things you would expect from an angry wife. This guy is standing in her shadow like the coward that he is nodding to everything shes saying and not even taking responsibility for his own decisions. Luckily she left after her rant with no further ado as of yet.

I think that this guy is a real ass for actually having his wife come to my room when he got caught. I treat everyone that I see very good and would have expected more from someone that I have known for so long. But as time keeps proving to us all, you can never be too careful. Sometimes people that you think you know will jepordize everything when they get put in the spotlight.

I dont plan on changing the way I treat everyone else because of this guy. But I hope that no one will do what he did in the event of getting caught.

HIS NUMBER IS 209 275 53XX AND HIS PICTURE IS BELOW (i cut out the five kids piled on his back). You'll probably run into him because he is local so just beware. He's a rat.

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PostNasalDrip
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1. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   Hope it stays up long enough for some to copy and save the info.

Anyway. Couple thoughts. If she were taking care of business in the first place he would never have met you. Second, what is it in women who think that its the other womans fault, she had here vows and promises with him. Not with you.

It's like women have an innate instinct that their man is like some animal that they own. And if it strays into some other womans yard she is supposed to already know that it belongs to another woman because it has a collar and tags on. Like it's the other womans fault for stealing her pet that she marked and tagged.

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2. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   LAST EDITED ON 03-Aug-10 AT 12:30 PM (PST)
 
Ps. All the male rats that I've ever seen have really really big balls. He obviously has none so he can't be a rat. Something else.

Alimony and child support on 5 kids is a lot of freaking money each month for years. He's hoping to pay some punishment penance so that he can live out the rest if his miserable pathetic life with a woman who will hate him for the rest if her life.

His Agony is going to last decades. Your pain was but fleeting moments in comparison. Embarrasing as it might have been at the time. Revel in that schadenfreude.

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gracefulazn
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9. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   I'm just glad it didnt go any further than it did.

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looney4pooney looney4pooney rating
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3. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   True, but I think Grace's point was that he acted like a little bitch. All he had to do was say, "This is all my fault... that other woman doesn't know about my personal life (which may or may not be true, but oh well). She's not the guilty one here, I am." Instead, he had to take everyone else down with him when the going got tough, rather than accept responsibility... that's the very definition of "rat," as I understand it.

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15. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   Its amazing what some will do for damage control when caught. I wonder how many of us have a plan for that faithful day? I would hope most men will take it like a man and not bitch out and let his S.O monkey stomp a provider. Its not the providers fault. In reality i think its one of the many pitfalls or risk a providewr takes. I guess a clients loyalty will always be to who he is going to write the alimony check to. This guy really is pussy whipped. Not cool man! not cool!

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lovelyskye
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17. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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>Anyway. Couple thoughts. If she were taking care of business
>in the first place he would never have met you. Second,
>what is it in women who think that its the other womans
>fault, she had here vows and promises with him. Not with
>you.

First thought had me thinking you were heartless. Your second thought Is so true. I don't think she should have contacted this provider at all. Its not like they were friends or even associates. I say she should divorce and make herself an add!

Oh so lovely!

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4. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   Isn't that Brett Favre? Thats why he is not at the Vikings training camp...too busy getting a HJ?

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Notyoavgjoe Notyoavgjoe rating
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5. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   The way I understand it, this idiot agreed to have his wife make the appointment then showed up with her while she did her piss and rant routine. At any time, he could have admitted he was checking other women's oil at the expense of his marriage and not allowed his wife to piss and roar at this provider's expense.
The guy was lame and his piss ass wife was lame in her attempts to salvage her dignity. She did nothing of the sort. It is NEVER the provider's fault that married men choose to spend money on them.
I am not married nor do I have to answer to any woman whose oil I am checking. I think men who are already getting sex from a woman in their life simply like the variety and don't mind paying for it. When they are in a marriage and they spend ANY amount, they are basically stealing from the communal pot for their own gratification. Would it be OK if their wife took $1,000 a month from the same pot to get herself serviced? Well, then, why be married at all? The answer is selfishness. These people want a date for the weddings, trips to the coast, etc. yet they feel privileged to spend on good looking providers outside of their relationships (which they would not otherwise enjoy).
This guy should have simply manned up and been honest and admitted this to his wife and PREVENTED her from ruining a providers day.
What does he deserve? He deserves clients and providers alike to text him a message letting him know what an idiot and ball less individual he is. His wife should lock up his wallet and insist he spend ALL his free time at home watching sports!!!!!
Joe

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PostNasalDrip
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6. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   LAST EDITED ON 03-Aug-10 AT 01:48 PM (PST)
 
I think that he is going to live out the rest of his marriage without watching a single sports game.

She is going to have his free time with his ass planted in front of the tv flipping between the Oprah Channel the Food Channel and Lifetime channel for her manually. While she fattens her already fat ass sitting on the couch shooting orders at him.

Go get me some Coke.
Go get me some Ben and Jerrys.
Go get me a Starbucks.
Go get me some Chinese food.
Go get me some KFC.
Go get me some tampons.

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gracefulazn
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70 posts		 03-Aug-10, 04:04 PM (PST)
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10. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   He is definitely a jerk for what he did and the way his wife came off I am pretty sure she is going to make certain that he is as miserable as she is. I actually tried giving her the pictures of her kids and husband back as they were leaving and she told me to keep them...not very smart because now I now what her kids look like, she is lucky I am not like her involving people who dont deserve it.

I know for a fact as well that he sees other providers so I included the number and picture in case any of the girls recognize him so they know it's all bad to see him.

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Cunnylingerer Cunnylingerer rating
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19. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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A hobbyist is paying for a provider to be discrete. For the system to work and everyone to be safe, he is obligated to provide the same discretion in return.

I'm sorry for the difficult spot he put you in sweetie.

CL (Grog not talking.)

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Letsplaybutucantstay
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7. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   Point taken, He is an idiot! He put a provider at risk with LE if the wife chose to contact them. But to allow a contact number and picture to be posted it could have been done by inboxing other providers, and someone that rapes or gets physical with a provider, that same provider wouldnt be allowed to post this same kind of informantion that would help keep other provides from getting hurt.Sorry I dont agree with that.just my two cents. Gracefulazn you have ever right to be pissed with this coward! So please dont take this wrong.

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8. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   thats honestly horrible...there is nothin i hate more than snitches...people who get caught then decided to give information just to make other people suffer/their time easier...this is ridiculous for two reason...1 he paid you, not even like it was for free u were providing a service...2 if he paid you your probably not the only one... ive noticed most of these snitches and people who lack a sense of responsibility are uneducated...because at that point your wife already knows what happened what good would it be to actually show her what you doing rather than just let whatever else she want to do play out because its gonna be a head ache anyways and at that point he might as well not bring in the provider so he can still utilize your services at a later time...for the record im not married and have never been married...i just really hate people who unnecessily do stuff just to seem like "a better person" or so its less of a problem...

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gracefulazn
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70 posts		 03-Aug-10, 04:14 PM (PST)
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12. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   I 100% agree with you bobsapp.

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14. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   This sucks butt big time and I'm sorry that it happened to you.

While I cannot condone or justify their behavior, I can understand it from a psychological standpoint. Look at it this way:


A woman who is married to a guy and has kids with has a LOT invested in keeping the family intact. They both do. So, when she finds out that her husband has been screwing someone else behind her back- she's gonna be obviously pissed and the thought of divorce will, at the very least, cross her mind. And trying to process all of this is some scary shit for most people.
Just because she's mad as hell at her husband doesn't mean that she has stopped loving him. So, in order for her to not feel so hurt and betrayed- even though there's no logic behind it-
it's easier for her to get enraged at YOU and to put the blame on YOU than it is to put it on her husband, where it rightfully belongs.
I'm not saying that this is right by any means- but it happens because it's how some people cope with having the rug pulled out from under them.

So, I can almost hear her demanding that her husband tell her everything about 'this home-wrecking whore' that lured him into her bed. Surely she went ballistic on him and in order for him to try to work his way out of the dog house with her, he chose to be a total whimp and let you take the fall and be the brunt of the anger that belonged to him by making you the villian and the two of them some kind of 'united front' so subconsciously, his wife would be able to reclaim some of her power and security in their marriage.

Who knows why this guy decided to call providers in the first place? More often than not, as we all know, if the wife was more of a willing participant in the sexual part of their marriage, odds are that none of this would've happened in the first place-
and if this is the case here, hopefully this couple will both start taking responsibility for their personal actions instead of using an outsider as a scapegoat.

I hope that these people will no longer cause you grief Grace. Hang in there.

xoxo
MB

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gracefulazn
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11. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   LAST EDITED ON 03-Aug-10 AT 04:17 PM (PST)
 
(letsplaybutyoucantstay)

I understand what you mean and believe me I am not taking it the wrong way. But I hope you understand that although I was angry that that happened, it's not because I was angry that I posted the picture and his number. I did it so that the other providers will have had a fair warning that this guy is no good.

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23. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   Grace being confronted as you were, Or should I say set up! I hope his wife leaves you alone now, and focuses on her loser, poor excuse of a man, husband! I would make sure you change your incall location as often as you can dear. Just in case he see's this thread and tries too cause you more trouble. Be safe.

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13. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   The picture and the number were edited out so girls if you want the details please inbox/email me.

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16. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   Love ya Grace, always enjoy my visits with you, and while you were definitely wronged I don't thinking outing the twerp here was the right way to go; sharing it by inbox or in a private girls only forum would make sense.

Fortunately for me I've never hobbied while married. I can't even imagine trying to hide that one but I know many many guys here do. He was way off base for setting you up for a visit by the wife...wow...can't believe he did that.

Hang in there...can't wait to see you again

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18. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   He should've just been a stand up guy and admit his mistakes without bringing you or anyone else into this matter. He's responsible for himself and what he did.I'm surprised that this kind of thing doesn't show up more often on the boards honestly.Most of the guys on here have SO.What a pussy.lol.

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20. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   wow, didn't expect this when I clinked on the thread. that is a bizarre story. the usual deal is that the dude pays and then you go away. that is beauty of the relationship that we form. don't know if that was at your apartment, but that could have revealed to your neighbors what kind of work you do. that dude is pussywhipped in the worst way.

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21. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   On a lighter note gracefulazn , after reading this thread I checked your profile and have to say, your Hot, and love your reviews too.

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22. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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   What happened to the picture?

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24. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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LAST EDITED ON 04-Aug-10 AT 08:43 PM (PST)
 
I took the pic down, you can only post pics here of yourself (unless it's a silly pic or a celebrity pic...I hope you all get the idea). But I do agree with the general comments on the board on this one. This guy is a spineless piece of shit. His wife is also an stupid bitch for blaming you for her problems and not the spineless piece of shit she married. It's unfortunate Mr. Spineless Piece of Shit does not have an RB handle since I would have no problem inboxing this opinion to him as well as a link to this thread. Sorry Grace for coming at you hard in my mod edit comment, I understand where you are coming from and why you posted what you did, but the rules are there for a reason and if we mods start making judgement calls as to when it is ok to let people break them that will just lead to more drama and headaches. Still thank you Grace for posting, and I hope all goes well for you in the future.


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25. "RE: What Is the code of conduct when good clients go bad????"
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LAST EDITED ON 04-Aug-10 AT 10:17 PM (PST)
 
That guy is a biatch!!! Definately needs to grow a pair.

One of the craziest stories I've heard on here. I'm glad you weren't hurt. Be safe, because as they say...Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

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