2. "RE: Throwing rocks at dogs or cats."
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The person was in my backyard with another friend and I and decided it would be funny to throw a rock at my cat who was walking across my fence... I have no clue why. I was super pissed and they just started laughing about it like it was funny...attempting to make it seem ok. Acting like I was being the jerk. They called me an hour later after I kicked them out trying to explain, but I have no clue why anyone would throw a rock at an animal. Disgusting.
Still I am a very nice person and I did sort of wonder if I was being too sensitive about it.
4. "RE: Throwing rocks at dogs or cats."
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LAST EDITED ON 27-Aug-10 AT 06:59 AM (PST)
That is so sad. They are a fucking animal hating sadist and don't even know it. I don't know the relationship but if they are not family then I would have nothing to do with them. If they are family I would make future contact contingent on a full and unconditional apology. Every bully has an explanation. There is nothing to "explain". You absolutely did the right thing.
8. "RE: Throwing rocks at dogs or cats."
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I would fucking lose it, they deserve to die! I get mad if someone even calls my dog fat, I can't imagine what I would do if they tried to hurt one of them. Can't you get in trouble for hurting or trying to hurt an animal? You should check into that, they deserve to be punished in some way....
9. "RE: Throwing rocks at dogs or cats."
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If you allow them back in your circle of 'friends' you would bolster a case for enabling. Be careful about what lies beneath this character's behavior; abusing animals is a serious red flag.
10. "RE: Throwing rocks at dogs or cats."
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Ugh. Totally agree with the others. They may seem like nice "friends" on the surface, but there is seriously something wrong with their base character. One slight may not seem like a big deal to you or you may think you are being too sensitive, but this is a serious issue. What if they hit it in the head? You have a dead cat, right? They are not kids (I am assuming) and know better. They would be done, out the door and never welcomed in my life again. But that's just me.
13. "RE: Matter of degree"
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if they did that at a friends house to a friends pet in front of the friend, what are they capable of alone with a stray/lost animal? you need new friends!
12. "RE: Throwing rocks at dogs or cats."
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I would throw rocks at them until they ran screaming from my backyard. My mother loves to tell this story of how I punched a 17 year old boy in the face and gave him a bloody nose for swinging a cat by its tail. I was 5 years old.
14. "RE: Throwing rocks at dogs or cats."
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Play "dodge rock" (instead of dodge ball) with them and see how they like it! I'd ban them from ever coming around my place after I got all my animal lover friends to throw rocks at them. This would teach them a lesson in "empathy"? LOL!!!
The eyes of the world are on the cat-bin lady -- and on you too Mary Bale thought no one would see when she dumped Lola in a trash can. But the Internet found out and got mad Video By Andrew Leonard
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The curious case of the cat bin woman YouTube screen shot
Case closed. The Panopticon is here, signed, sealed and delivered. We've seen it coming since as far back as the days of Rodney King, but a few cops caught on hand-held video in the pre-Internet era is nothing compared to what the combination of ubiquitous closed-circuit television, videocam-equipped smart phones, YouTube, Facebook and Twitter have wrought. All of society now fits into Jeremy Bentham's vision of an all-seeing, all-knowing prison. Henceforth, no one is safe from society's pitiless scrutiny. Or maybe that means everyone's safe, because no one can get away with spontaneous spasms of crazy evil. It's hard to be sure.
That is the paradox raised by the extraordinary story of Mary Bale, the now-notorious "cat-bin woman." On Saturday, Bale, age 45, was walking down a street in Coventry, a city in the county of West Midlands in England, when she happened upon Lola, a 4-year-old tabby cat minding her own business. As captured by closed-circuit television, Bale first pets Lola, and then, for reasons that will probably never be fully clear either to herself or to the rest of the world, picks the cat up by the scruff of the neck, pops open the top of a nearby trash bin, and deposits the poor feline inside. Looking for a glimpse of the darkness that resides inside the soul of every human? Watch the video. It's not pretty.
According to the Daily Mail, the cat's owner, Darryl Mann, heard Lola meowing from inside the bin some 15 hours later. After inspecting footage from his own security cameras, he posted the video of the woman and the cat to a Facebook group. Cue: Viral video madness.
Now the whole world hates Mary Bale. Hundreds of thousands of viewers have weighed in, and its safe to say that Bale doesn't have a whole lot of fans. Death threats are flying around the Internet. The police have stationed guards at her home. Bale told the Daily Mail, "I did it as a joke because I thought it would be funny." She doesn't think it's so funny now.
It is not clear to me from the press coverage whether the police identified Bale on their own or whether the culprit was nailed by someone watching the footage on Facebook. But regardless, the lesson is the same: Video surveillance is a fact of public life, the ability to transfer that video to a distribution platform accessible to the entire computer-connected world is now absurdly trivial, and the emergence of social networks as powerful as Facebook means flash mobs can rise up in an instant's notice to vent their rage far and wide over whatever transgression has most recently captured their Twitter-induced ADHD imagination.
Does this constitute progress?
If, as a result of all this cat-bin lady furor, society registers a drop in the number of incidents involving trash cans and innocent pets, maybe some good will come out of all this. Certainly, the proliferation of amateur video has proven to be a significant, and growing, check against the kind of police abuses that were once committed routinely without any fear of reprisal. But there's still something spooky about our transformation into an everybody-watching-everybody-else-all-the-time society. Fifteen years ago, Darryl Mann would have found his cat in a trash can, been consumed with rage at the anonymous idiot who committed this terrible insult to the feline sensibility (or, more likely simply assumed it was an accident), and that would have been that. Yes, Mary Bale would have continued merrily on her way, free to inflict her reign of garbage-receptacle terror on the rest of Coventry's undeserving pets, and that would have been too bad. But I'm not overly infatuated with the alternative scenario either, in which every publicly visible human foible becomes viral video grist for the free-floating rage of a billion strangers.
But I guess we'll just have to get used to it. I don't think we're going back.
* Andrew Leonard is a staff writer at Salon. On Twitter, @koxinga21. More Andrew Leonard
ggannon
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27-Aug-10, 11:51 AM (PST)
17. "RE: Throwing rocks at dogs or cats."
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Jenna - you're not being too sensitive about it. What would you do if they threw a rock at your five-year old daughter? I don't see much difference. Me? I'd take a baseball bat to thier heads and maybe teach them some sensitivity. GG
19. "RE: Throwing rocks at dogs or cats."
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You don't want them to be your friends anymore. Write them off. They have revealed themselves.
I am a cat owner. Here are a few things I have learned over the years. It's best to keep the cat indoors away from jerks and to preserve the song bird population. Even if a cat is well fed it will hunt birds and other small prey. Outdoors cats must get feline leukemia shots or else they will get infected and die. There is no cure. Cats can get hurt in fights with other cats or animals. When I first moved into my house I let my cats out before I understood the best practices. Those 2 are gone and my currents cats are indoors only, in spite of their wishes.
I will never understand why people think it's OK to be cruel to cats or dogs.
25. "RE: Throwing rocks at dogs or cats."
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I had a smiler situation not to long ago. A guy (friend of a friend) threw a rock at one of my cats and hit it in the head. This happened right as I was walking into the backyard. Without saying a word I walked up behind him and slapped him upside the head pretty damn hard. All I said was "Hurts Don't It" with the appropriate glare.
I'm 6'2" and about 290lbs, he thought for a moment about starting something , but thought better of it real quick.
Normally I'm very mellow and easy to get along with, some even say I'm too reserved, but things like that will get a response out of me every time.