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Derf Derf rating
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"Smoking and FBSM"
 
When I was a kid , both my parents smoke heavenly,I hated it.I would open the window in my room for fresh air, and I lived on the east coast.
Now I absolutely will not see ladies that smoke,socially or professionally, if you know what I mean, one of the things I look for in the adds is if they smoke or not. I saw an add for
Holly Heaven and have lusted over her for quite a while. Her add has one picture with a cigarette in her hand, and I thought damn, too bad, yet her reviews say she does not, picture below.
So, the question is, am I overly sensitive to this, due to my earlier upbringing.
How do the rest of you feel about this.
Thx

Derf
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loveandkisses loveandkisses rating
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1. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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LAST EDITED ON 28-Aug-10 AT 04:51 PM (PST)
 
I say... try to look past it and go see her!
Bet you wouldn't even be able to tell she ever held a cigarette.

~Kiera~

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notmeithink
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2. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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   I felt the same when I saw that pic but then I went ahead and assumed the cigarette was just for the pic and doesn't mean she smokes. It could be a prop?

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3. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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There are plenty of ladies that smoke, but in their reviews they say that she doesn't. I for one am an ex-smoker and think it is nasty. But if one takes care, and makes sure to wash up and brush teeth after and change clothes then they won't smell. I know Holly very well, and I can honestly say that she never smells like cigarettes, she should mean something coming from a non-smoker. I feel that my nose is extra sensitive to it now that I no longer partake. You should go see her she is a very nice person and I'm sure you wouldn't be disappointed.
Giapet

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stook2005
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4. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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   What's the big deal? It's not like she has a cigarette dangling in her mouth during a session. Actually that would be kinda cool during a session.


-stook2005

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5. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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   I am with you, Derf. My father chain-smoked when I was a kid and now I am very sensitive to it. It's a very unattractive smell and if you are like me, it can be distracting to the sensual experience. I don't think it is out of line to inquire about whether she partakes in this habit. If she knows how sensitive you are to it, (like if it's a BK), she would most likely prepare for a nicotine-free scented experience. Good luck, she's a babe! Let us know how it turns out!!

xo
SavannahCMT

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Elation1 Elation1 rating
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6. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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I just stated earlier that she doesn't smell like cigarettes, in any way shape or form.

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summerrayne summerrayne rating
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7. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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There are few girls that will pose with a cigarette simply because there are gentlemen who have a cigarette fetish and they are willing to entertain the gentleman's fancy - but they don't "really" smoke in real life (that's why reviewers say she "doesn't smoke").

It's kind of like providers that beat the bejeezus outta fellas for a living (Doms) - but are submissive or on equal footing in their RL relationships.

I would not entertain either fantasy - but I'm just "me."


"Can you hit me in the balls and smoke a cigarette during our session?"

"No -

but I can refer to someone safe who WILL! "


It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

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8. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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Ouch, that could really hurt!!!
Thanks for all of the insightfull comments

Derf
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16. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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LAST EDITED ON 31-Aug-10 AT 08:17 PM (PST)
 

I only aim to pleeeeeeeeease....


It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

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jonny_jon33
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9. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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   more like smoking HOT

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jonny_jon33
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10. "smoking"
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   LAST EDITED ON 30-Aug-10 AT 01:14 PM (PST)
 
but seriously...lighten up

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desirelayla
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11. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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   I smoke 1-2 cigarettes a month, and only when I'm out clubbing or otherwise partying. It's a nasty habit overall.

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bluethrills bluethrills rating
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12. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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All I have to say is, kiss a non-smoker and taste the difference !

Cheers,
- blue thrills


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Suvii
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13. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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   I'd call her and ask her. It might just be a prop! Ignore this if its already been suggested.
I refuse to pose with a cig for personal reasons, but many models feel like its part of the gig.

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breedan
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15. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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   same goes for coffee drinkers, alcohol drinkers, garlic/onion eaters, certain vitamins...........

shoot, I am just happy a provider wants to kiss me, she could be a paint inhaler as far as I am concerned.

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breedan
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14. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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   I was extremely sensitive to smoke smells when I was young, along with perfume, hair spray and the smell of tuna casserole. I certainly understand the trigger of childhood trauma (which growing up with a parent that chain-smoked must be).

That being said, I am so fed up with the recent persecution of smokers. I do not smoke, but is it not hypocritical to be proudly "tolerant" of others, and then be so hateful of smoke (and the smoker) in your very distant presence? Smoke can give me a migraine, but I know the mere smell of it will not do it, and if so, its my problem, not the smokers.

The need to persecute seems to be innate in us.

I think she is hot, and something in her mouth is even hotter. Reminds me of the movie " Body Heat".

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17. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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Something in her mouth...let me think about that interesting pictures pop into my pointy head.

Derf
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18. "RE: Smoking and FBSM"
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   As a newbie to all this, I have to comment, simply because this is "my" area. I've been a smoking fetishist for years, dating back to around high school when ALL the hot chicks smoked. And still a smoking (hot) woman still turns me on more than anything else. I smoked in high school and college and had to quit when I got married, occasionally smoking a few here and there. And since I have a Catholic conscience, NO WAY could I indulge myself with a non-smoking wife.

As the years went on and our marriage made its way downhill, I started smoking again when I was sure that we were going to get divorced (still secretly, at night when everyone else was asleep). My oldest daughter and son both found out eventually, along with my mother-in-law, but I would just say it was "stress" (partially true). That old devil, internet porn, creeped in and I was able to satisfy myself through latex and smoking fetish sites. Then the wall came down. I realized after seeing a clip from a porn movie where a really hot actress had on a latex top and smoked while doing her lover, here was nirvana. That was it for me right there.

So now that I am divorced and have a GF that doesn't really attract me sexually, here i am, dipping my foot into "hobbying." I have made some inroads and I'm near settling on a couple of providers who are into my line of fetishes.

So I'm curious to see where it all leads me. I'm looking forward to this next chapter of my life.

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