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"Women prefer well endowed men."
 
   http://www.salon.com/2013/04/09/this_just_in_women_prefer_well_endowed_men/?source=newsletter

Not sure whether I agree with the findings of the Australian national university. The sampling of 105 women does not create a wide
enough view in my estimation.

Some of the assumptions by the writer are pretty ridickulous (pardon the pun) "not only did the women rate the better-endowed men more sexually attractive, they spent more time gazing – no doubt fondly — at their pictures."
Women are not exposed to male sexual body parts the way men are so the "no doubt gazing fondly" is a presumption of writer.

I find this article flawed..any thoughts??????

This just in – it’s not the motion of the ocean. Or, as an NBC News headline put it this week, “Women like men with bigger penises.” Because SCIENCE.

This earth-shattering revelation comes to us via a study from the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences (PNAS), in which a team at Australian National University showed 105 women a variety of computer-generated images of nude male figures. Brian Mautz, the study’s lead author, told NBC this week that when the women rated the men on their sexual allure, “As you increase penis size, the amount of attractiveness scores gets bigger.”

And, the study noted, not only did the women rate the better-endowed men more sexually attractive, they spent more time gazing – no doubt fondly — at their pictures. This, as a friend of mine was swift to dub it, will be called the Jon Hamm Effect.

A very small sampling of apparently heterosexual women gazing at artificially created images of men in their flaccid glory is not exactly a flawless case for what Spinal Tap once referred to as “armadillos in our trousers.” And the study found that other factors, such as height and shoulder-to-hip ratio, also figure prominently in a man’s appeal. But suffice to say the report could also have been called “Why Ryan Lochte Can Have Any Straight Woman on the Planet.”

Yet this latest news does have the same sort of no duh resonance as that 2012 study that revealed men like bigger breasts. Mautz suggests that the preference for bigger packages is “consistent with a mate-choice perspective.”

As an amateur scientist, I’ve been extolling the merits of big penises my whole adult life. And while National Geographic this week puzzled naively that “It’s not totally clear why women prefer bigger penises,” it did note Mautz’ suggestion that “studies have shown that women prefer larger sizes because they can increase sexual satisfaction.”

Aside from the immediate recreational appeal of a penis that holds that kind of promise, evolutionary theory suggests a more complex reasoning. Sexual satisfaction leads to orgasm leads to the release of oxytocin in a woman’s brain, “activating bonding circuits.” In other words, ladies, that post-coital “I think I’m in luuuuuuuv” stupor is real — and it’s all the fault of that damn big penis.

The encouraging news for humans of all dimensions is that Mautz reports that the ideal penis size in his sampling was fairly close to the average, suggesting that overachievement in this field is not necessary. And after a certain point, penis length and overall appeal begin to dovetail. “As you get a larger and larger penis, it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re getting more and more attractive.” So you can delete that penis-extender spam and put away your credit card. Bigger is nice, but jumbo-size isn’t required.

Mautz admitted this week that the study’s results are likely to be contentious, but also open up room for spirited conversation. “It’s important that you are serious in science, and our results are solid — but it doesn’t necessarily mean you can’t have fun with it.”

And if you want to have fun, studies show that a bigger penis is definitely an excellent starting point.

Mary Elizabeth Williams is a staff writer for Salon and the author of "Gimme Shelter: My Three Years Searching for the American Dream." Follow her on Twitter: @embeedub.

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1. "RE: Women prefer well endowed men."
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   The person who can figure out how to make penises bigger will be the richest person in the world.

I have no idea if what the study says is true or not but I wonder what happens to all these women when they have to settle for the less endowed guy. After all larger than average means most guys are not going to cut it. Do they just buy a big vibrator?

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2. "Its interesting that Playgirl Magazine was never that successful"
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   LAST EDITED ON 09-Apr-13 AT 11:01 PM (PST)
 
I think generally visuals effect women less than men. Seems logical though that when they do, that larger to a point would be more attractive.

Since these were pictures of guys in flaccid states the old length versus girth argument didn't really apply. Most women I have talked to say really long guys hurt while really thick guys please at least some.

So what does this study say? I guess size matters but only when the men are viewed in a non aroused state. Sort of like saying the statue of David might be more attractive if it was larger. For anything more it seems like the true test is who does she remember as being the best sex the big guy or the average guy. My guess is that so much else comes into play that the guy with the biggest tongue might actually win out.

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3. "RE: Its interesting that Playgirl Magazine was never that success"
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>My guess is that so much else comes into
>play that the guy with the biggest tongue might actually win
>out.

It's not the size of the tongue, it's the ocean of the motion and whether you get seasick or not.

or something like that.

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4. "RE: Its interesting that Playgirl Magazine was never that success"
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<<It's not the size of the tongue, it's the ocean of the motion and whether you get seasick or not.>> bwahaha....

I have heard other women rave over the ginormus penius maximus, but I never understood this. In fact, I have found this could be very painful. So each to his/her own penis I guess...

xoxo, Rose

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5. "RE: Its interesting that Playgirl Magazine was never that success"
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   So each to his/her own penis I
>guess...
>xoxo, Rose

I do prefer my own penis, don't you?

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6. "RE: Its interesting that Playgirl Magazine was never that success"
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A big cock is both a curse and a blessing

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7. "So confusing ..."
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Should I order the penis extender or not?

Please advise.

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8. "RE: So confusing ..."
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   According to the book. "A Billion Wicked Thoughts" men be them straight or gay are more interested in cock size then women.

Ms Bliss

http://www.billionwickedthoughts.com/index.html

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9. "RE: Women prefer well endowed men."
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The science is based on some fuzzy technology. Subjects are asked to rate the sexual desirability of the images they view when the test is actually timing how long the subject views an image. Theoretically the longer time spent viewing a particular genre is dispostive as to true interests. Nonetheless, the courts have disallowed any such testing from being entered as evidence.

http://abelscreening.com/

Your reality is not my reality.

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10. "RE: Women prefer well endowed men."
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   actually in a Billion Wicked thoughts that theory is based on peoples behavior as well as answers to questions. Go figure what people do might be differant then what they say LOL!

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11. "RE: Women prefer well endowed men."
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   Men prefer it even more...

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12. "RE: Women prefer well endowed men."
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   "Men prefer it even more... " Maybe. Consider that the chance of receiving full deep throat is inversely proportional to penis size.

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13. "RE: Women prefer well endowed men."
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   OMG! The Book is great I have been listening to it on CD while I do dishes and tidy up (in the nude of course . I love the look on my friend's face when she walked in to the kitchen and there is an upper class British sounding voice listing the names for big cock web sites as opposed to tiny cock sites.

InBLiss,
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14. "RE: Women prefer well endowed men."
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While a large cock may seem exciting in pictures....in reality it can be a double edged sword.

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15. "In other news:"
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NEWSFLASH

Women like men who listen to them without commentary, preferably then agreeing with everything said.


Yeah, am married long time.

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16. "RE: Women prefer well endowed men."
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Here's a better article about the study detailing how it was done.

http://news.sciencemag.org/sciencenow/2013/04/the-final-word-on-penis-size.html

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17. "Most likely it's evolution . . ."
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women (and men) have evolved to select a partner most likely to knock them up successfully and provide for the subsequent offspring. Apparently a larger, rather than smaller unit is better at this. Larger, but not too large. We find big weiners and big titties attractive because they are helpful in the begetting and nursing of offspring.

Plus they're great to hold on to! (The titties I mean!)

Evolution. That's my theory and I'm stickin' to it!

NTO

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18. "RE: Most likely it's evolution . . ."
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I had a well mown FBSM provider call me to come see her because she heard I had a very lock cock and she offered a discounted session if I would let her see it.

She got really pissed when I walked into her studios with a big chicken under my arm.


"Did I shave my butt crack for this"

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19. "RE: Most likely it's evolution . . ."
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   It is odd to think that my non provider friends (unless they go to Harbin or Burningman) have not really seen that many cocks in the wild.

InBliss,
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24. "RE: Most likely it's evolution . . ."
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A handsome cock in the wild...

~ Alexa
Peace on earth, one sighting at a time



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20. "RE: Most likely it's evolution . . ."
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>Plus they're great to hold on to! (The titties I mean!)

Rrriiiiiigggghhhhhhtttttt

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21. "RE: Women prefer well endowed men."
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In this particular article/study isn't context required?

That is to say what we find visually appealing (in a photograph) may not be the same in whom we find is the ideal sex partner. For example while models are great to look at in picture, have you ever fucked one? Tall, almost too tall, not a lot of meat on their bones so certain positions were typical woman has padding they have little/none and its not pleasure IME.

Sort of in the same way a girl can admire a pic with a hung guy in her mind she's thinking "wow that guy is HOT but HELL NO, I'm never putting a cock that big in my pussy let alone my ass"

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22. "Hehehe"
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   This:

http://media.oglaf.com/comic/bfcs.jpg

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   OMG, thank you. My SO and I just spent hours reading and laughing ourselves silly over the entire archive of Oglaf.

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25. "RE: Women prefer well endowed men."
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   Both sexes like each other for what is in the pants. The men want what is in the women's panties, and the woman want what is in the man's wallet.

(-:

I think a mans body is not as important to a woman as a womans body is to a man. Sexist opinion? well maybe, but I still think this is true.

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