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water_vixen
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12 posts		 19-Jun-10, 08:12 PM (PST)
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"I'm FBSM looking to be BDSM but not sure where to start..."
 
Hello All!
I need some advice on how to beat my way into the dominatrix world. I got the look and the shoes and a bettie page book but... where to go from here? Is there a space that might coach me? I'd be willing to offer lower priced sessions to someone willing to show me the ropes and chains? I'm not interested in most sub work or myself being bondage-d but I think I'd be good at providing some light spanking and verbal-ness. Thanks for reading!

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Anzo1
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73 posts		 19-Jun-10, 10:43 PM (PST)
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1. "RE: I'm FBSM looking to be BDSM but not sure where to start..."
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   Are you looking to combine your FBSM service to a BDSM service? Sort of combining the two sessions together? You may want to try using strap-on or offering prostate massage first. And then you can get into smothering, ass and breasts worship, verbal humiliation, etc.

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Lilith Lilith rating
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1124 posts, 10 feedbacks, 18 points		 19-Jun-10, 11:28 PM (PST)
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2. "RE: I'm FBSM looking to be BDSM but not sure where to start..."
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If you're serious about getting into Domination, then take classes. Cleo DuBois and Eve Minax offer an intensive that is very highly rated. You can also learn a lot of skills classes from Society of Janus or at the Citadel. The SOJ Calendar lists everything BDSM that is happening in town. http://www.soj.org/ and look for calendar.

Lilith

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Anzo1
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73 posts		 20-Jun-10, 06:19 AM (PST)
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3. "RE: I'm FBSM looking to be BDSM but not sure where to start..."
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   LAST EDITED ON 20-Jun-10 AT 06:19 AM (PST)
 
Do you not want to be an FBSM provider and want to provide BDSM only? Or do you want to be both? Just wondering.

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water_vixen
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12 posts		 20-Jun-10, 04:02 PM (PST)
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4. "RE: I'm FBSM looking to be BDSM but not sure where to start..."
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Hello!
Many thx lilith! SOJ looks like what I'm looking for. And classes sound much smarter than just jumping in. I'll have to see whats around. I find bdsm most appealing. Perhaps I will return strapped with knowledge?
cheerz,
-mareena

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37320 posts, 129 feedbacks, 220 points		 21-Jun-10, 08:44 AM (PST)
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5. "A moment for a musical interruption..."
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In reference to your ad. One of my fave songs.

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173 posts, 4 feedbacks, 6 points		 27-Jun-10, 02:07 AM (PST)
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10. "RE: A moment for a musical interruption..."
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sailorgirl


thank you for that interuption....it brought a smile to my face.....

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Acee5
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6. "RE: I'm FBSM looking to be BDSM but not sure where to start..."
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   I like the idea of this!

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jaeleen jaeleen rating
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371 posts, 8 feedbacks, 16 points		 24-Jun-10, 11:17 AM (PST)
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7. "RE: I'm FBSM looking to be BDSM but not sure where to start..."
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I just received a note today that they're looking for 2 more women for the Professionals' Erotic Dominance Intensive in SF at the end of July

Here's the link:


http://www.sm-arts.com/intensives/pros.html

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mistahbig
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144 posts, Rate mistahbig		 25-Jun-10, 01:22 PM (PST)
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9. "RE: I'm FBSM looking to be BDSM but not sure where to start..."
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   LAST EDITED ON 25-Jun-10 AT 01:22 PM (PST)
 
>I just received a note today that they're looking for 2 more
>women for the Professionals' Erotic Dominance Intensive in
>SF at the end of July
>

Jaleen- Any reason why Bondassage training/practice wouldn't be a natural transition for her?

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jaeleen jaeleen rating
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371 posts, 8 feedbacks, 16 points		 27-Jun-10, 02:02 PM (PST)
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11. "RE: I'm FBSM looking to be BDSM but not sure where to start..."
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Because in my own work, I'm not big into "verbal-ness" or fetish dressing. I think she wants more of a well-rounded education and I'm a bit more of a specialist.

Also, she didn't indicate that she wanted to learn Bondassage (and she's not a CMT).

I think she'd learn more from classes at the Citadel/Society of Janus/Exiles/Academy of SM Arts than from me...

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tangoloco
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8. "RE: I'm FBSM looking to be BDSM but not sure where to start..."
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   I've seen several providers who have BDSM training and experience, and who offer both FBSM and BDSM. I have no idea how open they would be to doing doubles, but it might be worth asking.


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Rebecca: http://classifieds.myredbook.com/classified.php?adid=96288

Jessica: http://classifieds.myredbook.com/classified.php?adid=71647

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3448 posts, 156 feedbacks, 276 points		 18-Jul-10, 09:37 AM (PST)
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13. "RE: I'm FBSM looking to be BDSM but not sure where to start..."
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>>>I've seen several providers who have BDSM training and experience, and who offer both FBSM and BDSM.
Lulu: http://classifieds.myredbook.com/classified.php?adid=113531

Rebecca: http://classifieds.myredbook.com/classified.php?adid=96288

Jessica: http://classifieds.myredbook.com/classified.php?adid=71647 <<<


I don't know Jessica, but the other 2 are friends who I KNOW are pretty damn good (or bad, as the case may be!).

I would add Zoe Rothstein, Nicole Berkeley & Morgan Joy to that list. xo bd

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Bison_13
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55 posts		 14-Jul-10, 05:47 PM (PST)
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12. "RE: I'm FBSM looking to be BDSM but not sure where to start..."
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   What kind of BDSM activities will you be offering?

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