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GroundShark GroundShark rating
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"Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
 
   So through my time in the FBSM world I've experienced a multitude of finishes...nothing out of the ordinary: handjob, CBJ, BBBJ, Russian, and even humping the lower back/upper asscrack and finishing on her back. I've decided my least favorite is probably the most common. This is laying on my back and the provider doing your typical HE with her hands and the final product landing all over myself. I mean, I really don't want that stuff landing on my stomach...LOL. I could swear one provider even pointed my dick right at my face! How terrible would that have been if I gave myself a facial? Hahaha. But not once had a provider ever discussed how she wanted my preferred ending to be and I know it's kinda lame to script it but would it be rude to tell her that the finish can be whatever she's comfortable with as long as the batter doesn't land on myself? The one exception where I didn't mind was when I got the BJ and she didn't want CIM so when it was time to squirt she pulled it out and it landed on me. Do you guys have this discussion and how to you do it so it doesn't seem too planned?

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TimSmith
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1. "How long?"
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   I wonder how long it will be until a client asks for (or a provider advertises) "a GroundShark ending"...

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desirelayla
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2. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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   I think many people don't want to discuss the gory details due to LE concerns...

I think the better girls allow release to happen organically, and the position can vary greatly from session to session...

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3. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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Hmmm that reminds me I need to see you again Layla!

Grip
Love to dive where it's wet

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phunguy1
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4. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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   I don't mind it landing on myself. Personally I think it would be extremely hot to have her cause me to give myself a facial. I've done this with one woman and would love to try it with others.

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RebeccaSage RebeccaSage rating
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5. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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Sometimes I ask a client where he'd like to cum. More often maybe not tho. Usually it just evolves out of what's going on at the moment of truth ( ) It depends really...depends on the session, on the client, on the particular mood of it all, on whether Venus is in dalliance with the rings of Saturn or if Pluto had a bad orbiting experience . . . hee hee, just kidding! They (sessions & clients) really are all different.

So my point is, don't ever hesitate to ask, or to discuss what you want, any time during the session... providers might be "incredibly intuitive", or sometimes its just an "amazing connection" but don't let those ideals stop any of you boyz from the simple act of just telling us what you need & want!

RS

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6. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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   Hopefully some day I can have this conversation with you

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RebeccaSage RebeccaSage rating
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7. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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Well damn GroundShark, what's holding you up?!

I'd say, "I promise not to bite" but that'd be a flat out lie! But gently, really, just gently I swear. . .

We can't let all these beautiful teeth just sit out on all the fun now, can we?

RS

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8. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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   i guess that all depends on what is bitten...

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10. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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where's the faith Bubba?

RS

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11. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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   is faith a euphenism for...?

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RebeccaSage RebeccaSage rating
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12. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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Oh dear, bubbaistheone, I'm afraid I've shoved us both down a long & slippery slope... with no hope of regaining solid footing anytime soon...

hee hee

But seriously, I should stop this before we roll much further down into the gutter--together!

I did **NOT** intend to imply BJs are ever available in session with me, and it'd be irresponsible--not to mention grossly unfair--of me to let such assumptions continue floating around here as a possibility, when no such possibility exists... pardon me for creating any *unintentional* false hopes of such



Rebecca

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GroundShark GroundShark rating
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13. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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   LOL. You know us guys. We see a slight opening and we go right for it!!

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RebeccaSage RebeccaSage rating
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16. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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>> You know us guys. We see a slight opening and we go right for it!! <<

LMAO, no pun intended of course!

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bubbaistheone bubbaistheone rating
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19. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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   (tongue in cheek)

and i thought you were open minded!

open to wherever the road might lead...

haha!

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RebeccaSage RebeccaSage rating
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21. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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Alright buster-- I mean Bubba -- when is that road leading you here?!

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22. "OK you two, get a room"
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   Y'all need to get a room.

And have a great time, too

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bubbaistheone bubbaistheone rating
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23. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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   rs-1, b1-0.

okay you got me.

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Miranda_Velocity Miranda_Velocity rating
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9. "y'all know I'm half Russian,right?"
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   this is an excellent topic to bring up, as I am always all for stamping out vulgarity & ugliness in the world-- particularly in our lil special one here in Redbook.

now, those who have rolled around on my bed with me know I AM a fan of Russians (like, it's one of the things I think about when I'm getting off by myself), but that is not a requisite activity to my enjoyment of a session. I have however mentioned it when doing so has been apropos. If a gentleman caller has a preference as to where he'd like to have his finale production land, I would hope he'd inform me ahead of time (some of us do have unique desires).

generally with me things just go "organically", as an earlier writer here so well termed. I have spoken up well in advance--gently-- if it seems a CIM moment may be at hand...er,mouth (that's not something I do for any fella in my life).

I hope I've dealt with this situation well over my time of being sexually active; I'm sure I've room for improvement, but suffice to say, the only facial you'll be getting in VelocityLand is one made from very expensive Hungarian rose petals and organic honey,the same as I give myself. Unless, of course, you do have other,unique desires... I'm a non-judgmental kinda lassie.

yours in red lipstick,
MV.

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14. "RE: y'all know I'm half Russian,right?"
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Dittos to what Miranda and Rebecca S. said!

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

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15. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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   How about CTDH (cum through the donut hole)?

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17. "Great question."
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   I'm glad you brought this up, GroundShark. I don't think that having a casual conversation in the beginning has to lead to things feeling "planned". At the beginning of a session I like to ask if there are any specific sore spots, muscle aches, etc, that I should know about.

In the same spirit, as things progressively get more sensual I will ask if there is anything in particular that drives the gent crazy. This gives him an opportunity to let me know about his preferences without things feeling like a script. Most men seem to be appreciative and even if there is nothing specific, it's nice to be asked, isn't it?

My final say is this, if you (politely) ask for something you have a 50/50 chance of getting it. If you don't ask, the odds are 100% that you won't.

Hope everyone is having a great weekend so far!

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18. "RE: Do you discuss the finish prior to the start of the session?"
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   "I'd say, "I promise not to bite" but that'd be a flat out lie! But gently, really, just gently I swear. . .

We can't let all these beautiful teeth just sit out on all the fun now, can we?"

To mean BJ's?!? You are so KINKY......( see below)

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=42054688

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RebeccaSage RebeccaSage rating
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20. "That's Hysterical Remy!"
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And you say I'm kinky ?

(>> You are so KINKY. <<)

Thanks for the great G'mornin' laugh!

RS

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24. "RE: That's Hysterical Remy!"
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I had someone call this week and ask for a DP (double pump).Its nice when a guy can tell you what he wants.

I have the table/futon ending , I love doing BC standing up…


(BC: Bill Clinton)

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25. "RE: That's Hysterical Remy!"
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"I love doing BC standing up… "


I've never heard that..love it

Be the change
you wish to see

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