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82alatinas
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20-Aug-10, 10:23 PM (PST)
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"Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
 
I have seen probably 20 or so providers from RB. Most of them have been good sessions, a few have sucked, and there are a couple that have been a strong connection...at least from my perspective.

Can a provider and a hobbyist have a relationship? Am I a sucker? Is it all an act and it's all acting to get $ and good reviews by the providers? Do hobbyist act extra nice and write better than deserved reviews to get better sessions the next time..?

, "love the dark meat"

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Ledsled74 Ledsled74 rating
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20-Aug-10, 11:47 PM (PST)
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1. "RE: Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
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   20 providers and this is your first post? Ok. I'll play along. Yes you're a sucker. These girls are only here for the money. They will act and tell you what they think you want to hear just to get that money. Have hobbiest hooked up with providers away from RB? Of course. It's happened to me also. But I knew all she wanted was money and for me to take care of her. I knew what I was getting into. But hey, it was free inhouse pussy and someone real cool to hang out and go places with. She was hot and we looked good together. But never did I think it was going to have some fairytale ending. It might have happened to a provider or 2 (the fairytale ending) but those are rare circumstances. Now as far as hobbiest getting extras or discounts for siad reviews, absuloutly. It happens more than people want to admit. It's part of the game. Hell, I've even been offered extras for a good review. I think it's more some hobbiest than providers that offer the great review in exchange for something extra or for lower priced services. Some of the guys around here are sharks for fresh meat.

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claude29 claude29 rating
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21-Aug-10, 01:07 AM (PST)
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2. "RE: Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
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They love you as much as your last car dealer loves you.

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Mrgetsome24 Mrgetsome24 rating
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21-Aug-10, 02:14 PM (PST)
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8. "RE: Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
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   Ledsled hit it right on.So take it in and absorb it.

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82alatinas
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21-Aug-10, 05:51 PM (PST)
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11. "RE: Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
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yeah, no shit--my first post. Actually had a provider show me the way around RB the other night. I'm technically retarded. Sounds liek the general thinking is that the girls want the money and the guys the pussy. Damn there are some good actors out there.

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ramfan11111 ramfan11111 rating
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21-Aug-10, 06:25 AM (PST)
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3. "RE: Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
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   I've seen this question asked many times. My personal opinion is this. We are all looking for happiness. Sexual happiness for sure. But happiness in general. These ladies here have sex for a payday. But many wish they had normal lives with a good guy. Many of them have been married before. And I think many of us would stop this hobby if we had a good girl at home. The few successful relationships I have heard about requires getting your girl and leaving this BS. The odds are aginst you though, but hell, in the real world the odds are against any relationship lasting. See, its clear as mud!

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21-Aug-10, 09:42 AM (PST)
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4. "RE: Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
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RB is about sex....Sex is not love....It's just sex! (EROS, LUST ..animal instinct driven behavior..)

It is great when the two come together..and that's what you call a relationship. The connection..

Then again, we all know that you never know where real love will find you.

But our ladies are here on RB for the business..The payday. Yes, some are pure nympo's too, and get to mix business with their pleasure... There is no love in their lust..they are just hooked on the Big "O"

If you find chemistry with a provider it may not be the best thing.

Like ramfan said "the odds are stacked against you.."

It goes against our basic possessive makeup as human beings and it's always going to eat at you. We just don't like sharing our SO's.


justmeinvisalia
aka DOM
DirtyOMan

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21-Aug-10, 11:27 AM (PST)
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6. "RE: Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
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   I have made some good connections that went beyond the paid for session and had a great time with providers who would also join me for dinner without charging me for it. In the end, money was the all to end all and they felt like they needed to be compensated for the meal time. In my estimation, if I was going to be charged $$, I would prefer to spend it on bed fun. A couple of times alcohol was involved and we had the time of our lives. The provider could not have faked it, it was too natural. The end result was that their comfort zone was invaded and it changed how we interacted. I moved on and found other girls who provided the same exact service without the extras and stopped calling on the girls who originally, to be honest, I had been thoroughly hooked on. I was actually encouraged by one girl to see other girls. She should not have said it. I started to see other girls and found that the newer the contact, the more girls would put into it, which translated into a much better session for me. I think when you have seen a provider repeatedly, expectations on both sides start to evolve, whether you admit it or not. I went from having 1 hr. sessions which I searched out GFE to having half hour sessions, sometimes absent the GFE and yet these sessions were still extremely rewarding as I did not have the expectation of 1 hour of cuddling, switching positions, all the oral we wanted, etc. I find that with the half hour sessions, I can see more girls more often and there are enough girls out there who do $100 for the half which is rewarding. I won't even call a girl who posts $150 a half. I often do $120. In fact, I recently saw Lady Monroe, no GFE who was so beautiful, it was a turn on within itself. She has left Fresno. I have no idea where she is and I can't wait till she comes back.
So, yes, the connections can be made but unfortunately, when the comfort zone sets in, it ruins the mood. I entirely believe you then leave yourself open to be taken advantage of. You start to consider the provider a friend and they set you up. This happened with Missy559. She had fallen behind on sessions with me and caught up so I believed her when she said she would take care of me. $240 later and she failed to live up to her end. Now, I don't care if I never see her again. Actually, I hope I never see her again. All I have to do is think about how much fun I could have had with that $240 with Monica, Bambie or Lady Monroe and the bad taste returns to my mouth. Needless to say, I am more careful now. I had a woman over last night who took care of me. At my count, she is one session away from being flush with me. She no longer posts but she will come over, do laundry at my house and take care of me on the cheap. I have made it clear to her that if she ever fails me, I will never call her again. LOL, she still gets me here and there for a yogurt, a frappuchino, but that is small change. It is more annoying when I have to drive her someplace. Still I don't mind as long as she takes care of me.
Joe

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21-Aug-10, 11:19 AM (PST)
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5. "RE: Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 21-Aug-10 AT 11:20 AM (PST)
 
unfortunately regardless of how you think about it probably less than 1/100 of the providers you see will let you session for free...and thats how it should be...for instance i do taxes...even if your sexy as fuck and u let me smash i still got to charge you something or else i wouldnt be in business...people think of this as a place for love and that is no at all the case...unless your looking for temporary love...these girls are here to get paid...this is their job...providers will tell you what they think will make you feel better because that is their jobs is to be comforting in anyway they can...

and also a SO is easy to find but someone you will be happy with for the rest of your life will probably never be found...people settle for so little up front in relationships then expect it to change...in other words looks else ware for a relationship...i have found a girl that lets me session for next to nothing but i realize its not going to go anywhere and at any time the phone calls will stop...but thats life...

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asiantyphoon
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21-Aug-10, 01:06 PM (PST)
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7. "RE: Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
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   these women don't like you! they just want your money!! don't let their acting fool you.

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21-Aug-10, 03:17 PM (PST)
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9. "RE: Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
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awwwwwww your first post 8alatina! Welcome to the boards!

Your question is a good one... but remember that the responses your going to get are a very VERY small percentage of all of the people who use RB....

Just like you before this post.... many many people do not use the message boards...

I don't think it's ALL about the money and the pussy, at least not for me...

Blowjobs... self masturbation... traveling... y tambien amor are a few more part's of my "job" here on RB... I've never made a deal to get a review... but I'm sure it happens... and as far as relationships go... I fell completely in love with a hobbyist from RB in 2007 and we were very happy for 2 wonderful years...

You never know when Love will hit you... But I do know that RB can be a very fun place... now that you've found your way to the boards ...you can utilize them to get to know even more chicas... you can read up on their post's and see what kind of girls they are before hooking up...

Good Luck sexy! and I hope you continue to enjoy the adventure

Besos
Babycat


Remember... Your supposed to be having fun

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194670
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21-Aug-10, 04:01 PM (PST)
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10. "RE: Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
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"They love you as much as your last car dealer loves you"

That hits it right on the head!!!!!


Look you can find love any where any time. The hearts wants what the heart wants and there is nothing you or any one could ever do about when it happens.

As far as a provider and hobbyist falling for each other???? It could happen but not very likley to


If you and or any one else is looking for love on RedBook I think you need to seek help!!!


Just my 2 cents

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82alatinas
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21-Aug-10, 05:56 PM (PST)
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12. "RE: Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
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Not sure if I prefer the girl that throws you out the door as soon as you nut, like Sexxy Miss Vivica, or the girl that makes you think she really is into you like VeronicaNeed, or BabyCat.

I think I'll keep the dream alive and stick with the girls that at leats act like they like me. I get the message though! They really like my $$$$

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Mrgetsome24 Mrgetsome24 rating
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21-Aug-10, 11:17 PM (PST)
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13. "RE: Is it all about the $ and the pussy?"
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   That's right man.It's just a business.

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