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SexxyBubbles4U SexxyBubbles4U rating
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"Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no more!"
 
Please....all you who claim to be newbie's. I do apologize but I will not see you without 1 very credible reference whom I know to be legit or two well reviewed escorts(and I mean very well reviewed with at least one name in the list that I recognize as a legit hobbyist). Unless you are willing to give me all your personal information such as address, full real name, drivers license, and the names of your family members as well as your employment information so that I can verify without a doubt that you are safe and sure to not cause me or mine harm......

Please do not waist both of our energy's and time in contacting me. I do not TOFTT! I don't want to hear why your excuse is better than the last guys. I know we all had to start somewhere, but believe me, I have already took that road many times and TOFTT my way for a long time. I have paid my dues in full to no longer be considered a newbie. So please don't ask me to again.

Thank you so much for understanding.

Lynn

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1. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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   its totally your option whether to require references or not...and although requiring references would lower your call rate it seems to be a very safe way of double checking who you are going to be seeing...references are just a headache because idk if your supposed to ask during the session or after the session for them to be your reference...and also how can you assure the person you are giving the information to is going to use it in a respectable manner...but either way i wish you luck in your new anti-toftt vision...and no i wasnt the person who called you without a reference =^)

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4. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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I wish I could record all the things that guys call and say... It's not just I would like to book an appointment. Its I wanna F@#K you, or Do you do anal, I got 50 bucks...wanna Fu@K? We all understand we all have to start somewhere but I honestly don't wanna TOFTT.

I don't save phone numbers or save hobbyist info at all, I just want a yes or no did you see him. If she answers the phone its +1 she is still alive. You could always send a short inbox/email asking the previous lady if she would clear a reference for you. I know the system is not fool proof but guys will Google the number, ask your hobbyist buddies, Tinyeye the pictures and post ANY INFO ON before you see a lady. Guys are leery of TOFTT too.

There has to be a happy medium.....

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Letsplaybutucantstay Letsplaybutucantstay rating
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7. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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   Guys that make those kind of statement to a provider arent worth seeing, I would think! So I would, bet they dont have reference's.

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9. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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   When all the CL girls came over here, they brought all the CL guys along with them.

You should hang up on those calls immediately.

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Letsplaybutucantstay Letsplaybutucantstay rating
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2. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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   Well said Lynn, But I feel like a newbie most the time now a days. Lots of providers have retired that were 5 star standards, Others that would visit on a regular base's stopped visiting us in fresno. And the ones that are well reviewed providers that I have used for a reference dont get back to the provider needing my information. So I'm left with Calling the nonreviewed new provider and sessioning with them, sometimes good, most the time not so good! So sexy bubbles you need to visit us soon, so I can see you again.

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SexxyBubbles4U SexxyBubbles4U rating
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3. "Now..."
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moving on to a much more pleasant thing to talk about...is this a huge ass or what. Damn...now that's a big pair of Bubbles. hahaha


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Lynn

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Letsplaybutucantstay Letsplaybutucantstay rating
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5. "RE: Now..."
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   LAST EDITED ON 23-Aug-10 AT 03:15 PM (PST)
 
Yup that's the view I remember! A Butt that's made for more then just talking about it! Back that great Ass up!

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SexxyBubbles4U SexxyBubbles4U rating
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6. "RE: Now..."
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I do understand that you guys are just as frustrated as us. I really do. And believe me, I know how frustrating it is when another girl won't return a simple little favor of helping keep the community safe by giving out references in a timely manner or just not giving them at all. I assure you I am not one of those girls. I always give out references as soon as I get them. Most of the time it's right away depending on how the girl contacted me. I am not always at my computer....or at least I try not to be. But I do assure you that I do the best I can to give out references in the best possible timely manner that I can. And I also assure you that I am a 5 star who earned that status based on performance and personality. I am worth jumping through the little hoops it takes to see me. Because while I am making sure that me and mine are safe 100%, it is in fact making a full circle so that you are also assured you are safe. There will be no one waiting around the corner for you to leave me when we are done. And most certainly no one barging in on our privacy while we are relaxed and comfortable enjoying each others company in a most wonderful comfortable atmosphere that you can do nothing but feel like kicking your shoes off and feeling at home and at ease.

Lynn

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8. "RE: Now..."
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I hear you Bob and you too Lynn, but it's frustrating as Bob stated, when you've been here a time and seen many come and go, been out of action for awhile due to stupid choices/circumstances and don't want to stir the pot (kettle) with those I may choose not to see/contact, memories, and yet it may still surface. We all must be careful.

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Allie_Sin
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10. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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yes it is hard to see new folks in this time

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11. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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   Allie Sin!! U have the same RB handle as one of my favoritest porn stars!! I like u already!!

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12. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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I'm with you on that one babe.
My favorite line is that they did'nt see that I require a reference...
It's only in my add in three places, or better yet what is a reference!

Heather
Your Pleasure is my pleasure!

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13. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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definately a good idea to get a reference: the F_____ up guys that treat the girls like crap are making the providers more cautious and the hobbyist life more difficult.

Any guy that is willing to give his home address, work number and place, and drivers licens number is out of his mind! Has anyone ever given all of that info?

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SexxyBubbles4U SexxyBubbles4U rating
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14. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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Hahaha...no luv, I don't even ask for all of that. I was being facetious when making that comment.

Lynn

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17. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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good. things are getting crazy out there with stings, etc., so I thought maybe.... Inbox me when you are in Bako, and lets talk it over;)

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15. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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   I don't blame you for seeking references, but what I don't understand is why a username here, some pertinent information about girls that have given us a "thumbs up" here, and something to reference that its really us (the username calling - like an inbox verifying the username \ phone call) isn't enough? Then I would not have to "put" the other nice ladies through an annoying reference check call, and have them wonder why I'm not coming back to them?

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16. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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I would be willing to accept that but alot of guys say they don't give out their handle... they were told by other guys NEVER to give a provider their handle for whatever reason. Not sure if it is to avoid the lady looking at his reviews/forum posts/his ratings. Then some hobbyist review under a different handle than the forum handle. It seems to be alot of cloak and dagger for a lady you wanna show your penis to but ok.

I can understand If a lady asks that you just send a quick inbox to verify that he is the guy on the phone, of course anyone could call an say they are Cheapy so its good to check.

I guess for the guys that don't mind giving out their handle it would work out fine.


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SexxyBubbles4U SexxyBubbles4U rating
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18. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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Ok...I could totally create a handle...and have my voice (or any females) answer the phone I wanted to. Ummmmm...that doesn't fly with me. I'm sorry but I need solid 100% proof you are who you say you are. There are only 2 ways I can think of that you can provide that information for me and only one that I can verify things like what type of personality am I too expect. I mean, I don't just check to see if you are affiliated with law enforcement...I also check on your character and hygiene. I don't want to see someone that could possibly be a rob or a person who would possible hurt me. I think that referencing is something that is custom tailored by each individual to suit their personal comfort levels.

I mean, just because...

Jammie[false name] is comfortable with only screening out calls to hotels because a)she's pretty confident LE won't come to her b)she has a pimp around the corner waiting if the guy causes any problems and c)she really has nothing to lose or no one to disappoint.

doesn't mean that...

Tammy [false name] who a) invites her guests to her home during certain hours when family, friends, children or hubby is away, b)has a career as an attorney, c)has no manger or pimp to provide bouncer services and d)everything to lose and several to disappoint.

should do the same as Jammie.

Come on, we all have our ways of making sure we are feeling comfortable with our first encounters. I don't know about the rest of you, but I am sooooo nervous the first time I meet a gentleman who has taken an interest in seeing me and passes my screening (barely) and is on his way to see me. My stomach is turning up side down, I'm wondering if I've been set up...does his breath smell and his body odor offend...is he nice or rude...will he short me or rob time from me...

I mean seriously, by the time he arrives, I'm so nervous that my heart is racing and I'm seriously convinced I'm in trouble. It goes away fast enough and we are fine, but my point is...when I receive references and information that I am asking for and the references are given and turn out wonderful...I focus more on making sure the mood is set right, I answer the door in lingerie and relaxed. I only wonder if my outfit I chose for him will make him stand at attention when I answer the door and lay one hot DFK on him. We have a much better time getting acquainted right away because I'm am comfortable enough to know everything is alright and not left wondering if I say the wrong thing or wear something to revealing when I answer the door, will I be put in the pretty shiny metal slave bracelets and told I can't call my family for a while.

So what's the big deal? I don't need to know your real name, soc #, ID, family history, medical history, credit history (although I wish I did with a few of the gents who think I'm some sort of $1 bargain store), I don't need to know your best friends name (unless he or she is joining us) and I really don't care if you give me a handle as long as you give me some valid references.

My application is meant to fill out to the best of your ability and or comfort level. As long as I have some sort of way to verify your character and affiliation with any type of law enforcement, I'm good.
We have a relaxed (well until I get to working my charms anyway...lol) comfortable fun time in each others company.

Why would anyone want less than that for the price they are paying?

Kisses and Licks!

Sexxylicious



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19. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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Sad to know that there that many knckle heads out there, and it is also sad to know that there are planty girls out there willing to serve those knockle head and innocent victims.

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21. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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I haven't had the pleasure of spending time with you. But although I had to start my hobby by seeing providers that are more lax with reference requirements (and for that I am grateful for), I do agree that reference chks benefits me as a hobbyist in terms of safety, comfort and overall satisfaction. There are no absolute guarantees but it's the best you can do given the adventures we choose to take. I will keep an eye for your ad when you are around the Modesto area and I will happily cooperate in your reference process. And with all due respect, you do have a fine looking ass!

Sam Brown

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20. "RE: Ok...that's it! It's all I can stand and I can't stand no mor"
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I very much agree with this post!! It is very frustrating when you have references required in your headlines, and multiple places in the ads and then they call acting like they never saw that. For the people that contact me that dont have references I have been referring them to preferred411 the website.... newbies can give all that personal information to one company where they do all the checks and clearances. I understand that if you dont have review history anywhere it can be a little intrusive feeling but at the same time every man i know that has used the site has been very grateful for the referral.

This site is wonderful. It makes seeing a provider very easy and from our standpoint I feel nothing but comfortable meeting up with someone that has gone through their clearing process. Then all your personal info is safe but we know we are as well.


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