Be the change
you wish to see

Any girl (heck - you don't even have to BE a "girl") to be an "escort."

Lie on a hotel bed or your own bed, chat a bit, cover everything, bob on the knob a bit, don't kiss (God forbid), spread 'em - now move 'em in and move 'em out!

Chip chop chip.

Some escorts are very classy, well-skilled companions and can even turn into friends; there are all different skill levels across the board.

However, you are remiss in equating FBSM girls with the common SW.

Not to put those providers down (they work hard too) - but you rag on us alot and it's simply not warranted.

If all you want is an escort - go over to their boards and make appointments with THEM.

Stop harranguing FBSM/CMT girls to be something that doesn't conform to your desires.

There are plenty of RB girls elsewhere on this site that will do what you want.

However, FS and/or RBGFE girls that are well-reviewed and look like stunning fashion models might be out of your price-range.

Not to be mean - but is that why you're always complaining?

To practice the healing art of therapeutic massage and serious body work, you actually have to spend thousands of dollars, hundreds of hours in school and meet a series of complicated requirements.

http://www.massage-exam.com/california-massage.php

And this is only what is required for the STATE level.

For those of us pursuing national certifications, it is much, much more.

I know some fellas get ticked off because we charge as much as escorts and (for the most part) while not full service - delight and encourage emotional/spiritual/intellectual/phsycial connections.

I know I am generalizing, but if you are looking for a beautiful, safe, well-reviewed FBSM provider to give you a real CMT-level/sensual massage in her professional, well-appointed massage studio, cover you with kisses, go down on you and take it in the (insert desired orafice here) repeatedly w/MSOG for $160 an hour or less?...

Come on now.

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

As a giver and with someone very open my experience can be orgasmic and I don't mean orgasm through genital stimulation. Orgasmic from a energy/spiritual stand point which is much more satisfying. That may sound woo woo, but believe me it's not..lol

Yes, for many its massage and a HJ and that's okay, but it can be so much more.

If you haven't seen the documentary the "Sacred Prostitute" by Kennith Stubbs I highly recommend it.Stubbs being a pioneer of the sensual/sexual massage movement.

There is also "Reclaiming Eros" by Suzanne Blackburn and Margaret Wade

One more "Women of the Light" By Stubbs

I'd also say that, while it's not my personal path, there certainly can be FS ladies who bring presence, intuition, creativity, and healing to what they do.

We're all working in the realms of pleasure, and when respect is present there is healing there, on some level ... As the book "Women of the Light" shows, there are many different, valid ways of walking a path of the erotic arts.

"Desire is the beginning of all
creation..."

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Well said, Mr Owl!

Astrid Star, CMT
FBSM

http://www.puppetryofthepenis.com/

Hilarious!

More people should follows these fellas!

So funny, intellegent and informational!

http://forum.myredbook.com/cgi-bin/alink.pl?ab=http://www.puppetryofthepenis.com/

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

SO! True. I love the sensual energy exchange.
Cat

Desperation is an incredible master - and it will drive you to the deepest depths of incomprehensible demoralization.

Don't fall into "the trap."

Every FBSM/CMT provider has her own unique way of "sharing the love" with the friends that she makes in this world.

Personally?

I am not spending thousands of dollars in school, national, city, and state licensing to just bend over my table and get drilled and @ss-raped by untold strangers day in and day out.

I never offered that kind of stuff - but had clients that have showed up for THERAPEUTIC massage - $60 bucks an HOUR - and try to get aggressive.

They get kindly, but firmly handed their money back and get shown the door.

As far as what I currently do -

I love kissing, hugging, holding, talking - and the true CONNECTION that occurs between two human beings.

However, I didn't go through all of these, pay all of these thousands of dollars for school so I could learn how to better help my clientele through their phyisical issues, etc.

To all RB providers - you should always be focused on great customer service, making friends, and running your business -

NOT having your business running YOU.

DD - you have a great business and a lot of great friends; you are obviously doing something right.

To all of my friends here:

Live life, be safe, enjoy, and have FUN!

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

Have A Decadent Dianne Day

Ok to answer, I have been both escort and fbsm artist. There is an art to fbsm as it requires a bit more imagination and creativity, in my experience. It is constantly growing and changing practice - truly dynamic. And since I got interested in introducing a bit of kink and Tantra to some of my well-known folks, it keeps getting more interesting, even though I am providing much less of it, as I limit my sensual sessions to about one or two per week, and more focused on my straight thera practice.I like dabbling in it to keep a fresh perspective on all things sensual as they relate to our whole expression of wellness and well-being.