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POLL: For the Gals! When you see a guy and his refs are from escorts or an escort do you care
Posted by abbynormal on 24-Aug-10, 03:07 PM PST
Result after a total of 29 votes

No thats fine 17 votes, 58% Vote for this choice
Yes I worry a bit that he will have more expectations 8 votes, 27% Vote for this choice
Yes I worry a bit about health risks 1 votes, 3% Vote for this choice
Yes both of the above 3 votes, 10% Vote for this choice

 
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desirelayla
Member since 13-Aug-09
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26-Aug-10, 00:58 AM (PST)
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1. "RE: For the Gals! When you see a guy and his refs are from escort"
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   All that matters to me is that she's a respected, legitimate provider with a track record and some history. This means she's probably responsible and I can place some level of trust in her and her reference.

If a client sends me references solely from escorts I usually make sure to include a gentle reminder that I don't offer such services.
So far it's worked out pretty well.

The only client who has really harassed me during and after the session gave me reviews from massage girls only. After our session he left a nasty review because I didn't provide "more" and I noticed his handle had many such reviews, and most were for escorts that didn't stay in the business very long. So it's one piece of the puzzle but it's more of a passing thought than anything I would use to prejudge or reject someone.

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jamie_donier jamie_donier rating
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26-Aug-10, 09:41 AM (PST)
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2. "RE: For the Gals! When you see a guy and his refs are from escort"
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I am the same as Desirelayla. I do give a gentle reminder as well that I do not provide the same type of session than X provider, but as long as she is somewhat know (ie reviews) than I dont care much whether the reference comes from an FBSM gal or FS gal.

I have not had an incident where they expected more.

Jamie

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loveandkisses loveandkisses rating
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26-Aug-10, 01:26 PM (PST)
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3. "RE: For the Gals! When you see a guy and his refs are from escort"
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"I have not had an incident where they expected more."

... Lucky!

~Kiera~

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yellovv21
Member since 3-Feb-08
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26-Aug-10, 03:43 PM (PST)
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4. "RE: For the Gals! When you see a guy and his refs are from escort"
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   Coming as a client, it would be expected that our references come from other escorts we've seen, wither they are FBSM'ers, or escorts.

It allows us to keep this side of ourselves to just that, ourselves without having to worry about friends and family.

As a few other escorts have mentioned, if the references come from someone who's reputable, shouldn't that give more peace of mind as they would be honest about their experiences.

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Lustrous Lustrous rating
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27-Aug-10, 08:17 AM (PST)
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5. "RE: For the Gals! When you see a guy and his refs are from escort"
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   Coming as a client - well, I really have no idea what Yellovv is trying to say, so I'll put my two cents in...

This is a great post and I, too, am curious about the answer because I frequent both. Although currently my only regular is a FBSM girl, I have used escort references for FBSM providers in the past.

Sometimes you feel like a full meal and sometimes you feel like something light. I guess I can't speak for everyone, but I certainly know the difference when making appointments with escorts vs FBSM, although I have had FBSM girls see my references and get a bit nervous and remind me of their service limits, which is fine. That's a good practice and a very simple way of setting the expectations. If a guy is going to try to push the limits that have already been established, it's because he is an asshole, not because he has seen escorts in the past.

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tantrikcourtesan tantrikcourtesan rating
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27-Aug-10, 11:14 AM (PST)
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6. "RE: For the Gals! When you see a guy and his refs are from escort"
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   Lustrous, I like what you say :" If a guy is going to try to push the limits that have already been established, it's because he is an asshole, not because he has seen escorts in the past. "

Since I work in both worlds I make sure that the client understands the menu because there happens to be a price difference.

Anything worth doing is worth doing slowly.

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