I softly pad to the door in beautiful lingerie (chosen just for our time together) and silk robe.

Standing behind the door...I open it inward...invite you in, greet you, embrace you and kiss you warmly...

"HI! So glad to finally meet you (see you again)!"

You sit down on my chocolate leather couch...I move the pillows aside - that coordinate with the art in the living room...

You sink into the couch...SO SOFT...mmmmmm...I put my hand softly on your knee...I'm smiling...You are smiling...

We chat some more...then I softly ask you -

"Please take off your shoes"...

Then softly grasp your hand -

"Come with me, Honey..."

And lead you through my home...

On the way to my massage studio -

We talk about the beautiful fish in the tank... in the corner of my living room...

we walk through my kitchen and dining room, you admire the dark, marble countertops and antique spoon rack on the wall next to the black-oak, corner table and chairs....

We chit-chat a little more...

We talk about my Grandmother, Great-Grandmother, Mother, trips to Germany, Hawaii, England, Mexico and all over...You talk about your family and travels as well...

Whatever you wish...after all...this is YOUR TRIP...

I take you down ("Please - watch your step." ) -

into my massage studio.

I offer you snacks, water, Gatorade, juices...hug you again softly - and ask you,

"Do you want to shower with me - or are you freshly showered and want to start on the table on your tummy?

You can hang your clothes on the hooks on the back of the bathroom door (* pointing *).'

No matter what - they almost ALWAYS choose the SHOWER;
I LOVE IT (when it happens)!

Then...SAY -

He chooses a mutual soapy shower experience:

YAY!!

The DFK...mmmmmmm....yummmmm....as I'm washing him all over and My Gentleman is washing me Aaaaaaall over - SO HOT!

MMMMmmm...slurp/yum/kissy-kiss-faces...mmmm...yummy...

"I'm gonna dry off and wait for you out here, Baby"....

"Here's the shower head...rinse off all your yummy places...take your time...and join me when you're done, Sugar.

"Im waitiiiing..." !!!!

I get out of the shower, dry off and wait RIGHT THERE with a fresh, fluffy towel and wrap it warmly around my man when he pulls back the curtain to step out...

Now - your gentleman is dry...if he needs to - he does the mouthwash..gum...nekkid and READY!!

NOW - he moves to the table - let him choose the face cradle or PILLOW on top of the face cradle with his head turned to whatever side is comfortable....

OK - FBSM Girls....

THIS IS YOUR MOMENT IN TIME TO TUNE INTO MORE OF THIS MAN's ENERGY.....
.

Do your pre-review...

Does he have any injuries, any surgeries past or present?

Does he have any pain now? How "regular?"

When was the onset? Are you on any medication?

If so - can he rate his pain on a scale from 1-10?

These questions will give you an indication how to start off on your pressure as you break up the fossa between his musculature, release whatever pain he may be dealing with and leave even happier.

Your client was hoping for a nice rub and tug - no hassles.

He will be really pleased if you REALLY know what you are doing.

A pretty girl - just doing some kind of back massage, and gliding her hands up and down a man's penis aren't always necessarily enough to really give a man a an INCREDIBLE/MEMORABLE experience.

These men pay us as much as they pay doctors, lawyers and even more than their own mechanics - YOU BETTER BE GOOD.

Think about that for a moment.

RELAAaaaaax him...he is ONE with the table now...

Warm hands...on his shoulders...firm - yet gentle press...

Let HIM guide your bodywork.

"Low back pain? Legs? Chronic headache?"

For this man - you can be today's SWEET RELIEF.

Sincerely make FRIENDS and you will never go wrong.

Some clients might have pent-up, immediate, physical/emotional issues...

Some might actually relase tears after "release."

And that's ok...It's quiet...It's just you and him...

Let him release on ALL LEVELS.

Prepare and be ready for this.

If you're not ready to deal with this level of release - you need to get ready; it will happen in this line of work and when it happens it is very very special.

You can HELP...If he allows you to - and "let's you in."

It's not always all about the hj/cbj/bbbj "happy ending" -

It is all about THE ENTIRE RELEASE/ESCAPE EXPERIENCE.

Tune IN to your Friend...focus... RELAX..

As he breathes softly...takes in the warm, sugar-cookie, vanilla scent from the diffusers....

Breathes in...breathes out...

"Mmmmmmmmm..."

Let him snuggle into the pillow on top of the cradle...

The client can reelaaaaaxxxxx (even more)....

Now -

Rub the small amount of unscented/hypoallergenic oil between your hands (softly --- while your new friend is listening to the ocean waves/soft music)...

Massage Therapist, Providers - CENTER YOURSELF ...

breathe deeply with your hands on Your New Friend firmly
(yet gently) ...

Your breath is going in...going out...Going in....going out...
you are "matching your client" - alligning your breath and your energy with him....

NOW TUNE IN a little bit deeper....

You feel his breath...his ENERGY...

**
The Swedish/relaxation/deep tissue massage that you deliver with your, sweet, personal touch is a beautiful dance that your client will always remember.**

When he breathing deeply...or asleep...do soft, cranial/sacral massage....

Then ask him if he wants to turn over...

Give him a couple of extra pillows for his "viewing pleasure" - then let him relax and watch your "BEST WORK."

Watch his facial expressions as he floats off into the stratosphere...as you give him your own kind of exquisite joy...

He looks down at you...you look at him...smile...lick your lips...put your hair back over your ear and go back at it !

Then...take in ALL OF HIS APPRECIATION.

And afterward...softly press the bottom of his feet...place his legs back on the table...and let the soft music wash over both of you...listen to the waterfalls...the quiet...

BREATHE.

And -

LET IT BE

This has been a wonderful dance...

Go into the bathroom, rinse with antiseptic mouthwash, wash with soap and antiseptic cleanser...drench a fresh, clean,
"client washcloth" in hot/warm water (throw it into the hamper afterward) - give the washcloth a splash of antiseptic cleanser and softly...gently...drape it over your client's most sensitive parts while your client is relaxing....the soft music...the waterfalls...

Pause by his tableside... and gently whisper,

"How do you feel, now?"

Continue soft...gentle...cranial/sacral massage while your client
re-orientates themselves.

Kiss their foreheads...GENTLY bring them back...

Offer to take a shower with them/wash their back.

Wrap them in a warm, fluffy, towel and offer to help dry them off.

Help them get dressed (tie their shoes if need be), offer them juice, water, snacks (it's all frosty/ready on trays next to the door of the massage room so they can grab whatever they need on the way out)...

Do whatever (within your boundaries) they require in order to feel "complete" and comfortable...

Chit chat - share yourselves - after all YOU JUST had a very, relaxing, INTIMATE experience...

Give whatever "exit directions" necessary and gently disengage...

Go get in the bubble bath...sink down...relax and listen to the soft music...watch your sexy, reflection in the candlelight...

Then? Start tuning into your next Session's energy...

Imagine how your time together will be beautiful...exquisite...unique...relax and think of what kind of beautiful memory you can create together...

After all -

You may never see or love on this man again.

Give him something to remember FOREVER..

Remember - when your RB Gentleman is with you - it's all about him.

If he reciprocates - then it's a BONUS (but never expected)!

ENJOY! Create a beautiful memory for YOURSELF and your clients as well!

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

It's not an "O" until it's an OraliO.

Be the change
you wish to see

I am now seriously considering making the drive up to Auburn...Sure, it's only 2-3 hours...

That was fabulous.

Grip
Love to dive where it's wet

Thanks,

Can you visit the bay area???

"[catlover is]...honest, and an asset to RB."
-ferdinand