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Notyoavgjoe

Member since 17-May-10
276 posts, 3 feedbacks, 6 points |
21-Aug-10, 11:27 AM (PST) |
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6. "RE: Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
In response to message #4
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I have made some good connections that went beyond the paid for session and had a great time with providers who would also join me for dinner without charging me for it. In the end, money was the all to end all and they felt like they needed to be compensated for the meal time. In my estimation, if I was going to be charged $$, I would prefer to spend it on bed fun. A couple of times alcohol was involved and we had the time of our lives. The provider could not have faked it, it was too natural. The end result was that their comfort zone was invaded and it changed how we interacted. I moved on and found other girls who provided the same exact service without the extras and stopped calling on the girls who originally, to be honest, I had been thoroughly hooked on. I was actually encouraged by one girl to see other girls. She should not have said it. I started to see other girls and found that the newer the contact, the more girls would put into it, which translated into a much better session for me. I think when you have seen a provider repeatedly, expectations on both sides start to evolve, whether you admit it or not. I went from having 1 hr. sessions which I searched out GFE to having half hour sessions, sometimes absent the GFE and yet these sessions were still extremely rewarding as I did not have the expectation of 1 hour of cuddling, switching positions, all the oral we wanted, etc. I find that with the half hour sessions, I can see more girls more often and there are enough girls out there who do $100 for the half which is rewarding. I won't even call a girl who posts $150 a half. I often do $120. In fact, I recently saw Lady Monroe, no GFE who was so beautiful, it was a turn on within itself. She has left Fresno. I have no idea where she is and I can't wait till she comes back. So, yes, the connections can be made but unfortunately, when the comfort zone sets in, it ruins the mood. I entirely believe you then leave yourself open to be taken advantage of. You start to consider the provider a friend and they set you up. This happened with Missy559. She had fallen behind on sessions with me and caught up so I believed her when she said she would take care of me. $240 later and she failed to live up to her end. Now, I don't care if I never see her again. Actually, I hope I never see her again. All I have to do is think about how much fun I could have had with that $240 with Monica, Bambie or Lady Monroe and the bad taste returns to my mouth. Needless to say, I am more careful now. I had a woman over last night who took care of me. At my count, she is one session away from being flush with me. She no longer posts but she will come over, do laundry at my house and take care of me on the cheap. I have made it clear to her that if she ever fails me, I will never call her again. LOL, she still gets me here and there for a yogurt, a frappuchino, but that is small change. It is more annoying when I have to drive her someplace. Still I don't mind as long as she takes care of me. Joe |
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